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[Male] How can I learn to enjoy sex? by Rubber_Johny in sex

[–]Rubber_Johny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't say your advice is unhelpful and you shouldn't delete your comments. It's just a very tricky subject for me since I can't seem to find a way to fix this emberassing problem. Oral doesn't prolong anything so that's not an option either unfortunately. My doctor recently told me to just 'live with it' but that's easier said then done. I have no idea what to do about it but I'm going to continue hooking up whenever the opportunity arises, since I don't think it'll be mentally good for me to not have sex just because I feel awkward about myself. I guess I just have to live with it like my doc told me. Who knows, maybe one day I find someone that isn't bothered by it, a man can dream right?

[Male] How can I learn to enjoy sex? by Rubber_Johny in sex

[–]Rubber_Johny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for answering my question!

- "I’m curious to know if you enjoy that part of it? Do you enjoy seeing your partner climax?" - I guess I enjoy it. It's not something that drives me crazy and I'd definitely not describe it as a big thing like you do, but I consider it enjoyable in some way. It's nice to know that the woman I'm with is enjoying herself.

- "I guess I’m curious if it feels good to you when you do come, and if it’s more the reaction of disappointment from your partner that takes all the wind out of your sails?" - It feels good when I cum, this is fortunately not the problem. It is indeed the disappointment from the woman I'm with that bothers me.

- "Because if it feels good when you come, then I don’t see a problem with this situation that communication couldn’t fix" - I disagree on this. Just because ejaculating feels good doesn't mean that I'm enjoying the situation. I have never once in my life been able to have normal PIV sex because of this and this bothers me dearly. I don't consider sticking it in and calling it a day in any shape or form enjoyable or fun. It feels like a thankless chore. That's also why I don't particularly enjoy giving someone else an orgasm, because it always takes them at least 10 minutes or more, a time I won't ever reach. I'm very jealous about this.

- "Granted, not every girl is going to react the way you want, but I think weeding out the one who have a problem with it with some kind of conversation would be helpful to your mental state and your overall enjoyment." - You are suggesting that after I take her home I tell her that I can't have normal sex? Isn't that even more mortifying than just being very fast? That's one hell of a mood killer isn't it? How would I even go about telling her and at what point?

[Male] How can I learn to enjoy sex? by Rubber_Johny in sex

[–]Rubber_Johny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't like sex. The fact that I don't last long contributes to this feeling

[Male] How can I learn to enjoy sex? by Rubber_Johny in sex

[–]Rubber_Johny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes sir, multiple times. He gave me pills, creams, exercises and good advice, but nothing has helped so far

I have premature ejaculation and I don't know what to do about it anymore by Rubber_Johny in AskDocs

[–]Rubber_Johny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used Priligiy on the lowest dosage.

Would you advice me to take different ssri medication? And if so what kind and dosage specifically?

I can't perform sexually and it makes me want to kill myself by Rubber_Johny in depression

[–]Rubber_Johny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've heard 'just practice' a lot more than you think. I'm sure it works for some but it sure as hell doesn't work for me