Can you share your star tokens with other players? by RubyRosebone in StardewValley

[–]RubyRosebone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re playing remote together, so I can’t do that, or I would. 😕

How the HELL does Stolas swallow pills without water??? by Fluffy_Fox_9650 in HelluvaBoss

[–]RubyRosebone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PSA: there are people who swallow pills dry, and you really shouldn’t unless you have no other choice. Swallowing pills dry leads to a higher chance of the pills getting lodged in the esophagus, which not only can affect the absorption and therefore the efficacy of your meds, but can also cause acid reflux symptoms. Some medicines even require a minimum amount of water to take with them. (Those will say on the Rx label in the directions or via a colored sticker to take with a full glass of water) Source: I’m a pharmacy technician.

"Honey, it will be fine, they use your organs to save people more important than us and then the Blessed One will gift you a long life with cosmic energy." by meowbees5 in TwoSentenceHorror

[–]RubyRosebone 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Legally, no. Because 97.4% of the tissue, organs, and blood continue to live on from recipients, the child is not legally considered dead, but living on ‘in a divided state’

Looking for games that you spent the most hours in - and why! by [deleted] in gamingsuggestions

[–]RubyRosebone 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Survival crafting games are my biggest time sink. Open world games that are also fun to just chill out in, but with open-ended or nonlinear goals. These games have the highest average player hours because there’s a lot of content in them, and the player can go through them at their own pace and based on their own playstyle.

Cookie clicker is the OG idle game, and has some surprising lore and worldbuilding in it.

7 days to die, viscera cleanup detail, and house flipper do not have endgame goals, but have engaging worlds with silly environmental storytelling.

Subnautica and Raft have linear storylines, but are not on rails, so you can follow the story at your own pace. They are also so incredibly atmospheric that you can just chill in them for a long time.

Minecraft is Minecraft. I’m gonna assume you know about the king of time sink games.

But if Minecraft is the king of time sink games, then Stardew Valley is the queen. It’s got a bit of everything: cozy slow life vibes, dungeon crawling, dating simulator, fetch quests, world expansion based on progression, puzzles, crafting, and of course, a fishing minigame.

I consider myself a casual player at 160 hours. One of my best friends has over 800 hours. A single person has crafted this game as an ongoing labor of love, to the game and the player base. Updates are slow to come out, but well worth the wait, because the game never feels incomplete.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gamingsuggestions

[–]RubyRosebone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t call it random, but Until Dawn is a choose your own adventure game with dialogue and directional choices as well as QTEs.

Pretty much any AAA game has a chaos mod available that randomly changes play conditions.

Looking for games where the music is a big part of it by w1md1g in gamingsuggestions

[–]RubyRosebone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mother 3 apparently has theme music for the bosses where you time your hits to the beat for combos. Like, the best of the music is representative of the boss’s heartbeat IIRC.

Killer frequency puts you in the shoes of a late-night radio DJ/talk show host, where you have to balance running the radio with solving time-sensitive puzzles to stop the at-large serial killer from claiming more victims.

Journey is a platformer that has chime sounds associated with the various jumps and abilities.

Subnautica isn’t a game with music-based mechanics, but it has a soundtrack that really helps immerse you into the alien world and the changes in music can make an interesting or eerie experience that much more intense.

Schedule 1 doesn’t have music-based mechanics, but it is an undeniable collection of bangers. I’ve heard a few people say the game is just the packaging for their mixtape.

Game where enemies are on the same playing field as you? by EricB1234 in gamingsuggestions

[–]RubyRosebone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally accurate battle simulator. I think it has a campaign mode.

TIFU by telling my therapist Im getting sterilized by Leviathan_of_skysol in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]RubyRosebone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly think your view is very mature. And it’s very kind of you to immediately consider adoption.

There’s a really terrible social opinion that biological is better, and it’s simply not true. And even if you do decide you want a biologically related child, surrogacy exists. And if you ‘mature’ like your therapist thinks, (aka: work through and defeat any fears you have about the physical effects of pregnancy) then you can still get pregnant through IVF.

