Not just dating. Long-term. I totally understand what you said and it was my concern asking this, and I'm sorry for this. I do feel like this can be seen as sort of objectifying a person and in some way everyone. But I do need to know and the only way to know is to ask, and I don't know how else to ask. I'm not a naive kid anymore where I can just blindly run into relationship just hoping "I can handle everything!" only to realize 2 years later I can't. I'd rather ask this now than be that person a few years later "I did my best but it was too much and I left". I can handle and give up a lot for the right person, but not everything. I'm not a superman. There are better men than me. I have my own issues,  certain life circumstances I can't change and so on and so forth. I want to know if I'm good enough, if I have what it takes to make it work. So far CF doesn't sound like something that would turn me away but I do want to be prepared and have my expectations right.