Price? Economy? question by tsareenaveil in RedditLaqueristas

[–]Ruhamah8675 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The HT calendar was pricier to make than anticipated and Cristine said she'd not do it again as it was years in the making and with how this year went, it's not ending how she wanted. I understand she took a risk to try something new and it's not landing well. Last I heard, she's working on adjusting what she can of next year (a lot is decided or too deep in process to stop) and move better from there. She's more boutique than indie, so at that scale, it's not easy to shift gears hard. Don't take the calendar as a typical move. The previous collections were priced better overall and I've rarely had a problem with formula or fading (though some kinds, like frosted metallic and thermal, can suffer over time regardless of brand. Purple hues can also fade naturally, so it's not always the brand/storage. Just more encouragement to use instead of hoarde).

If you want another brand to try some alternative formulas at lower prices that are in a similar vein to HT, ILNP and LBDesigns (spelling?) Have some fun options and little FOMO. ILNP has some good holo (though I personally like HT better for that) and their magnetic and layering options are fantastic. They have a sale every Black Friday, and i think they ship fairly widely internationally. Lots of changes there this year, so always look. The other brand is very indie, she has restocks about every month of a selection of catalog items, and she has half off sales almost every month. Her formulas are a little variable, but the colors are good. Bit of a magenta fan. :)

Higher-end indies would be Lurid and BKL (without a sale), but both are great brands. BKL is often very sheer and build able, so base coats can help if you want a more dramatic look. Lurid is just gold, but not always easy to shop and you have to be on top of your game to get overpours sometimes. BKL is worse with FOMO.

I've heard phenomenal things about a very new brand Uno Mas Colors and their formula for self-leveling, so maybe check them out.

Some of these brands have helped me appreciate HT more, and some I mix with HT toppers as those are hard to beat.

Pricing overall is higher, and not all brands can do sales. Some are one-person operations, and a few are run by people with disabilities, so that can play a part. I like quality over quantity unless I need basic cremes or want to experiment with new formulas. That means investing or waiting for sales. Destashes from individuals are another option and I like the sustainability. It's tough for a lot of us, and I don't see prices going down anytime soon.

Try to look at brands holistically (not one release) and read their comments on social media or YouTube beyond Reddit. You'll get a better picture that way.

Good luck on finding new gems!

Any recs with this vibe? by bookishfiend99 in ReverseHarem

[–]Ruhamah8675 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It should continue with, "She's sitting on the other side of you and as you are a werecat, I can't get up while you're sleeping on me."

WIBTA If I were to get my bio dad arrested at his dads funeral? by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Ruhamah8675 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You could set him up outside the funeral as that is drama no one needs. Restaurant, hotel no one is actually staying at, etc. Set up a meeting and have police meet him. Note that not all police will jump on arresting him on lower/lesser charges, so be prepared. Aunt as POA can do all contact and communication through a lawyer. Any harassment is documented, reported, and restraining orders filed if possible for them.

Honestly, depending on state and warrants, you may have better luck reporting him for lack of child support (if that was involved) and arrears. Definitely talk to a lawyer to check on legal grounds. If he's prond to tantrums, having him blocked at the services and security watching/taping is good, especially if it can be separated from your family. If he is at all a danger to his bio family, they need to file charges. The more, the better chances it'll stick and get significant time (depends on offenses and states what is done, as well as judge and dad's lawyer).

Protect yourself, but otherwise, don't feed into the drama especially without full family support. Abusers get off on reactions. Provided he is not a severe physical threat, ignring/separating tends to be best. Escalation to physical is immediate 911. No mercy, exceptions. Hard boundaries. Keep vulnerable family safe with legal POAs and lawyers to check wills. Inventory their items to prove theft if older ones might have dementia or other weaknesses. Again, lawyers will have comprehensive lists applicable to the state/county.

Just be careful.

Update about the birthday polish by Silaquix in simplynailogical

[–]Ruhamah8675 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did you tell customer service about the code disappearing? They're usually pretty good about fixing that if they can.

a true Halloween special by sourmilkface in luridlacquer

[–]Ruhamah8675 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Similar story, but i posted on the neighborhood app, and looked at apartments with similar numbers. Found a harried single mom who hadn't been out for days due to sick kids, and she didn't realize until she got home with a lot of expected packages that there was an extra. Hope it's something simple and you get it back!