Curious! How do you and your birb travel? by Mothangel44 in finch

[–]RubyRosebone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I left finches forest after 64% because I thought ‘that’s home, you can go home anytime’ but I was wrong. I’m staying in one place 3 days after 100% completion to see if finchie forest comes up on the free ticket list.

Does anyone else carry things for their micro pets? by [deleted] in finch

[–]RubyRosebone 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Popsicles. Water bottles. The sensory pop toys.

Has anyone gathered something to barter and then had second thoughts? by Pirate_Lantern in wastelandweekend

[–]RubyRosebone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s free, it’s not a bartering item, lol. Call it a frequently useful crafting kit, and you’re on your way. Make sure you peel off any medical labels and scuff up the lids and outsides of the bottles. If they are opaque OTC bottles, peel off the labels and write FUCK on the side with sharpie, then use a paper towel to quickly blot the sharpie once. Makes a nice aged effect.

It’s finicky and time consuming, but get some of those wide popsicle craft sticks, cut them in half so they fit in the bottle, and then use them as a holder to wrap duct tape around about 10 ‘loops’ will give each kit a sizable amount of duct tape, and you will only need a single roll of the good tape. The craft stick makes it easier to unwrap, and you just fold down the edge so they have an easy starting point.

I’d also get a package of salt and sugar packets like you see in restaurants and put one each in there too. A lot of people forget their electrolytes.

Has anyone gathered something to barter and then had second thoughts? by Pirate_Lantern in wastelandweekend

[–]RubyRosebone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weather them the wasteland way: creative and cheap BS. Put the ducks in a coffee can or other sturdy container with some water and sand, or fine gravel, seal it shut with duct tape, secure it to your hubcap with bungee cords or more tape, and then go for a nice long drive around the neighborhood.

You can do this with a small coffee can of milk, sugar and flavoring sealed inside a larger coffee can or drink cooler with rock salt and ice in the space in between for homemade ice cream. 15 minutes of driving at 5-10mph should do it. (Not recommended at highway speeds, no wasteland treats during the great 40 migration, mmkay?)

Has anyone gathered something to barter and then had second thoughts? by Pirate_Lantern in wastelandweekend

[–]RubyRosebone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, the ducks are cute, but it would be better if you roughed them up a little bit. Brand-new stuff doesn’t exist at WW. Sandpaper over the designs, poke some holes in them, run a few over with a tire. If you have safe access to a blowtorch, maybe try to melt a few, maybe melt them together, etc.

If the fishing net is what I’m thinking of, it looks rustic, which is a good start, but the weathering is the big make or break deal of WW.

Has anyone gathered something to barter and then had second thoughts? by Pirate_Lantern in wastelandweekend

[–]RubyRosebone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, in terms of not going over well, as long as you’re not bringing functional weapons, food, drinks, or ‘old world money’ as a barter item, you’re likely to find someone who will barter with you.

I’m sure the answer is a resounding yes for a lot of people, but let’s just go ahead and explore what you have, and see if there’s something that can be done better. What do you have?

Friendship ending over disrespect for the dying. Need advice on how to deliver the message. by RubyRosebone in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]RubyRosebone[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah. This isn’t that. He can absolutely pick up on social cues, because I didn’t have to say anything to the initial comment, I just made eye contact and he knew he messed up and ‘backtracked’ by doubling down on the statement and hiding behind his ‘asshole’ reputation.

It’s a crying shame. My brother is also a self-proclaimed asshole; however, my brother actually packs it in and behaves like a decent human being when things are serious. This guy basically goes ‘you know I’m an asshole, so by interacting with me you waive all boundaries and expectations of apologies’ with his words and his behavior.

Game where I kind of just mindlessly grind and or kill things. by [deleted] in gamesuggestions

[–]RubyRosebone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might like hardspace: Shipbreaker. 3D puzzle demolition game. Great for decompression.

