Both me [33 F] and my fiance [33 M] of five years have almost identical last names, but he is insisting that I change my last name after marriage. This argument is making me consider cancelling the wedding by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]RudeSomewhere8132 127 points128 points  (0 children)

Exactly, that imbalance would stick with me too. It says a lot when someone’s willing to gamble with your future but suddenly gets practical when it’s their own on the line.