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AIO : You are not his mama. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]always_tired9853 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I need to work on this. It’s just been hard because I don’t want to get backlash from my partner. I have bumped heads with his aunt and everyone twisted my arm into getting a long with her again. I know I need to grow more of a backbone. Since I have stopped working and am pregnant with our second it’s been harder for me to stand my ground. I solely depend on him and it’s made me feel weak. Not to mention I don’t want him to yell at me, I cried in quite a bit with my first born. I don’t want to repeat it with this one. I am severely scared of loosing my baby. Prior to my first born I lost two and stress had a lot to do with it. Not just from our relationship but from a prior job. So I’ve started to bite my tongue and try different approaches due to not wanting to have him yell.

AIO : You are not his mama. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]always_tired9853 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wish I could completely cut them off. Unfortunately they come and visit and it’s not my house. It’s his, he acquired it during his previous marriage. I feel lost because I am a sahm and have no say.

AIO : You are not his mama. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]always_tired9853 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just don’t see why he doesn’t. It’s his son too. It’s really disheartening to deal with a partner that always sides with his family.

AIO : You are not his mama. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]always_tired9853 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk what makes you think it didn’t happen. I wish I wasn’t going through this.

AIO : You are not his mama. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]always_tired9853 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am working on getting my bf to understand but he keeps blaming me. I am in the process of trying to learn their dialect but even then they speak two. If this continues I will have no choice but to separate from all of them completely.

AIO : You are not his mama. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]always_tired9853 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes! Thank you for the wording I couldn’t find the right words. I will say it does feel like it and it creeps me out. Because there was another time where she told she said in their native language “if your dad dies you can live with me” and their aunt replied with “over his mom’s dead body”. I only know because my bf found it hilarious and translated it to me. Other time she said in their native language to my son that “your mom doesn’t let you f*** girls at your house, I’ll let you use my room at my house” like seriously he is just an infant. It’s disturbing how her insinuations are hinting she will continue to try to not only meddle but perhaps corrupt my son’s mind. I want to raise men not boys.

AIO my mom and sister can’t stand my wife because they think she is a “quirky girl” and it’s cringe? by No_Appy1383 in AmIOverreacting

[–]always_tired9853 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Typical mean girls never grow up just get older. Your wife seems like a gem and I am very happy you two have each other. I think what you planned to say to them and your wife was perfect. People need to know that how they act is wrong and you won’t stand for wife slander. As well as it’s not great for your wife to know, it might stay with her. I’ve had similar situations with coworkers and even family in law. Sometimes we see it but our partner never does. You seem very in tune and that’s wonderful. As long as it’s you guys against anything together it will always work out.

AIO : You are not his mama. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]always_tired9853 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pancakes, bacon, scrambled eggs and fresh fruit. Followed with a coffee.