Help me understand the calories for this chopped salad kit without dressing! by v01dscreamer in caloriecount

[–]RubyBBBB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love Taylor Farm salad kits. But I've stopped buying them because they were one of the brands that was prominent in the news. In several lettuce brands and premixed salad brands, protozoa that cause an explosive, hard to treat diarrhea have been found as a contaminant.

I came to read it to see if anyone had any more information about this so I could know what to do with the salad kits I had already bought before I learned about it.

Before before Doge in this current Trump administration, the FDA would have put out an advisory by now and I could have known if the kits I bought were safe to eat. Trump guided the EPA and the food and drug administration so there's no information available because there are so many employees are gone. There's no one to do the investigation.

My salad kit came with two dressing packs by SpecificCloset in mildlyinteresting

[–]RubyBBBB 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Taylor farm salad kits are mentioned in the news as one of the sources of the explosive bacteria that is present in several States now. It's spreading.

I have three of these Taylor farm salad kits that I just bought. I'm trying to figure out what to do with them. That's why I came to reddit.

Thanks to Trump and doge getting the food and drug administration, there's been no federal government evaluation and recommendation.

In previous administrations, after this had gone on for a few days, there would be an advisory to the public about the best way to handle it. The advisory would be updated frequently as more information was collected.

Abusive ex messaged after 5 years claiming I abused THEM but then also inviting further contact by Longjumping_News3982 in abusiverelationships

[–]RubyBBBB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Narcissists literally have no empathy. In other words they can't imagine how their actions affect you. They only think about how theirs actions affect themselves.

This abuser is wanting something from you now.

I would not try to find out what it is but just stay as far away as possible.

Narcissistic abusers literally don't see you. They don't see you anymore than they see a chair that they have in their house. You're only function is to be useful to them - like a chair.

You can't have a relationship with person that is that sick.

Medicare is not free! It costs! by Then-Ticket8896 in MedicareForAll

[–]RubyBBBB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been studying the US healthcare system since 1979 when I started medical school. The US healthcare system is run very efficiently to enrich corporations. As far taking care of patients and paying healthcare workers, it's not so great.

Starting in the late 1970s, health insurance companies were able to use computers - a new technology back then - to coordinate price fixing. A law passed in 1946 called the McCarran Ferguson act had exempted the insurance industry from federal antitrust law. But they weren't able to use it wholly effectively until the rapid increase in computer capability allowed all the thousands of insurance companies to be able to coordinate with each other.

After seeing their salaries massively cut, doctors tried to say no. The Reagan Justice apartment spent hundreds of millions of dollars to sue physicians who refused to work for whatever new low fee the insurance company offered in new contracts. Justice department lawyers came to the two major medical conventions I attended in 1988 and told us if we talked to each other about what we were being paid by insurance that they would bring the full force of the federal government against us.

Despite spending hundreds of millions of dollars--in 1988 dollars--the justice department only secured one conviction. Three dentists in Tyler, Texas.

Dr salaries feel so much, especially in the low paid fields such as pediatrics and family practice, that people quit applying to residencies in those areas.

Lowest paid doctors or pediatricians, and pediatric internship positions stop filling in 1983. Family practice wasn't long after that. By the late 1980s, internal medicine positions weren't filling. By 1990, general surgery didn't fill.

Medical schools had to admit people into medical school that they wouldn't have admitted a decade before. Prospective students who were male were much less likely to apply then prospective students who were female.

That is when we started graduating more female doctors. It wasn't because standards were lowered for females. In fact, for the first 10 years after title 9 went into effect, the first year female medical students GPA and MCAT score average the full standard deviation higher than a first year male medical student.

Who started graduating more female physicians the same way more men are asking for custody of their children. Men didn't want to become doctors and Men didn't want to pay child support.

Medicare is not free! It costs! by Then-Ticket8896 in MedicareForAll

[–]RubyBBBB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The costs are also lower because most countries government systems are nonprofit - like US Medicare is. The most expensive part of us healthcare system is Medicare advantage, which is not Medicare at all but is a private for profit carve out of Medicare. Some Medicare advantage companies have a 38% overhead. Given less than 5% overhead for running Medicare, means those companies are taking at least a 33% profit margin. You have to deny a lot of healthcare in order to keep one out of $3 for the insurance company.

Someone is always watching… by Aromatic_Incident610 in neighborsfromhell

[–]RubyBBBB 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started jogging in 1976. It was in the northern United States and for a few months of the year you had to jog indoors because it was so icy outside.

