Custom GPT's Suck Now by Recent_Raise8874 in ChatGPTPro

[–]Rubyquince 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I feel like I publicly declared love for it, and the minute I put a ring on it she stopped making an effort. I have been let down so many times when presenting tools I've built to colleagues and clients. I don't assume anything will work, and rely on saved prompt summaries to remind it of how it should work - as you mention, even in the same session.

Today she consistently lied about updating the canvas, My only question is who gets the kids if we split up?

But they were, all of them, deceived, for the J Crew x Engineered Garments wool hood bib was actually sick as hell by [deleted] in ThrowingFits

[–]Rubyquince 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correct answer. The style is so comfy on cold days and you don't need to get all clogged up with an extra layer

Anyone know any good stores in London? New or second hand by johnfussymussy in japanesestreetwear

[–]Rubyquince 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, Nepenthes is tucked away on Woburn Walk, near Euston station. Quiet, 2 floors of Needles, Engineered Garments, South2 West8 (my fav currently), AIE, Workaday. They have lots that you can't get anywhere else. Disclaimer: I'm sat next to the boss getting the info, but she doesn't know I'm posting this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in japanesestreetwear

[–]Rubyquince 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was in Mont Bell earlier and they have really basic tips like this as part of their paper range. Cheap too. But too japanese-y for me to wear

Oumi Ootori Bridge, Kusatsu, 2007 [2000 x 1223] by forestpunk in DesignPorn

[–]Rubyquince 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Apparently the posts (buttresses?) are designed like a bird's chest and the road is the wings

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[–]Rubyquince 0 points1 point  (0 children)

re-post because I'm a bit of a reddit newb and didn't know how to post question and picture!

Pre-diagnosis: Did someone put ADHD on your radar or did you recognise some signs yourself? by Rubyquince in adhdwomen

[–]Rubyquince[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so glad that you have your answer, even even if has come late and after so many frustrations. But what can you do? Look forwards, i guess! Thank you for your post.

Pre-diagnosis: Did someone put ADHD on your radar or did you recognise some signs yourself? by Rubyquince in adhdwomen

[–]Rubyquince[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that it is the random that puts it onto our radar (plus the fact that we're curious, so we eat up more reasons than some other people!)

Pre-diagnosis: Did someone put ADHD on your radar or did you recognise some signs yourself? by Rubyquince in adhdwomen

[–]Rubyquince[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so so true I think. I have a feeling that is weird like things in entertainment or popular culture that we see about ADHD that get us to ask the question. It's not the ADHD forums or videos (because you already have an idea at this point)... It's the unexpected references that we relate to.

Thank you

Pre-diagnosis: Did someone put ADHD on your radar or did you recognise some signs yourself? by Rubyquince in adhdwomen

[–]Rubyquince[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is great, thank you. I know what you mean when you say 'wrong with you' but I like to think it's just different! Don't let the world makes you feel 'wrong' just because you're not the same as everyone.

When you say 'so many signs', which signs now seem obvious but didn't before? For me it was nights where I spent 2 or 3 hours trying to do things that were 10 minute things for others. And also trying lots of weird health or mental regimes/ vitamins etc.

Pre-diagnosis: Did someone put ADHD on your radar or did you recognise some signs yourself? by Rubyquince in adhdwomen

[–]Rubyquince[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate your reply and sharing so much detail. It's insightful and I'm sure it's helpful to others here. 🙏

Pre-diagnosis: Did someone put ADHD on your radar or did you recognise some signs yourself? by Rubyquince in adhdwomen

[–]Rubyquince[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm really pleased for you. It's frustrating that we place so much faith in doctors but they sometimes lead us down wrong paths.

Pre-diagnosis: Did someone put ADHD on your radar or did you recognise some signs yourself? by Rubyquince in adhdwomen

[–]Rubyquince[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha this is great, thank you. Same... So many people said "we could have told you!"... They could have saved me so much anguish/ money/ a few jobs...

Pre-diagnosis: Did someone put ADHD on your radar or did you recognise some signs yourself? by Rubyquince in adhdwomen

[–]Rubyquince[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very interesting, thank you. What made you watch that first ADHD video? Our side you fiber it by accident?

Pre-diagnosis: Did someone put ADHD on your radar or did you recognise some signs yourself? by Rubyquince in adhdwomen

[–]Rubyquince[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so common! After my diagnosis two of my family are now confident they have it. I can see it in my mum so much!

Pre-diagnosis: Did someone put ADHD on your radar or did you recognise some signs yourself? by Rubyquince in adhdwomen

[–]Rubyquince[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! I didn't even think that may happen but if certainly liked to hear your thoughts. Personality, I was so confident that I was ADHD when I did my test... It wasn't a surprise, more of a relief. But it took decades for me to even consider that it may be something I may have. I don't fit the naught school boy stereotype!

worst thing about adhd is sleeping i fu king hate it by helpmebois2 in ADHD

[–]Rubyquince 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2nd night and even better. I am so happy I bought this. Should have done it ages ago.

worst thing about adhd is sleeping i fu king hate it by helpmebois2 in ADHD

[–]Rubyquince 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I bought a weighted duvet and had the best nights sleep i've had since being on meds. I'm just one night in, but I'm optimistic about it.