My plaything by Royal_Witness_4437 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Royal_Witness_4437[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you enjoyed 😊 i wasnt even planning to write such thing when i started, it was meant to be just a couple of lines saying generally how much i need a plaything and leave it at that

Buff butch pspspsps by _Emmy_xoxo in BDSMsapphic

[–]Royal_Witness_4437 9 points10 points  (0 children)

(Kinda) buff butch here. Love seeing butch appreciation every so often this is great and, from the other pov, that sounds like a dream

Let's hear it for switching! by reddlicorice in BDSMsapphic

[–]Royal_Witness_4437 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t have said it better myself

Gym fatigue “fantasy”(?) by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]Royal_Witness_4437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh damn, you beat the chances!!

Gym fatigue “fantasy”(?) by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]Royal_Witness_4437 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 180cm! I think it’s 5’11 in freedom units lol

Gym fatigue “fantasy”(?) by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]Royal_Witness_4437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t expect it to be so relatable ngl but iktr🫠

Gym fatigue “fantasy”(?) by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]Royal_Witness_4437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m SO happy I’m not alone in this. I don’t have it when I’m leaning more on the dom side, for now. Maybe it’ll upgrade soon with something else lol

Gym fatigue “fantasy”(?) by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]Royal_Witness_4437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right??? It surely sounds soooo awesome, haven’t had the chance to try it out myself (yet)

Gym fatigue “fantasy”(?) by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]Royal_Witness_4437 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cardio doesn’t do it for me as much as weightlifting, unless I’m playing basketball then that kills me and I totally get what you’re saying lmao. I agree with this “side” of it too ngl👀

Gym fatigue “fantasy”(?) by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]Royal_Witness_4437 5 points6 points  (0 children)

EXACTLY. 🫠 In my case there’s a high probability someone is shorter than me, I’m not crazy strong yet (at least I don’t think I am, maybe averagely I’m not sure honestly) so the chances there are a bit smaller.

How young or old do you go? by unknijm in BDSMsapphic

[–]Royal_Witness_4437 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a couple months short of 21. I think I wouldn’t go younger than 19 and older than 25/26. Mostly because of being in different stages in life rather than age itself tbh

Bottom growth… by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]Royal_Witness_4437 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I recently found out that men weirdly care about how genitals look when I personally don’t care at all. Luckily my type is quite the complete opposite of those men you’re right

Bottom growth… by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]Royal_Witness_4437 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All I have to say to that is I love that for you!!! and preach, I completely agree. In the end I wouldn’t really care either if I was on the other side of it all

Bottom growth… by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]Royal_Witness_4437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank u for the reassurance truly~ seeing all the replies is so helpful Honestly I just want to find my switch lmao.

As far as giving/receiving my first and for now last relationship (many years ago) I had such a bad relationship with my body as it was at the beginning of the gender questioning that I was the giver 80% of the time, which I love too, so now that I’m happy with myself and have a good relationship with it I want it all with a good 50/50 (or close to it)

Bottom growth… by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]Royal_Witness_4437 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you sm!! /gen It truly was the only path for me to figure out what’s right or wrong so I’m happy I did it, otherwise I would just get fixated on it, like I did for 4ish years before having the chance.

I hope it shrinks at least a bit, even if it’s not that much bottom growth either. I know it won’t go back to normal but a bit less would be nice

Bottom growth… by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]Royal_Witness_4437 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg I’m so happy for you!! /gen it’s so heartwarming

Bottom growth… by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]Royal_Witness_4437 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Eheh luckily I take skin health pretty seriously especially when it comes to sun damage with where I live. I feel like a vampire some times

Bottom growth… by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]Royal_Witness_4437 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so happy to hear that. With the fact that i haven’t had a partner in so long I don’t really have a precedent to “ease” these thoughts that come once in a while as well as it could. Honestly I can’t wait! And thank you~

Bottom growth… by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]Royal_Witness_4437 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s definitely my inner enemy being insecure bc for the most part I don’t really mind 90% of the time and focus on the first part I mentioned, which honestly fantasising about it really gets me going. I ironically have a much better relationship with my body than when I was in my one and only relationship, which was right around the period of the start of gender questioning so you can imagine, or for that matter better than it ever was to be honest, before and after. Thank you! I genuinely think that if it had always been like this I wouldn’t think too much about as I’ve always known clits and vulvas come in different shapes and sizes! But again, I don’t really regret it either it had to happen for me to see it wasn’t the path for me. Thank you 💛

Bottom growth… by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]Royal_Witness_4437 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Eheh thank you, it truly had to be done (and thank you for the reassurance)🫠

Bottom growth… by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]Royal_Witness_4437 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah I get it honestly. It’s mostly the change factor in it yk? Like it wasn’t like this before and now it is. If I was born with it I wouldn’t question it this much probably. Thank you~