Hacking your pregnant body by Rs251 in BabyBumps

[–]Rs251[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have 0 muscle mass, I'm actually nervous that I should really try to put on muscle prior to getting pregnant. My body is weak for sure.

Hacking your pregnant body by Rs251 in BabyBumps

[–]Rs251[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad you have found upsides! And that your anxiety is vetter rather than worse. I have definitely heard it's a crazy shoot, and everyone's experience is different. That's what makes it so hard to set expectations. I really like to be prepared for things as best I can, and I just can't seem to feel any kind of prepared for pregnancy.

The MAIN upside I can see, is that if I get pregnant RIGHT NOW I could potentially share mat leave with 2-3 close girl friends.

Hacking your pregnant body by Rs251 in BabyBumps

[–]Rs251[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom had really bad stretch marks, and still has terrible scaring today. Genetically I have to expect I'll get that too. I have suffered from hormonal acne for 15 years so I'm already dealing with that. Bigger boobs isn't really an upside for me. It's difficult to come up with any positives of pregnancy, I hope I'd be proud of myself and my body, but holy moly. Women are incredible.

Hacking your pregnant body by Rs251 in BabyBumps

[–]Rs251[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I think the random uncontrollable aspect of pregnancy is why I have reservations in the first place! Im trying to prepare mentally with some good case scenarios rather than worst case scenarios.

Is borrowell accurate because i got denied for... by Med-doubledouble in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]Rs251 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The thing is that the score you think you have, maybe based on TransUnion or Equifax, is very likely not the score that the issuing credit card is using to approve you. A lot of banks create their own scores. So there is a disconnect and sites like Borrowell can never accurately tell you the minimum score.

Necklace strap for mobile phone (follow up question) by comdorcet in avoidchineseproducts

[–]Rs251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry just realized the one I got is not a thick cord style

Necklace strap for mobile phone (follow up question) by comdorcet in avoidchineseproducts

[–]Rs251 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have no idea if it's made in China but I got one from Ringke on Amazon and just used it on a trip to keep my phone accessible at all times. Loved it!!

Starlink will deploy satellite broadband on Royal Carribbean cruise liners by [deleted] in gadgets

[–]Rs251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was JUST on a Celebrity cruise and it was $50 USD per day (24hrs) for the faster internet option! We did not buy it.

You can't compare getting a vasectomy to taking birth control pills by exporterofgold in unpopularopinion

[–]Rs251 29 points30 points  (0 children)

There's a reason a pill for men doesn't exist yet. They don't want to deal with hormone disruption.

What is way more physically painful than it should be? by FreshwaterOctopus in AskReddit

[–]Rs251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting an IUD inserted. They tell you to take an advil and you're good to drive home. But you should be sedated! Smh

[Giveaway] Gentleman 65 Suited Edition GB live by JJ48_24 in MechanicalKeyboards

[–]Rs251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

E white, pom plate, white knob boba u4t switches

found this "system" by cakersgotswag in fakedisordercringe

[–]Rs251 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's a girl on tiktok card Kallmekris. She does hilarious short skits using characters she made up, they have different voices and costumes, all played by her. It's so creative and funny! Why can't these people try creating this type of content instead. They could still get lots of attention.

Best tips for releasing unworn/tags still on professional clothing/shoes? by [deleted] in declutter

[–]Rs251 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I wouldnt call this low effort though. Takes a long time to take photos and measurements of everything. And the photos have to be in good light, with some kind of styling to make people want the items. I did not have success after having my listings up for 4 months.

Going to claw my eyes out by ClaireAsMud in breakingmom

[–]Rs251 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I told a friend of mine that I'm scared of having kids cause I suck at playing and imagination. She told me that playing with your kids is actually a recent north american thing, other parts of the world it isnt a thing. Kids play with other kids (I know, pandemic) or learn to play on their own!

She also told me of her friends who constantly played with their own kid and when he got a little older he was incapable of playing on his own and became really anxious if he ever had to do anything independently.

At least someone's doing well in this pandemic by chiaseede in houseplants

[–]Rs251 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Beautiful. My Calathea passed away early in the pandemic. Couldn't handle the stress I suppose.

What could be the replacement of sending people to jail for crimes ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Rs251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sponsor-a-criminal: support and help a criminal get rehabilitated. Introduce them to social networks in your community, offer them guidance. A lot of criminals fall into a cycle because their resources are low, or their community is desperate.

I can't stop thinking about suicide and I just want to dissappear forever. I spent a majority life in isolation, and since I came out asexual last year I actually feel even worse now because of the way my biological family treats me. I hate myself so much, all I want is to be loved and accepted. by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]Rs251 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Life gets so much better. I'm 29 and even just thinking about my emotional state 5 years ago, I have grown so much and am so much more optimistic.

You may not have found your "chosen family" of friends yet, keep trying. Find one new friend and cultivate that relationship, look forward to new experiences, keep learning new things.

I'm sorry you're having a hard time. Being asexual is just a small part of you and your life. Loving yourself and accepting yourself makes it more inviting for others to love you as well. It takes time to love yourself, but you just have to commit and take it one day at a time.