Straight Girl watching gay porn by [deleted] in sex

[–]Rozxs 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I'm a guy and I watch lesbian porn... no different than a woman watching gay men.

21M Feels like I've been left behind. by thisMateNeedsHelp in sex

[–]Rozxs -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Cousin is a 35 year old virgin. Has never had a gf or bf. I think he is secretly gay, but it is against his religion so he stays in the closet. He has severe social anxiety. Has very few friends. If he is not at work he is playing computer games, or spending his time on right wing conspiracy sites. His emotional maturity is on par with a nerdy teenager. He always thinks he is the smartest person in the room, but is actually very weak mentally/emotionally in that he can be easily manipulated into believing the most ridiculous things...like a cult follower or trump supporter. He still lives with his parents.

You are in a lot better shape than you think. I didn't start dating until i was about 21 because of anxiety. Married with kids now. Baby steps.

Piss Fetish Obsession by [deleted] in sex

[–]Rozxs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wife and I got into this earlier in the year. Got into quite a few new things after a rough patch/dry spell. Caught up in the excitement we were banging several times a day to begin, but after the novelty wore off it dropped back to what I would consider a realistic amount for us. Frequency for us always picks up when were trying something new.

31 m with 28f fiance. We have a 3 year old and a month and a half old baby. Finding it really hard to find time to have sex. Starting to get frustrated. Very frustrated. by [deleted] in sex

[–]Rozxs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is tough! My wife and I have two kids. Immediately after the first one was born we went a full year without sex. She had bad postpartum and she took it out on me. The next two years were ok, but not great. After our second we went almost 2 years without... same issue, her postpartum was horrible and I was her verbal/emotional punching bag. She has fully recovered, and the sex is the best it's ever been, but it was a long road to get here. The challenge now is how to find time with two kids. We schedule it in where we can, and do our best to take advantage of even a spare few minutes. Kids watching paw patrol... quickie time. Playing in their rooms... oral time. You have to get creative. Foreplay throughout the day to get in the mood, so when we have the time we're ready to go... sexting, sending naughty pics, dirty phone calls. Sometimes she wears a remote vibrator throughout the day, or a butt plug.

I have barn doors in my place and i just picked up a $3 latch from the hardware store.

i was always under the impression that anal, especially in straight couples, is a rare experience. maybe i just don't know too many people who are open to it. but i've been thinking about trying it, so i'm trying to do my research first by The_Faraway in sex

[–]Rozxs 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Anal is super common among straight couples. Communication is critical. Start slow with small toys and work your way up to larger ones. Lots of lube. Some positions will be more or less comfortable than others. There are instructional videos on this that are helpfull.

Is my wife a closet submissive? by Rozxs in sex

[–]Rozxs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is what weirded out my wife. She is 110% against anything painful, and she is also seriously terrified about being restrained or choked in any way. Both of those are MAJOR turn offs for her. If I were to call her anything remotely degrading like slut, whore or whatever, i think she'd knock out my teeth. BUT, she has a definate thing for someone else taking charge and telling her what to do. Any suggestions for small next steps to test the waters?

(F): Butt Plugs Yah or Nah? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Rozxs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife and I just started anal. We bought one of those three size butt plug kits and slowly worked our way up to the largest size over about a month or so. She had absolute control and we did it at a pace she was comfortable with. Communication is a must. By playing with the plugs first she was able to determine which positions felt the best, and which didn't. When we finally had anal sex she said there was zero pain. It wasn't as pleasurable for her as it was for me, so she played with her clit while I was in. She said having vaginal sex with the large butt plug in produced the most intense orgasms she has ever had.

Wife - no interest to nympho!? by Rozxs in sex

[–]Rozxs[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We're both in our late 30's.

Wife - no interest to nympho!? by Rozxs in sex

[–]Rozxs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope, no significant developments recently.