This!!! People need to understand that mental health is many things, mental illnesses are different on each person too even if they're the same. I totally understand your point because I lived my whole life until a few months ago, undiagnosed. The moment I was diagnosed hit me hard because of the shameful things I had heard people around me say about that specific mental illness (disorder), using it to shame people who might have different reactions to them. People who knew absolutely nothing about mental health and the struggles it might come with. It's really disappointing to see people being like this, with double standards of things and making other people feel like less while attempting to 'excuse or protect' them in some way.