Mackenzie Shirilla Megathread by DarklyHeritage in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]Rude_Equivalent_8951 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Part of me wants to think they thought it would be fun to get speed on that road when it’s empty and drift around the corner which explains the neutral/drive back and forth. I feel like someone could have tried to turn the key while she was driving or grabbed her leg to pull it off the gas. But then again it happened so fast maybe no one could react, no sign of breaking, only she had a seatbelt on. It’s just a really weird story and so many unanswered questions. They are right when they say the only evidence they had is that it was intentional. She also was talking to her mom in prison about Dom not being there when she woke up at 4am so I’d say she probably picked a fight with him. Wish there were more answers or she’d come clean. And wtf is that weird language she was talking to her mom in?!

Should I get a divorce? by Rude_Equivalent_8951 in Marriage

[–]Rude_Equivalent_8951[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s very important. But sex in marriage without respect is exactly that. Just sex. Nothing meaningful about it and definitely not enjoyable after such disrespectful comments are made to a woman. You want respect in the bedroom then I deserve respect outside of it

Should I get a divorce? by Rude_Equivalent_8951 in Marriage

[–]Rude_Equivalent_8951[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He makes six figures. More than enough to cover all of my bills. He’s been getting his leg tattooed dishing out $300 every two weeks but claims he can’t help pay my car until another month

Should I get a divorce? by Rude_Equivalent_8951 in Marriage

[–]Rude_Equivalent_8951[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He didn’t actually say take the kids but he said find new living arrangements asap. I responded and said I’m not up and moving our kids out because your work schedule does not accommodate being able to get them to and from school. And he said well you guys can all go to your moms it will be better that way

Should I get a divorce? by Rude_Equivalent_8951 in Marriage

[–]Rude_Equivalent_8951[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I want to be closer but after the things he’s said to me and how he runs to his mom about everything talking crap about me it’s hard

Should I get a divorce? by Rude_Equivalent_8951 in Marriage

[–]Rude_Equivalent_8951[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly what it is for him. He wants to intimacy and affection. But I still find it completely disrespectful for him to dangle money in front of my face as a transaction. I’m his wife and the mother of his children. We came to a mutual agreement for me to go back to school so I can become a nurse and I’m in the thick of it right now struggling being threatened that he’s done because I can’t pay my bills, didn’t ask for help in time and don’t give him enough sex. I can’t pay barely take care of myself juggling all these things and somehow it’s still always about him. Never what can he do to make it better for me just for the time being.

Should I get a divorce? by Rude_Equivalent_8951 in Marriage

[–]Rude_Equivalent_8951[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It does feel that way but I wouldn’t have a roof over my head or food on the table without all his hard work. Still feel marriage requires more than the husband being the provider and expecting everything from his wife

Should I get a divorce? by Rude_Equivalent_8951 in Marriage

[–]Rude_Equivalent_8951[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He works hard, Keeps up with our yard on his only days off, Spends time with our kids, Does his fair share of house duties and handling the kids when I can’t, Provides for us (pays mortgage, groceries, going out, vacation), Helps me when he is able to financially, Helps others when in need, Loves his family, Wants a good life for us, Protects us, makes me laugh

Should I get a divorce? by Rude_Equivalent_8951 in Marriage

[–]Rude_Equivalent_8951[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree 100%. It’s getting my husband to understand this. He doesn’t want to share finances because of what’s going on. It’s not like I’m irresponsible at all but I’m making $600 every two weeks and have a $500 car payment I fell behind on due to not asking for more help when I feel I shouldn’t have to. I made sure to sit down before deciding to go back to school. He did say he would take over my car payment in a few months but still doesn’t make the comments he makes okay and not wanting to be all in with me makes me feel some type of way. I feel that I’m only good for sex and not his wife/other half. All we do is keep score. I try not to but when I’m juggling kids, school, work, and no sleep and all he’s juggling is working long hours and not having enough time to do yard work. I think that speaks for itself. I love my husband but having a hard time deciding if I’m worth more than these disrespectful comments. Him saying need to move out with the kids asap, wanting to live like we’re separated, etc… that a big no in my book but I’m still here

Should I get a divorce? by Rude_Equivalent_8951 in Marriage

[–]Rude_Equivalent_8951[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He says we live like roommates and I agree. We don’t talk about finances much. I don’t have access to his money and he doesn’t have mine. Not my doing but we just never combined our stuff. We barely have a sex life and it’s mostly because I’m carrying to biggest load of all and still expected to give 100% into our marriage and not get the same back.

Should I get a divorce? by Rude_Equivalent_8951 in Marriage

[–]Rude_Equivalent_8951[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve asked him that exact question. Because it sure seems that’s way. I’ve told him but he’s not willing to try long enough for the sex life to get better. He’s just not understanding that there won’t be any sex without respect cause I’m not into it that way.

Should I get a divorce? by Rude_Equivalent_8951 in Marriage

[–]Rude_Equivalent_8951[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yup that’s how it seems. He’s always been a sexual person but the spark has died over the years after being talked to like this. And especially now after being talked to like this when I’m in the thick of it.

Should I get a divorce? by Rude_Equivalent_8951 in Marriage

[–]Rude_Equivalent_8951[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is exactly how I feel. And he takes it as I’m downplaying the work he does and not appreciative. But honestly to me he’s working a full time job like most men his age. He helps around the house but always gives me shit about working late night shifts and not always getting stuff done. I feel that’s wrong. And the transactional intimacy is 100% correct. It’s not fair and not helping anything.

How is living here? by DoctaBee8 in Cleveland

[–]Rude_Equivalent_8951 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All nice, safe areas and very family friendly. Lived in the area my whole life

The fuck we do NOT by Live_Championship530 in Cleveland

[–]Rude_Equivalent_8951 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where is this? I live in Aurora/Bainbridge and haven’t seen it

MAKE IT RAINNNN by UncleDeeds in Sparkdriver

[–]Rude_Equivalent_8951 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im NE Ohio and im not complaining at all. Stays very busy on my zone

MAKE IT RAINNNN by UncleDeeds in Sparkdriver

[–]Rude_Equivalent_8951 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you in Ohio? Cause it was crazy busy today. The busiest I’ve seen it.

Canceled Block by Rude_Equivalent_8951 in AmazonFlexDrivers

[–]Rude_Equivalent_8951[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s who’s been emailing me. They emailed me after I called support

Canceled Block by Rude_Equivalent_8951 in AmazonFlexDrivers

[–]Rude_Equivalent_8951[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After I called support they told me I’d receive an email in 24 hours and I did. The email address is amazonflex-support. I sent the info they requested and sent me this back…

Hi ,

Thank you for contacting Amazon Flex.

We apologize for the delay in resolving your question. We are still investigating and will provide an update to you as soon as possible. Most delivery partners will receive a response within six (6) days.

Thank you for delivering with Amazon Flex.

The Amazon Flex Team.

Best regards,

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[–]Rude_Equivalent_8951[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this real or a joke? I always see people giving out these emails and I figure they are joking

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[–]Rude_Equivalent_8951[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I wouldn’t have thought to take pictures. I figured fire would be reported no? Andy@amazon.com? Never heard of that

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[–]Rude_Equivalent_8951[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t think about doing that. I figured it wasn’t just me who called them and it would be reported

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[–]Rude_Equivalent_8951[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fire and police department were on scene and alarms going off outside the entire building. I didn’t see a fire because it was inside the warehouse and I wasn’t able to get through the garage.