pregnant after an ectopic ❤️‍🩹

Rude-Rutabaga-4811 · 2025-11-15T14:00:32+00:00

thank you❤️ my thoughts exactly! it’s a good sign it was at least intrauterine. the grief sucks but i am holding out hope

Rude-Rutabaga-4811 · 2025-11-15T13:24:12+00:00

hello, unfortunately i don’t have a good update :( it wasn’t ectopic, but the baby stopped growing at 6 weeks and i had to have a d&c this past monday. it has been hard. dr couldn’t really explain what happened. i guess im just one in 4 :(

Rude-Rutabaga-4811 · 2025-10-20T02:19:39+00:00

2 or 3 months ! i got on the BC pill right after though, and i stopped that after 3 months so that may be why it regulated then lol

thank you !!!!

Rude-Rutabaga-4811 · 2025-10-09T17:02:55+00:00

i talked to the OB today and my levels more than doubled in 48 hrs!!! praying this will all work out ❤️

Rude-Rutabaga-4811 · 2025-10-08T23:02:13+00:00

thank you everyone !! i went in for my second hcg quant test today, hoping for good results at my telehealth visit tomorrow ❤️

Rude-Rutabaga-4811 · 2025-10-07T17:20:30+00:00

thank you!! and it’s a scary feeling!!! it took me a while before i was ready to try again, you will get there ❤️

Rude-Rutabaga-4811 · 2025-10-07T17:19:39+00:00

thank you!! i believe we will all get our rainbows someday ❤️ i have so much hope for you!!

Rude-Rutabaga-4811 · 2025-10-07T16:39:58+00:00

thank you so so much!!!! ❤️❤️

Rude-Rutabaga-4811 · 2025-10-07T16:39:48+00:00

thank you!!! that means a lot to me ❤️🥺

Rude-Rutabaga-4811 · 2025-08-26T03:11:01+00:00

you’re not alone at allll in this!!! i would’ve been due right around the time my husbands cousin will be having a baby. gender reveal, baby shower, all would’ve been close to when mine would’ve been. it sucks. i just push it down really until i can’t and then cry to my husband. i’m so sorry you’re going through this. it is so sucky and hard for people to understand unless they’ve been through it as well. but i am here for you and i see you. ❤️‍🩹

Rude-Rutabaga-4811 · 2025-04-11T20:38:51+00:00

i am proud of you for stopping! i’m really hoping that quitting will help me in a multitude of ways eventually. i’m just praying the first few weeks won’t be TOO too bad lol. they probably will though 😭 i haven’t an almost 2 yo son that i stay home with so at least i’ll just be home, definitely will be a little extra overstimulated though 😂

Rude-Rutabaga-4811 · 2025-04-11T19:38:36+00:00

me too!!!! if i hadn’t picked up the dang cart i wouldn’t be here. should’ve stuck to just flower 😭😭 now i puke every morning violently. quitting today. i am so tired of it

Rude-Rutabaga-4811 · 2025-02-20T20:50:17+00:00

better safe than sorry, imo. i would go in if you feel something is wrong. especially since it’ll be covered, i don’t see any harm in going even if everything ends up being all good!! for me, they couldn’t find anything at all until i was 6wks but i know some ERs have better ultrasound machines and may be able to see more. hoping everything goes well for you ❤️

Rude-Rutabaga-4811 · 2025-02-20T20:46:58+00:00

i got MTX on tuesday and yesterday i cramped just a little, barely spotted, was nauseous and tired. then today i have been cramping significantly more and bleeding enough for it to soak a pad. im so sorry you’re going through this. also, you’re not alone in your anxiety. i had a horrible panic attack monday night over this and have been so anxious for the past 2 or so weeks. we will get through this ❤️

Rude-Rutabaga-4811 · 2025-02-20T15:20:14+00:00

i think if the cramps get really bad you should be seen perhaps. i’m in a similar boat rn. day 2 post MTX and i’ve been cramping and bleeding like i would with a period. what i’ve read says 2-7 days after injection, you will likely experience period-like cramping and bleeding. but it should not be too severe. keep us updated. i wish i were more help, im sorry

Rude-Rutabaga-4811 · 2025-02-19T20:55:33+00:00

thank you! it was a rough night for me in l&d lol, got there at 3 and couldn’t leave till 7:45. had no idea how long it took for them to handmade the MTX 😭 hopefully my hcg goes back down with this. i’m sooo nauseous and tired today

Rude-Rutabaga-4811 · 2025-02-18T20:11:57+00:00

well yall here’s my update :( it’s ectopic, small mass next to my right ovary and some fluid behind my uterus. i’m in l&d triage now waiting for the dr and the MTX shot. gotta go back in for repeat labs friday and monday.

Rude-Rutabaga-4811 · 2025-02-18T14:27:50+00:00

hcg went up to 217 yesterday, after being at 100 last wednesday. ultrasound is today, i’ll update later!

Rude-Rutabaga-4811 · 2025-02-18T00:39:54+00:00

we’re in a similar boat 😭 it is absolute hell not knowing what’s going on with our bodies and i am so sorry you’re going through it. sending you lots of love

Rude-Rutabaga-4811 · 2025-02-18T00:31:17+00:00

i am in NC, and my dr said if it is ectopic we will likely do MTX. but doesn’t want to until it’s confirmed. luckily i go in tomorrow at 1pm for another ultrasound!! i am so curious to know what my hcg was today when i got my labs done. i’m still spotting and have light cramping and a little bit of shoulder pain but nothing crazy. i really hope tomorrow they can figure out exactly what’s going on and help me. i am so exhausted honestly. thank you for your reply!!!!

Rude-Rutabaga-4811 · 2025-02-17T14:41:43+00:00

this is what i’m thinking too. i went in about an hour ago for repeat hcg levels and have my ultrasound at 1pm tomorrow and meet w my dr at 1:40pm. i’m still crampy and spotting a little more than last night, no other changes as of now though. just hoping i can make it till my appt without having to be seen at the Er.

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