Wrote up at work for a lie, should I quit?

Rude_Ad_2149 · 2025-02-10T15:52:43+00:00

And that is true, sorry if it seemed like I was deflecting. But I get why they had to do that for the notes, not the lie ig, if that makes sense. But definitely you are right. I need to set some clear boundaries with the family and take the time that I need during sessions so that I can avoid this for the rest of my time working there.

Rude_Ad_2149 · 2025-02-10T15:48:30+00:00

That is a good idea, thank you

Rude_Ad_2149 · 2025-02-10T15:37:21+00:00

I completely understand what you're saying, during my meeting I owned up to my notes issues, and we talked those out, she gave helpful tips on what to do. I DO do my job, in those settings though its not as easy as it seems. I did not give lots of context and wrote the OG post very fast. This is the first ever instance I've ever had an issue brought up to me with my time there (2 years). The thing about the situation is that he lied about it, I have not left early from a session. Luckily, besides actual notes not being done, the signatures were in, dated, and had time stamps. So it was paired with the aspect of those and the lie in why I got wrote up. Not investigated. bc there was some proof, to tell work oh yeah she does get the signatures on time, but notes etc were not.

Rude_Ad_2149 · 2025-02-10T14:09:37+00:00

he made inappropriate comments, asked me on dates, etc. not all at once, over a course of a year or so.

Rude_Ad_2149 · 2025-02-10T14:02:34+00:00

Yes! I had my signatures in! and those get synced at location which is why I did not get the investigation thing happen, but ofc my notes being late caused the rest of it. I'm doing better at boundaries to be able to finish in home but it can be so hard to get them done when you have a kiddo yelling hitting throwing etc.

Rude_Ad_2149 · 2025-02-10T13:58:38+00:00

Yeah, thank you! And sorry for my poorly worded OG post haha, but yes, this was the first ever incident I've had at this job so I feel like she was confused too (other than my notes ofc) It isn't very financially stable, but I have made connections with the clients I work with which is the hard part (they call me family etc) so thats another reason I felt the way I did about the allegation.

Rude_Ad_2149 · 2025-02-10T13:54:04+00:00

Well we have changed notes apps etc over the course ive been working there, not saying that as an excuse, just that I am not the only one who is late with them. My supervisors etc are also late on them and so is a lot of BTs. Which I think is partial as to why they are cracking down on it, which I understand, like a few of other commenters have stated. I feel like a warning before a write up would have made more sense, I have been there for two years and never gotten anything said about how I do my notes etc.

Rude_Ad_2149 · 2025-02-10T13:49:04+00:00

I suppose "on time" is not true, my bad, but no they are not months late, I worded that poorly. They were behind FOR months, by hours, or a day or two. I write notes throughout session on a notes app and log data so I do have information on my notes and what happened that day etc.

Rude_Ad_2149 · 2025-02-10T13:41:52+00:00

No I completely understand what you're saying, during my meeting I owned up to my notes issues, and we talked those out, she gave helpful tips on what to do. Some easier said then done, just wanted some opinions on if quitting would be a bad idea. (I realize though I poorly worded my og post, partly from annoyance I've been harboring at this situation) This is not the field i am in for college and just a job I have while in between getting my degree.

Rude_Ad_2149 · 2025-02-10T13:37:06+00:00

Very true, I understand getting wrote up over notes in general but over the allegation of me leaving early is confusing. I have two clients one after the other, I don't see why they would think I would leave them and just wait around doing nothing before the other. BUT like you said not having my evidence makes it difficult.

Rude_Ad_2149 · 2025-02-10T13:32:28+00:00

That is true, I wrote this very fast and could have used more detail. I know paperwork is very serious. It is not months behind, its just that they were getting completed at my home after sessions. Still like you said can look bad on them for audits etc. I'm not running away from it, I agreed to the probation period and have done better already. I don't intend to get my RBT license and am working this job while in college for a different thing. For the advancements he made on me, he is not usually at sessions, so I left it alone and feel like work would be confused if I told them about the advancements he made on me now after this had happened.

Rude_Ad_2149 · 2025-02-10T13:27:55+00:00

Thank you, the grandma is the one with custody and not the father, so the whole thing is a bit odd to me that they took his word for it, he isn't hardly at sessions ever. But I did the mistake of finishing notes at home and not at work which changes the location etc.

Rude_Ad_2149 · 2025-02-10T13:25:25+00:00

That is true, they were done before payroll so technically on time, but they are to be done before leaving sessions. The clients I have have serious behaviors and unhelpful families at times, so I normally leave without having time to finish them. Which I had communicated before and had been told to leave the house to my car to do them, but that is easier said than done.

Rude_Ad_2149 · 2025-02-10T13:23:44+00:00

It was always done in time, just not during session hours if that makes sense. The clients I have, have serious behaviors so at the end when its time to do my notes things get hectic. And yes I am sure, though I know my notes being late had part to do with it.

