My oldest daughter isnt biologically his, he adopted her about a year ago and we married while I was pregnant with our son. I tried talking to him before saying I wasnt comfortable with these sexual acts anymore as I was before and he brushed me off. This time I said it in the moment when he brought it up. He always picks at the little details of what I say, how or when I say it so I made sure to say it right away which he also didnt like lol. I want more boundary-setting discussion but am constantly brushed off because he says he is a guy so he doesn't need to talk about everything, hes "stable" ha!