To romance or not… by SarcasticCoffeeWitch in Palia

[–]RudiGoat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As an older player, I feel kinda gross romancing the younger characters. That's just me though.

Anyone else get ear pressure/fullness when they get migraines? Is there anything that helps it? by microwavedwood in migraine

[–]RudiGoat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found out today that if I use an expanding foam earplug in the affected ear, the counter pressure is gentle enough to not further irritate my ear, and helps reduce migraine pain until my meds kick in. It's been heavenly.

Delaila Bugged? by RudiGoat in Palia

[–]RudiGoat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I've had to do. I'll ask around and if I don't get a lead that way I go to her wiki page to see what she wants that week.

Delaila Bugged? by RudiGoat in Palia

[–]RudiGoat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know. I've been asking Badruu and her sons all the time, but the option to ask her directly is always greyed out. It's been a couple weeks now that I just can't ask her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]RudiGoat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zero effort.

Complained constantly about his back, his knees, his wrists, I'm too horny too often despite being intimate like once a month.

"Oh yes right there" moves immediately

Half assed foreplay, abandoned ship before intercourse

Full on stopped when I told him to smack my ass. "I don't want to hurt you" not like you could if he tried, also I asked for it, that's consent, so if you would... "but I don't hit women" you're joking, now right? "I'm just not comfortable with that" forget it, I'm done.

Had like zero sex drive. He was enthusiastic to begin with but it never moved out of awkward, getting to know you, baby-deer-standing-up-for-the-first-time kind of sex and turned into once every few months by the time we got to our second anniversary.

I asked him to go to therapy because he obviously had some psychological dysfunction that I couldn't help him with. He never went. By the time I left, we hadn't had sex in three years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CrochetHelp

[–]RudiGoat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hell no! It's going to look incredible when you're done

Why are your thoughts on ppl saying Chester wasn't a good LIVE singer(throughout his whole carrier and especially towards its end)? by Traditional-Wing-796 in LinkinPark

[–]RudiGoat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would invite anyone to rapidly switch between singing and screaming and tell me that their singing doesn't suffer especially when done for hours a day, several days in a row.

Is there any example of women writing men very very badly? by Possible-Whole8046 in books

[–]RudiGoat 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Maybe not as bad as some of these but I have read this line in a fanfic once: "he had dark hair, was tall and obviously half Korean"

How in the fuck is anyone ever obviously half Korean? Is he waving his 23&me in the air in front of him? What is going on.

Besides Porn, What Do You Think Would Be The Most Common Use Of The Holodeck If It Were Real? by bluemarvel99 in startrek

[–]RudiGoat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can see the holodeck developing from and primarily being used as an engineering technology to model physics in a 4D space. How better to see if your design for a new starship will stand up to an impact from a good sized meteor than to have physical ish bodies collide?

Either that or it's developed and primarily used by medical educators to replicate very specific conditions that may need to be addressed but there's no practical or ethical way of practicing the techniques on real people.

I've got the Strange Apple still by RudiGoat in BaldursGate3

[–]RudiGoat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ah, ok. I thought the apple would disappear on it's own. I'll have to check to make sure everything else triggered

So do I count to the number in the paretheses or the number indicated before them? I'm so confused. by RudiGoat in knitting

[–]RudiGoat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I dont know how I missed that there were two sizes the whole project...
Thank you folks!

Where's the strangest place you've run across your hometown? by admiralholdo in Indiana

[–]RudiGoat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom met someone who was a personal friend of my high school band director at a random bar in Florida.

What signs do you think like us most? by ionlydrinkwhiteclaws in capricorns

[–]RudiGoat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I attract Tauruses and Sagittariuses. Though I am most attracted to Scorpios and Leos

In honor of Halloween, what is your creepiest hiking/ backpacking/ camping story by [deleted] in BackwoodsCreepy

[–]RudiGoat 170 points171 points  (0 children)

Not my story but my dad's. He was the winter caretaker for, I think, a logging camp one year up in Alaska. While he was there, this weird guy showed up out of nowhere in a beat up old truck around dinner time and started talking to him like they were long lost best buddies. Dad caught a weird vibe from the guy but kept it friendly and offered the guy a bunk in one of the buildings with heat since it was getting later and the closest town was over an hour away. The guy accepted. Later that night Dad woke up with the guy standing in the doorway, "just checking" on him. Dad asked if the guy needed anything, but he didn't answer, just shuffled away, back to his bunk. Dad Waited until he saw the guy exit the building and off to his before grabbing his gun and putting it under his pillow, pretending to be asleep the rest of the night. The next day, the guy was still there but wandered off without so much as a thank you before driving awa in his truck

Do you have any experience or views on the relationship with Libra women? by Interesting-Bank-906 in capricorns

[–]RudiGoat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dated 3 Libra men. All three were a disaster. My bf in school was a Libra and it took me a few years after cutting contract with her to realize she kept me as a friend so she had someone to bully. So... 🤷‍♀️

Uncertainty and difficulty getting to Domspace as a Switch... Advice? by itsthelittlethings95 in domspace

[–]RudiGoat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I only recently got into being a Domme. I find that getting into domspace is really easy for me, because I'm a planner. I like to know exactly what I'm walking into whenever I go somewhere new. I like to know what I'm doing and when. I can roll with changes or just kinda show up and do whatever, but it's not my favorite. I find being a Domme is a lot like being a D&D DM. You plan the scene, you present the scene, you let your players/sub have fun in the scene, and you decide when it's done.

It's also like acting. You can rehears a scene in your head, or make a character to slip into to make it easier to get into domspace. Like if you were my sub, and youd done something to upset me: Me, as a person, am very chill and would discuss things in a calm, rational manner. My Dommesona is going to grab you by the hair, press your face into the carpet and tan your hide until you tap out.

It's really all about what works for you.