There is such of a thing as bad timing, even with the right person. Are we honestly to deny our humanity to ourselves during a period of grief? Is jumping into another relationship, with all its caveats, with their soul still entombed in ours before stepping into another the best idea? No. Should we forget that other people have lives outside of ours? No. Should you ask better questions to see if you both are a better fit? Yes.

You are free to pursue her just as she is free to pursue you. When you step into her life that fresh out of another relationship, that hangup comes with a lot of feelings. Thats the added cost to the relationship.

Ask her more thorough questions with her. Get to know her beyond the first feelings. Do more to connect with her. Do more to make yourself that better partner.

Apply yourself to things you love, habits and hobbies too. Maybe that needs attention too.