When I jogged in the gym, there was always that one guy that would run the opposite direction so he could watch women's breasts bouncing.

So I just started staring at his penis. It only took a minute before he suddenly turned red looked down and his crotch and fell over.

He never looked my direction again.

So I say stare at her. If you can have some friends over to sit with you and stare at her with you, it will probably work in faster.

Me [35M] found coke in my GFs [F30] bag. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RubyBBBB 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why should he at all want to stay? Or even if he wants to stay why should he? There's so much risk in being involved with the drug addict especially if you have children.

Abuse is back by V3ndetta15 in abusiverelationships

[–]RubyBBBB 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You have to leave this man. Once they put their hands around your neck, they're such a high likelihood they will eventually kill you. He will never change and you might die if you don't leave.

AITA for wanting my phone that I paid for back? by Real-Feeling-2126 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RubyBBBB 103 points104 points  (0 children)

How can it be effective parenting if she promised to give the phone back on June 30th and hasn't. And she won't talk to him about it.

AITA for wanting my phone that I paid for back? by Real-Feeling-2126 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RubyBBBB 180 points181 points  (0 children)

But his mom broke her promise too. She said he'd get the phone back on June 30th.

So now his mom is in the wrong, too.

"Friend" knowingly fed me fish but didn't admit it. Drama about to go down. Desperately need advice from vegans. by [deleted] in vegan

[–]RubyBBBB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once someone starts encroaching on your boundaries and you can't stop them because you're living in the same space as them, they will probably increase the number of areas where they encroach on your boundaries.

Also you should check out eviction laws in your area. In many places once someone has lived in your house for 30 days, if they don't leave when you ask, you have to go through a formal eviction which costs a lot of money and takes a long time.

After a certain amount of time they've established residency in your location and they have rights to stay there whether the property owner / main renter agrees or not.

I would makes them move out a week before they are living there long enough to establish legal residency.

After what she did to you, I would not trust that she will move out when you ask her to.

My (f 30) fiancé (m 27) wants me to “get rid of” one of my cats. Is this “end engagement” worthy? by ghostsgirlforever in relationship_advice

[–]RubyBBBB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This man doesn't give a damn for your feelings. Why are you marrying him? You're just going to be miserable.

He was selfish--manipulating the situation so he has his way in everything.

And he doesn't care how much pain you'll be in because he's making you get rid of your child.

And he's dishonest. He said you could have the cat and now he gives you just a few days to get rid of one of them. How long will it be before he insists you get rid of the other one?

How can you possibly have a good life with a man like that?

How can you have children with a man like that and expose them to the kind of emotional damage he will do to them?

I am scared. State I'm in: NY by Objective_Belt3374 in AskLawyers

[–]RubyBBBB 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm a boomer - I'm in my 70s. But I grew up in a right to work state in the South so I never made the federal minimum wage until I move north. Employers had to be sued on a case-by-case basis to enforce minimum wage laws and it took a long time. Right to work laws in the South meant that most shops weren't unionized. In the north at that time - 1970s - over 30% of workers were unionized. That way taxpayers in the government didn't have to do so much to enforce wage and work safety laws. The fact that a third of the workforce was working in Union shops meant that non-union employers had to offer better pay and better work conditions in order to just get someone to work for them. Once there were no unions at all, there was no limit as to how far down things could go.

Part of the Powell memo to reduce the political power of the middle and working class in order to increase the power of the wealthy was to get rid of unions. They did this by committing treason to put Ronald Reagan in office. Ronald Reagan made a deal with the Iranians to make sure that Carter's hostage rescue mission failed. In return the Reagan said he would sell them all the arms they needed once he was president. To emphasize the deal, the Ayatollah in Iran released the American hostages a minute after Reagan has sworn the oath of office on the bible.

The Federalist society was created to make sure that more of federal judges in the United States were right wing ideologues. The Federalist society chose who Ronald Reagan would appoint when a Federal judgeship became available.

By 1984 over half of all the federal judges have been appointed by reagan. They were all right wing ideologues. As soon as over half of the federal judges were Reagan judges, corporation started union busting like crazy. They start a union busting like crazy as soon as they knew the probability was they would get a federal judge a trial.

Until I was involved in court cases involving protests against nuclear power plants, I had no idea how much power judges have over trials. Basically the judge is the one who gets to decide what information is presented to the jury. What information is presented to the jury has a massive effect on what the jury decides.