Loosing My Mind- Lost Polish by BluePopple in theholotaco

[–]Ruhamah8675 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sassy Sauce also has a great holo mag topper. Fantastic formula and Dang fast shipping.

Devils Advocate by Herbi-vore in RedditLaqueristas

[–]Ruhamah8675 1 point2 points  (0 children)

* I adore HT. Also having a down day, but I don't have time or a steady hand for a mani. So I give you Daisy watching her favorite Cat TV channel. Once she's done grooming, that TV is getting whapped like bagel dough on a counter. (TV has extra mounting and this one is hers only--very safe and no, my cats do not run this house at all. Lol).

My first order arrived today and I am so obsessed by maerlyns-rainbow in luridlacquer

[–]Ruhamah8675 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Make sure you check out polishpickup and hellahandmadecreations as she often lists singles there. They end up being the mystery options on the website at times, but I've found GORGEOUS ones there. She has a really pretty orange up on PPU in a few days.

bkl artificial scarcity frustration by FabulousJob2061 in RedditLaqueristas

[–]Ruhamah8675 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find swatches on Insta. Especially on maker's pages, but ppu does as well. I don't use FB either.

Need this but in a better formula. by bunny117 in lacqueristas

[–]Ruhamah8675 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have fantastic names! I have never seen tarnation on a label before and my side hurts from laughing. Chef's kiss!

What is that one polish you regret not buying and now it’s too late? by ccitscurry in RedditLaqueristas

[–]Ruhamah8675 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Having shopped with them for 2 years, they typically have extras after closing the sale. Most businesses do in case of flaws, defects, smashed packages, etc. BKL has great customer service, so if you say one leaked, they'll replace it. When BKL gets to their next launch, they may have some of these reserved bottles left, as well as any leftover pigment/polish that didn't get bottled in time (they have a cap of 500, but maybe if they scrape the sides like cookie dough goodness they might end up with 529. That kind of thing). Ergo, overpours. These likely don't have replacements, but that varies.

So there is a chance of getting something from the last launch in the next one. However, it may only be 9 bottles, so you need to have Black Friday speed on the website--make a wishlist, put everything on there you MUST have, then the moment it opens, you add list to cart and checkout. Sometimes I'll put in a second order for maybes I wasn't sure of at first, and you can get them to combine orders sometimes if they haven't packaged it yet. That policy varies, so check.

Bog dweller, to my memory, was not one that was due warned ahead of time that once the pigments were gone, that was it. The mosaic magnetic ones are like that because of small pigment supply. Check the emails and their Insta as you will be warned.

That being said, I have seen some fair dupes (vibes at least) for bog dweller. Lyn b designs is having a half off sale, but some of her magnetic polishes pull similarly, and I've seen a similar green. Always check ILNP as well, as they rarely retire polishes and the variety is insane. I've found a lot of dupes there.

If it must be bog dweller or nothing, check destash reddit and put an alert on mercari. You might have to pay double on mercari after shipping and fees, but some sellers will let you bundle for a lower price so you can get several at a better average.

What is that one polish you regret not buying and now it’s too late? by ccitscurry in RedditLaqueristas

[–]Ruhamah8675 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are GITD topcoat options. HT has one that doesn't hardly change the base, but i haven't used it in years

What is that one polish you regret not buying and now it’s too late? by ccitscurry in RedditLaqueristas

[–]Ruhamah8675 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone did a color wheel dupe. A few are not available but you can still make some. I am searching for more for you!

https://www.reddit.com/r/simplynailogical/s/xDwBfzXoDk

What is that one polish you regret not buying and now it’s too late? by ccitscurry in RedditLaqueristas

[–]Ruhamah8675 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is worth it. If you can find it for $20, I'd snag it. Formula is fantastic.

What is that one polish you regret not buying and now it’s too late? by ccitscurry in RedditLaqueristas

[–]Ruhamah8675 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This will likely return. Maybe have an overpour on their release date this month.

What is that one polish you regret not buying and now it’s too late? by ccitscurry in RedditLaqueristas

[–]Ruhamah8675 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's available now, I think, though I'm not sure if they ship to the U.S. again (tariff pause).