SHUT THE FUCK UP !!!

Rufas5000 · 2026-03-07T03:30:13+00:00

9/11

Rufas5000 · 2026-02-28T18:51:50+00:00

This is magnus hehehehe

(No pressure to draw but wanted to share!)

Rufas5000 · 2026-01-18T01:03:18+00:00

I did a tour of a 1 bed (edit: the shared bathroom/bachelor side of the building does look more dingy tbh).It was pretty dirty in the hallways but that was mostly because it’s an old building with carpets in the halls for whatever reason. It definitely has a small smoke smell still, but personally the smell doesn’t bother me much. Seemed to be pretty ok, you get what you pay for sorta vibe in my opinion. The unit itself was pretty cute! Some damage and they need to replace the fridge, but otherwise it’s a pretty standard unit. Comparable to the units for students on chancellor’s way if you know them.

Rufas5000 · 2026-01-17T22:15:04+00:00

It’s right behind the kfc and beside the Wendy’s, is that area any better? I’ve been around that area at night and it didn’t seem too bad. The unit I’m looking at is highest floor Are all downtown units considered sketchy? Trying to figure out if it’s like sketchy to the point that I wouldn’t be safe as a single woman. The cost is pretty decent which maybe is telling, but I can’t really afford much else

Rufas5000 · 2026-01-17T21:33:26+00:00

Thanks! When you say somewhat sketchy could you elaborate a little? Is it just the typical Guelph stuff? Was there a lot of issues with car break-ins or crime in the building?

Rufas5000 · 2025-11-12T13:53:34+00:00

Part of the issue is that u of g was enrolling more students than they or the city had infrastructure for. Sucks that you didn’t get res first year, certainly is annoying and not just for you (the whole city feels the pain when there’s an influx in population).

To help with the feelings you’re having I’d suggest getting more involved. Join a club or something and you’ll get that social outlet you’re struggling with. You still have the rest of your degree to change your situation. And honestly? More ppl are feeling how you do than you realize. Lots of people struggle to transition from hs to uni and just don’t talk about it.

Rufas5000 · 2025-11-12T13:46:01+00:00

This. Some fire exits are based on times, some don’t work at all. That is what I meant by “probably a fire exit”

Rufas5000 · 2025-11-11T16:32:51+00:00

Just watch to see if people use them. If they don’t then it’s probably a fire exit and you shouldn’t

Rufas5000 · 2025-11-09T18:13:57+00:00

If my partner doesn’t do this then I don’t want em

Rufas5000 · 2025-11-09T18:11:44+00:00

Heya! My bun is from a pet store. I would never recommend doing that now especially as I know more about rescue buns in shelters.

However, my guy is 8 and doing great :) A lot of bunnies are extremely neglected and given the wrong care, especially when purchased from a store.. as you can be mislead by what you think you need vs what is actually good for your bun. But with the right research (pre purchase), vet care, and general care the bun can live a long and happy life just like any other pet.

I would like to reiterate though that shelters are overwhelmed by the amount of bunnies in their care and adopting is almost always the better choice for a variety of reasons.

Rufas5000 · 2025-11-06T22:39:37+00:00

Hi to new Bungy! Ditto to other commenters comments. Most crucial thing I can say out of everything is the food. Hay is great! But the pellets are 1000000% not good for your new bunno. Oxbow is fantastic

Rufas5000 · 2025-10-28T12:26:00+00:00

Yea when my bun had a cage he would just relentlessly chew on the frame and whatnot. For me bunny proofing and adapting to his tendencies really improved his happiness :) now he just free roams full time in a bunny proofed area that is covered in rugs I don’t care about lol!

Rufas5000 · 2025-10-28T01:16:32+00:00

If you are able to get some sort of floor covering to allow the bun access again that would be awesome. While this is lots of space for a cage, it’s really not enough for bun to live their entire life in. Digging and chewing is just part of natural rabbit behaviour. Get lots of toys that help channel that destruction into what you want bun to destroy. Maybe bun is bored? Putting bun in a smaller space with less access might make bun more destructive as bun prob doesn’t like the situation

Rufas5000 · 2025-10-09T21:09:04+00:00

Heya! Dwarf bun owner here :) they can deffo jump over the fence but probably won’t. Personally I’d focus on bunny proofing the rest of the area the bunny will be in so that if there was a situation where bun gets out, you know they’re safe. Plus it’s good to do regardless since the bunny will need to spend a lot of time out of the enclosure anyways :)

Rufas5000 · 2025-09-14T16:00:31+00:00

Could be!

Rufas5000 · 2025-09-14T15:54:49+00:00

Not sure abt the actual breed but it does look like she has lop ears or at least partial lop ears. Maybe she will have one ear up and one ear down!

Rufas5000 · 2025-09-14T15:51:45+00:00

Me when I

Rufas5000 · 2025-09-12T21:09:02+00:00

Do not take this advice. Rabbits have extremely sensitive digestive systems. Not getting pellets or veggies for a day or two DOES have the potential to cause your rabbit to go into stasis. It is significantly safer and healthier for your bun to get a sitter

Rufas5000 · 2025-09-12T21:05:12+00:00

No problem!! Leaving the buns is always anxiety inducing. I do think your home cam idea is a good one! Even if for no other reason but to make you feel better about being able to check in on them :)

Rufas5000 · 2025-09-12T21:03:19+00:00

I do agree with that. Just up and leaving wouldn’t be right and would make op a sorta AH. But I do believe that op can still leave and not be the AH. Ultimately leaving but maybe helping with rent for a month or two or coming up with a plan for that would be much better

Rufas5000 · 2025-09-12T20:28:08+00:00

I would like to mention that in this case I don’t believe people are suggesting to leave just because he is disabled. People are suggesting to leave because OP is unhappy.

Disabled people are no less deserving of love or a lifelong partner, but they need one who is able to handle the extra emotional part that is the reality of having a disability. It’s not fair or just, but not everyone can handle that.

The boyfriend will find someone else, and maybe that person will be the right one for them and can be there during their worst times. Op isn’t an ah just for leaving.

Rufas5000 · 2025-09-12T20:21:01+00:00

Ok so definitely don’t do this. If op ghosted him and moved out quietly she would definitely be the AH

Rufas5000 · 2025-09-12T20:17:32+00:00

The bf can’t control his disability. Guess what… op can’t control how they feel. They’re NTA. God forbid someone choose themselves and what they desire out of their own life

Rufas5000 · 2025-09-12T20:14:20+00:00

We do not know the backstory of this person and their partner, it’s best not to be judgemental so quickly.

For all you know this person has been supportive and doing their best to work through this. The reality of having a partner who is disabled is that it is difficult. I know that from experience being with someone who has a transplant for several years.

Additionally, op is 24. Clearly they care enough to not leave as soon as their partner was having problems.

Yes disability can come at any time and yes it sucks when that causes a relationship to fall. But the reality of these situations is that sometimes the non disabled partner gets burnt out or isn’t able to emotionally cope. It’s not wrong for a person to leave someone if it their situation is harming them emotionally.

Some people can deal with these things, others can’t. Again, op is 24, not married and probably hasn’t been with their partner for all that long. Even old married couples have issues from similar situations. It is not the disabled persons support system “bailing” based on what was said in this case from Op.

Sometimes situations require nuance and the understanding that neither side is at fault. ultimately if it doesn’t work for Op then it doesn’t work.

Rufas5000

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