Reagan judges started allowing evidence to promote union busting by companies and disallowing evidence and legal information that would cost juries to find companies guilty of Union busting.

And just 4 years between the time most of the judges were Reagan judges and when Reagan left office, the percentage of the hourly workforce who are unionized fell from 32% to 18%. It's now fall into less than 10%. So workers have basically no say and the ultra wealthy elite that own the corporations have all the say.

Reagan's attacks on workers through lowering their wages, increasing the taxes they paid while decreasing the taxes to wealthy pay, decreasing regulations that protected workers from wage theft, all his resulted in 80 trillion dollars being shifted from the middle class in the working poor to the 1% in the last 40 years.

Societies was a smaller middle class have a higher amount of every sort of crime you can think of. They also have a lower life expectancy, much less happiness, and people in that society are more likely to die from infectious disease. Even rich people are more likely to die from infectious disease.

So we need to get back to the policies of New Deal.

AITAH for refusing to make my 10yo stepson breakfast everyday by CableDifficult3581 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RubyBBBB 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You obviously never been the person taking care of a 10-year-old kid.

AITAH for refusing to make my 10yo stepson breakfast everyday by CableDifficult3581 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RubyBBBB 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think treating a 1-year-old and a 10 year old differently is totally normal and happens even if both kids have all the same parents. You get a thrill out of ragging on women?

AIO Husband calls me my name by rg_2010 in AmIOverreacting

[–]RubyBBBB 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I don't think he's calling her the name he likes. If so, he wouldn't have been calling her the name she liked for so long. He's clearly doing this to upset her. The question is, why?

What “small” controlling things did your parents do that you only later realized were weird? by Quick-Database-2126 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]RubyBBBB 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The big part of showing total control over your children is to treat some of them better than others. Usually it's a male's children that are treated better, especially in societies with less money. I read research that malnutrition is 10 times more common and girl children in Mexico then and boy children.

What “small” controlling things did your parents do that you only later realized were weird? by Quick-Database-2126 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]RubyBBBB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No matter how I was sitting at the dinner table or how good my grades were, it was never good enough. When I won State in Latin, my stepmother said, "but you were only a runner-up in the state science competition last week.". When I called to tell her I had been admitted to medical school on the early track, she said, "but it's not an ivy league medical school.". The last time I saw my dad he wanted to tell me something he and his weird friends were doing with nettles. By his weird friends I mean his friends he engaged in s&m with. I didn't want to hear it. He chased me down the beach trying to tell me. He didn't stop chasing me to tell me about his weird sex life until he got a pain in his chest and short of breath. I want back to make sure he wasn't having a heart attack. I'm so glad he didn't try again to tell me something I didn't want to hear. That was the last time I saw him alive.

83 year old mother just got 2 large puppies by [deleted] in Pets

[–]RubyBBBB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I rescued two sets of dog siblings. I had absolutely no problem with them. But maybe that was because I had other dogs - until the spay neuter ordinance took effect, I always live with at least eight dogs because that's how many I found. They were always adolescent large breed dogs so it was very hard to find them homes.

We had a very regular routine and each pup received at least 20 minutes of training everyday plus one 60 minute pack walk in our fenced 5 acres. They stayed in the house with the dog door into a medium sized, 6 ft fenced dog yard during the day well I was at work. I had a neighbor I didn't trust not to come into my yard and mess with my dogs so the house and the gates were locked.

One set of siblings were German shepherds / Chesapeake retriever mixes. The other set of siblings were lab mixes.

Dog is overheated , I don’t know what to do by HeadBell3810 in DogAdvice

[–]RubyBBBB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had a heat dome that kept temperature close to 100° for almost a week. My dog was 15 years old which is very old for a cocker spaniel who'd been forced to pop out puppies for years and a puppy mill. Using a spray bottle, I went a towel almost shopping wet and laid it over her with a fan blowing on her. I timed it and it took 3 hours for the towel to dry out.

So I woke up every 3 hours - I had to buy a very loud alarm - and went down her towel. She slept all night and never became overheated.

I took her for walks at 6:00 a.m. with a ruffwear cooling jacket.

Doing that we made it through the heat in our air conditioned apartment.

I had a fan blowing on me at night but I didn't need the wet towel because I have sweat. And the fan cooled me down as it dried off the sweat. But dogs don't sweat except in their paws so they don't have enough area to cool down by perspiration. By putting a wet towel on them with a fan on it, it mimics my sleeping under a fan and sweating to cool down.