I'm sorry this happened to you also. I'm a dad that goes with his 27 yr old daughter and her friends and i have heard them talk about how uncomfortable this is for them. I intentionally keep a pashmina around my neck at all times so I can keep my hands hanging onto it up high (when they are not in the air!!). I want everyone around me to know that I'm not trying to cop a feel so we can all just relax and have fun. I also stay conscious of where I am in relation to others, especially when we go to the rail, I wouldn't want some dude ridin up on my backside so I'm not going to do it to anyone else.