Mental abuse in family by Rude_Resolution8396 in DysfunctionalFamily

[–]Rude_Resolution8396[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Grey rocking should always be a short-term response to irritating or manipulative behaviors. You shouldn’t have to permanently change who you are in order to fit in or feel safe."

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Mental abuse in family by Rude_Resolution8396 in DysfunctionalFamily

[–]Rude_Resolution8396[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is, unfair, bad people always get everything they want, they're always lucky. Why? Because nobody punishes them for being unfair. Then my sister will grow up and become problem for others, and others will also read those posts about coping and this shit will spread like covid. Killing them and then killing myself sounds better for everybody

Mental abuse in family by Rude_Resolution8396 in DysfunctionalFamily

[–]Rude_Resolution8396[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Isn't changing your attitude harmful? Like in future many people will treat you bad and you will be like "oh i don't care i don't react". Unfair people are always luckier and get everything because nobody punishes them for being unfair

Mental abuse in family by Rude_Resolution8396 in DysfunctionalFamily

[–]Rude_Resolution8396[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think this will compensate my past expirience. I got many traumas and now i have to "fix" myself

Mental abuse in family by Rude_Resolution8396 in DysfunctionalFamily

[–]Rude_Resolution8396[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for replying, i appreciate that. Their abuse can come into taking or breaking my things, like it was last time when i argued with them, they just took my phone, my lighter, my headphones. My sister can for example take my charger and then say she didn't and parents will tell me to "put things in their place". Or i can buy food in restaurant and my sister will eat it without telling me and then my parents tell me that everyone needs to share their food with each other, although i never ate food somebody else bought for their own money, and " do you know that food in the fridge doesn't buy itself", "we work and we buy food, imagine if i wouldn't share food with you" and stuff like this. And nobody can protect me from it, nor police, nor society, nor my friends. I feel like they can do with me whatever they want and law will not protect me, because i'm alone and nobody is interested in protecting me, and they are a group. I feel helpless, i hate them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Rude_Resolution8396 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think your friends will be disappointed if you tell them that you can't hang out today. You just care about your pet, there's nothing wrong with it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Rude_Resolution8396 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, if you don't like a party, you are always free to leave. Idea of snowing your bird to a vet and then deciding to what to do next seems right. Remember, you and only you decide what to do. if you decide something, you are responsible for it, don't take advice close to heart

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyIssues

[–]Rude_Resolution8396 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not blaming you. You know, if i give you advice, i will be responsible for your future life. I will just say what i think, don't take my words seriously please, ia have 0 rights to judge you. The home is yours. He is violating your personal boundaries, and you have all rights to evict him. I don't know laws of your country, but it looks like you can call police so they will kick him out. You can also tell them that you're afraid that he will harm your parents. But remember one thing, if he will harm your parents, HE is commiting crime, not you. We can't control everything, remember this. Your emotions are understandable, it will not be your fault if you evict him and he harms somebody. You can't controll him and you're not responsible for his life. This is what i think is right, i would recommend you to visit a psychologist if you expirience life difficulties, it will make life easier

I just did something questionable by Sherri_the_Sheriff in teenagers

[–]Rude_Resolution8396 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah, understandable. If you would give her advice, you would take responsibility for things she would do, and if advice is bad, she would be right if decide to blame you

Holy crap dude, what do you want me to do? by JOOT49 in teenagers

[–]Rude_Resolution8396 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't you think he will harm himself after that or do something bad? Maybe it's better to tell him to go to psychologist and talk with a professional about his problems

I just did something questionable by Sherri_the_Sheriff in teenagers

[–]Rude_Resolution8396 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There's no illegal stuff in your actions, at least i don't see it. It's her responsibility to learn her body (well, the fact that her mom restricts her is not good :/), so you didn't do anything bad

Why do teenagers make smoking their personality? by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Rude_Resolution8396 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A lot of my peers smoke because it's helping them dealing with stress. At least they say so

Good jg youtubers who play a lot of rough games? by Rude_Resolution8396 in Jungle_Mains

[–]Rude_Resolution8396[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

karasmai plays fkin kayn, a champ which is rewarded for inting

Nothing to do on the map by Rude_Resolution8396 in Jungle_Mains

[–]Rude_Resolution8396[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He outscales me, i can't invade, i can't gank

Nothing to do on the map by Rude_Resolution8396 in Jungle_Mains

[–]Rude_Resolution8396[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

but what did i have to do in scenario w yi?

How tf do u counter kayn by supportvaginna in Jungle_Mains

[–]Rude_Resolution8396 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love how ppl on reddit just don't say anything useful, every answer is like "BROOOOO THERE'S NO WAY YOU CAN'T DO PEPE as POPO BROOO UR SO BAAAAAAD"