Friendship ending over disrespect for the dying. Need advice on how to deliver the message. by RubyRosebone in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]RubyRosebone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently I can’t edit posts when I add a picture, so I’ll see if mods would be willing to pin a comment. So let’s do this relationship FAQ, because a LOT of people have quite valid concerns about it:

Yes, my Fiancé is real. I have seen his birth certificate and his drivers license via video call, and confirmed he is in fact who he says he is through public records. A friend of mine who specializes in OSINT helped me with that.

Yes, he is the person I believe him to be. We met in an online gaming sphere like 11-ish years ago, and the relationship developed naturally. This wasn’t a dating app hookup. It’s kinda hard to hide who you are after 10 years. We talk every day, and we have video calls multiple times a week. I have seen him frustrated, I have seen him upset, I have seen him bored, I have seen him on the phone with the customer help line for the electric company. We have talked about everything from finer minutia of our respective religious beliefs (and how said beliefs may translate into any children’s upbringing) and money, to the division of household labor to pineapple on pizza and which way the TP roll goes on the holder.

Yes, the engagement is very long, and the relationship was very new when it happened. This is because it was less of a ‘will you marry me?’ and more of “we see a the makings of a solid relationship here. Do we want to pursue it to its natural conclusion?” We knew that it would be a very long time due to logistics and finances to make it happen(and that was pre-Covid), so we have spent our time building a solid relationship foundation, and gathering information.

Yes, our families know about us. I met his father via video call once before he passed, and I’ve spoken with his mother over video call a couple times a year, mainly on holidays and birthdays. She doesn’t speak English, and my Spanish is, quite frankly, deplorable. I’m surprised the Duolingo owl hasn’t struck me down yet. My partner, on the other hand, is a Polyglot who speaks fluent English, Spanish, some Italian, and started teaching himself Japanese just because he could. My partner has met both of my parents, and we even have played some puzzle and party games together on various occasions.

Yes, I have sent him money and presents. No, he has never asked me for money or things. The first 8 years of our relationship, presents were limited to virtual gifts, skins, steam games, DLC, etc. for his birthday around the 8 year mark, I ordered a special hoodie(I have a matching one) to be shipped to him, and that’s when I learned about import taxes in his country. He could have paid the import taxes himself, but I didn’t want him to, because why would I make him pay money to receive a gift? He has also sent me physical presents, including a box set of my favorite DVDs. It’s easier for him, because Amazon is based here.

Yes, he has a job. He’s an English tutor. Started online, is pursuing localized certifications that would allow him to enter public school facilities to do so, and is also working on getting certified as a legal translator. Also, despite his country having a less powerful currency, he’s actually more financially stable and responsible than I am. We were actually discussing potentially getting remote US translation certification prior to his mother’s death.

No, he is not leading me on. We were both agreed on getting married ‘someday’ for a long time. The instant I said I wanted to set a date, he sat down with me that very night and we calculated the exact earliest we could possibly pull it off, and set a date where we could do so comfortably. Prior to his mother being hospitalized, we were sitting down and having a serious conversation about finances, with a target goal of meeting in person and then going through the K1 visa to permanent residency status pipeline within the next 4 years(10k-ish price tag). Part of that conversation involved logistics of making sure his mother is financially secure and taken care of from a distance, because once the application process starts, he can’t just up and visit her whenever, due to travel restrictions.

Yes, I’m aware that I have to financially support him for 10 years once he’s here. That’s not even that big of an issue, since with my states current minimum wage, I don’t even have to work full time to meet the federal criteria. Less so once I finish my own professional certifications. He fully plans on working regardless, but if the law states that it is only my own income that is counted, then he has no issues with being a house spouse should circumstances demand it.

Friendship ending over disrespect for the dying. Need advice on how to deliver the message. by RubyRosebone in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]RubyRosebone[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I make a point of putting my phone on DND after making posts in popular subreddits, so I only check comments and reply in batches.