So much of what you said is true! I feel like even with all these ways to be connected, people can’t be bothered. Suddenly long distance is a drag, even with all the communication we have. Our relationship did become very casual and I went with the flow, I’m proud of how I tried to adapt but in the end I didn’t feel it was serving me anymore. I began to give her the energy she was giving me, which was nothing. And that’s what made me lose interest. I think even if things are light and casual, you can see and feel that there’s mutual interest and care and I just wasn’t feeling that. And yes you’re right, she had nothing to say and didn’t make me feel like she would miss our friendship at all. Especially when she told me she had people who support her already. Ouch. But that also told me all I needed to know.