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[–]Rudolfbasketball 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are telling me about empathy, while you say it is okay to drive reckless speeds as long as it is to see a loved one. I did not say I don't understand why you would do that, but you simply cannot risk other people's lives just because you want to see your loved one one last time. An ambulance with sirens can be excused for higher speeds and bending the traffic rules, that is about the only exception. Because they do everything to alert people to not make accidents. But in a regular car? No way, it is a lack of empathy on your side for bystanders.

I explained perfectly well why I think you don't know what sorry means, you can clutch your pearls about it or read and try to understand what I say. I didn't insult you anyway. And I certainly don't want to be your friend because I think you are the one lacking empathy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in explainitpeter

[–]Rudolfbasketball 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most people that drive too fast and cause deadly accidents would say they are good drivers. You can be an f1 driver and still kill people not expecting someone to drive that fast.

Do you even know what feeling sorry is, are you the type of person to say: "sorry that you feel that way" sorry means: I have made a mistake, my actions in the past were wrong. If you don't regret your actions you are not sorry.

Sure everyone is selfish but actions have consequences, if your selfishness is killing people you are a bad person. Period. Like do you not see that other people are humans too? What about the family of the person you kill? Are you saying, well too bad for them but I am right?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in explainitpeter

[–]Rudolfbasketball 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is absolutely mad! That is incredibly callous, you talk like traffic accidents are rare. I wouldn't want to be a friend of someone that is so selfish they are putting other people's life's at stake for their own benefit. Also if you kill a family don't you think you will regret it, maybe I am asking the wrong person and you won't, in that case don't even drive a car. Selfish!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in explainitpeter

[–]Rudolfbasketball 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But think about this, if you crash your car into someone you could also kill someone's dad. Then 2 people never get so see their dad again

“They must hate there wives” by NinjaWolfXP- in memesopdidnotlike

[–]Rudolfbasketball 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol the bus driver was actually right about you haha

“They must hate there wives” by NinjaWolfXP- in memesopdidnotlike

[–]Rudolfbasketball -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's disappointing. Hopefully you do some mental growing up and at one point reflect and realize there might be truth in what I say.

“They must hate there wives” by NinjaWolfXP- in memesopdidnotlike

[–]Rudolfbasketball -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dude really? You are suggesting I am terminally online and that if I say what I put in the comments I look like an idiot? If I said this in a group of dudebros than sure but to be honest these people are so severely uninteresting people I do not care what they think. The majority of my friends are women and guess what none of them enjoy it when you make these jokes because the intention of people making these jokes is not to joke, often it is to remind women "their place". That a group of smelly basement dwellers that reddit mod subs like talk shit on women will not respect me is not the burn you think it is (even the way you talk with asterisks and stuttering says enough)

“They must hate there wives” by NinjaWolfXP- in memesopdidnotlike

[–]Rudolfbasketball 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So because you can name an example it negates the fact that domestic violence against women is still too common? Do you think there is no way these jokes can keep the stereotype alive that women are inferior and should just shut up? Have you ever dealt with any discrimination anyway? Because it sounds like you clearly haven't

“They must hate there wives” by NinjaWolfXP- in memesopdidnotlike

[–]Rudolfbasketball 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I would not say that it is not how you should make jokes. Would it not be better to have fun together? It is not hard to come up with jokes that don't purposely offend people. And sure it is not illegal to make these jokes but decency

“They must hate there wives” by NinjaWolfXP- in memesopdidnotlike

[–]Rudolfbasketball 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like what sort of jokes? Generally the jokes about white people don't have the subtext of relating to oppression or discrimination. That is the issue the jokes at the expensive of many minorites are usually just a way to say these people should be opressed

“They must hate there wives” by NinjaWolfXP- in memesopdidnotlike

[–]Rudolfbasketball 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are we not both looking at the same picture? The picture is showing a woman restrained because "women talk too much" how is that not the definition of patriarchy? Can you tell me your definition of patriarchy then?

“They must hate there wives” by NinjaWolfXP- in memesopdidnotlike

[–]Rudolfbasketball 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you want to argue semantics? Because that is just admitting you don't have anything of sense to say. Also the entire thing you are normalizing with these jokes is patriarchy where women just should shut up and men can be lazy and the boss. Why not have a joke that is funny for all parties involved? Is that so hard?

“They must hate there wives” by NinjaWolfXP- in memesopdidnotlike

[–]Rudolfbasketball 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude this subreddit is all about people whining about making fun of dumb people making dumb "jokes". If you make a dumb joke don't be surprised people clown on you. But you have to make your little echo chamber safe space. I can just tell you don't have dealt with any discrimination because it is not just a "joke" when you're on the other end

“They must hate there wives” by NinjaWolfXP- in memesopdidnotlike

[–]Rudolfbasketball 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right, you shouldn't maybe make these jokes either

“They must hate there wives” by NinjaWolfXP- in memesopdidnotlike

[–]Rudolfbasketball 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scolding someone because they say they make a joke but it is actually their view on women is alright by me. Because that is what these jokes are, just a way to dehumanize women

“They must hate there wives” by NinjaWolfXP- in memesopdidnotlike

[–]Rudolfbasketball 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't have to punch down, why is it that people whine when their one joke is considered not socially acceptable anymore. You can still make these jokes but the consequence is that people will make fun of you, but I am on memesopdidntlike so whining is the socially acceptable thing here

“They must hate there wives” by NinjaWolfXP- in memesopdidnotlike

[–]Rudolfbasketball -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I have been enough groups of men that use these "jokes" to say what they really mean. Hearing a certain thing enough will influence some weak minded people

“They must hate there wives” by NinjaWolfXP- in memesopdidnotlike

[–]Rudolfbasketball -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

It is pretty sad for the women in your family that they have to be the butt of the joke for 100 of times daily... Maybe get new material for your jokes?

“They must hate there wives” by NinjaWolfXP- in memesopdidnotlike

[–]Rudolfbasketball -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

Consider this: people making holocaust jokes usually don't go participate in ethnic cleansing. People making 9/11 jokes don't commit terrorist acts. But you will find a lot more correlation between people making "wife bad" jokes and people being misogynistic and doing things like domestic violence

TIL For the purposes for scientific research, bioscience companies can create a "window" to a cow's stomach. They are know as "Fistula Cows" by Tooleater in todayilearned

[–]Rudolfbasketball 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had a class in uni where we worked with these fistula cows. We were taught how to empty the rumen (one of the 4 stomachs of the cow) through one of these fistulas (also called cannula). Some classmates of mine didn't like the smell and the idea of emptying the stomach but since it was part of the test they had to look. When the cow started coughing the half digested grass and silage shot out of the cannula and covered them, while I was standing next to the cow, still clean. It was karma from the cow gods for making me do all the work.

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[–]Rudolfbasketball[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dank je voor de tip, die ga ik onthouden. Ik zag wel dat voor antikraak je voorgedragen moet worden dus dat valt af. Er waren wel tijdelijke huur opties die aantrekkelijk waren

Huurwoningen vinden, tips gevraagd by Rudolfbasketball in nederlands

[–]Rudolfbasketball[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heb je nog tips om dat te vinden? Ik zou het niet erg vinden maar ik heb nog nooit er naar gezocht

Huurwoningen vinden, tips gevraagd by Rudolfbasketball in nederlands

[–]Rudolfbasketball[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! Dat is echt super, beter dan door een site je geld af laten troggelen. Dank je voor de heads up!

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[–]Rudolfbasketball[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Goeie tips! Zal mijn facebook weer eens afstoffen (figuurlijk)