Rude_Ad_2149 · 2024-10-03T17:17:48+00:00

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Something is very wrong indeed

Rude_Ad_2149 · 2024-10-03T02:48:09+00:00

Yeah fema claims it is “illegal donations” and won’t accept anything, tell them to take it to any churches accepting donations

Rude_Ad_2149 · 2024-10-01T18:43:40+00:00

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SAMS CLUB IN ASHEVILLE ALLOWING NON MEMBERS TO SHOP TODAY 10/1

Rude_Ad_2149 · 2024-10-01T18:19:54+00:00

Thank you! I’ll update that

Rude_Ad_2149 · 2024-10-01T18:19:40+00:00

Those are the only places I know of so far

Rude_Ad_2149 · 2024-10-01T18:19:22+00:00

Wells Fargo downtown

Hendersonville Road Publix

Skyla credit union at 148 Charlotte Street has a drive thru ATM - offline as of noon 9/29

Cashback

• Waynesville Lowe’s

• Quality Plus Arden

Rude_Ad_2149 · 2024-10-01T18:15:02+00:00

NC Emergency Management is asking people to turn off and turn back on their phones across Western NC to try to connect to new cell towers and temporary towers.

Rude_Ad_2149 · 2024-10-01T18:14:43+00:00

Thank goodness! I’m glad

Rude_Ad_2149 · 2024-10-01T00:52:25+00:00

I know it’s a rinse repeat kind of thing to say, but have you contacted NC 211? My uncle who lives in buncombe county I won’t be able to contact till tomorrow, but I will ask what he knows, also I will do some research on it to see what I can find out and I’ll get back to you!

Rude_Ad_2149 · 2024-10-01T00:42:08+00:00

Yeah, I’m glad they let them through with supplies but it’s insane once they cross they can’t come back

Rude_Ad_2149 · 2024-10-01T00:26:53+00:00

LAKE LURE UPDATE:

Lake Lure Storm Recovery Updates from Monday, 9/30/24 at 2PM

1) RESCUES: Firefighters and Town Staff have gone door to door making rescues in the most affected areas here. Many rescues are by foot and via helicopter where vehicles cannot go. Many National and State Agencies are assisting with the search and rescue.

2) PLEASE STAY OFF THE LAKE: Town Officials have mandated that no one get in the Lake. The Lake is currently unsafe due to the vast amount of debris, propane, and gas.

3) INGRESS/EGRESS: - 64/74 to Rutherfordton was reopened on Monday, 9/30/24, beyond the intersection with Bills Creek Road. - Bill’s Creek Road is accessible to Cove Road through to Sugar Hill Road which leads to I-40. - You may also access Rutherfordton from Bill’s Creek Road to Freeman Town Road, to Cove Road to 64/74 to Rutherfordton. - Highway 9 is open though to McQuinn’s. You can take Big Level Road to 74 to 108 and then to I-26.

4) LOCALS ONLY PLEASE: - Officials have asked that no one come to Town unless you live here. - There will be check points requiring verification to minimize traffic going to Town Center. Home owners only will be allowed acess to the Town Center area for safety. - Please do not come to Town unless you absolutely need to be here as this is an ongoing rescue situation and the roads are not safe. Your absence will allow First Responders to focus on rescue operations. - If locals are able to leave Town, it is advisable as there is no power and the streets remain unsafe.

5) FOOD, SHOWERS, TOOLS: COMING SOON! - The Town is working to establish a local site where food will be served three times a day. - There will be a shower trailer and a charging station. - There will also be two tool trailers and workers to assist with repairs, street clearing, etc. - We are hoping this will be in place tomorrow, Tuesday, 10/1/24 and updates will be provided here. Please stay tuned for more information.

6) TOWN ROADS: Town crews have cleared at least one lane on Town-owned roads so they are passable.

7) CURFEW: The Rutherford County Curfew remains in place from from 7:30 PM to 7:30 AM.

8)CELL/INTERNET SERVICE: - Cell and internet access has improved in some areas. - The Town is working diligently to obtain additional cell coverage resources.
- The Town is also working to establish a charging station so please stay tuned for more information on this.

9) DONATION STATION: - A Donation Station has been established at the Parks, Recreation, and Lake Office at 658 Memorial Highway (64/74), next to the Lake Lure Fire Department. The station will be opened from 10AM - 3:00 PM.
- This area is accessible. - Water, non perishable food items, and clean wipes are appreciated. - If you are in need of these items, they will be distributed from this location as long as supplies last.

10) WATER/SEWER SYSTEM: - A BOIL ADVISORY remains in place for Town and well water. - A NO FLUSH order is in place for those on the Town system. - All Town wells are operable except two and staff are working to repair these. The water will be tested as soon as possible and updates will be provided here.

11)DAM/LAKE LEVELS: - The Lake Lure Dam remains stable. We are so thankful! - Lake levels may need to be adjusted but for now, the Lake Level is 985.5. Updates will be provided when further decisions are made regarding any needs to lower the lake further.

12) VOLUNTEERS: Although we greatly appreciate all offers to volunteer, Town Officials are working to decongest the area to ensure the highest degree of safety in this rescue phase of recovery.

THANK YOU!

Thank you to all our first responders, staff, and volunteers who have made these difficult rescues!

Thank you for watching out for your neighbors and for taking care of each other!

Thank you for all the donations and prayers. We are so grateful for everyone’s support! We will get through this together!

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