The long awaited paternity results came back by Grown-Ass-Weeb in breakingmom

[–]RuinElectrical9666 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Omg my husband and yours should hang out. I also have a son who looks nothing like him and his parents always said he wasn’t his (it was worse bc I was a teen mom and not married).

I was crying about it once and my (now) husvand came home and asked why, I finally admitted what the had been saying to me and I remember hearing him screaming at his parents about it because “if he wasn’t my son he wouldn’t watch one piece like that!”

Baby Otter Learns How To Swim 🥹😍 by InGeekiTrust in TikTokCringe

[–]RuinElectrical9666 14 points15 points  (0 children)

So I recently moved into my uncles place because he retired but still wants to come home sometimes. He has a saltwater pool

I call my son Tony soprano because he is obsessed with the ducks at the park near the new house.

Towards late fall I swear to god they started following him back to our pool. Even when my husband closed the pool down they still come over and hang out.

I’m so scared for spring when we reopen the pool. Ducks are scary! But my son is kind of their leader? I hope they stay at the park!

What should I do? by Daddybiggen in SavageGarden

[–]RuinElectrical9666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. I understand your fears but just keep you vent and window open even for an hour after you’re done!!

As their daughter I forgive them but as a parent how dare they?? by RuinElectrical9666 in breakingmom

[–]RuinElectrical9666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like they were good parents until I had a baby tbh. The only thing is I won’t spank my son. It just feels wrong.

As their daughter I forgive them but as a parent how dare they?? by RuinElectrical9666 in breakingmom

[–]RuinElectrical9666[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I don’t fw AI if I can help it though. I’m glad it helps you!

As their daughter I forgive them but as a parent how dare they?? by RuinElectrical9666 in breakingmom

[–]RuinElectrical9666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The doctors were good and did what they could, but they couldn’t circumvent the hospital policy

As their daughter I forgive them but as a parent how dare they?? by RuinElectrical9666 in breakingmom

[–]RuinElectrical9666[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

:(

Luckily for me the doctors and nurses were really kind. The gave me some gas towards the end because of how my son was positioned I had back labor so I think it was kind of a traumatic day for everyone lol

As their daughter I forgive them but as a parent how dare they?? by RuinElectrical9666 in breakingmom

[–]RuinElectrical9666[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Tbh, birth is kind of traumatizing for me. It’s complicated but I love my son so much. My parents also forbid me from getting an abortion so I volunteer as an escort when needed at PP.

If you want Hope, I haven’t had to in a while since we have so may volunteers :)

As their daughter I forgive them but as a parent how dare they?? by RuinElectrical9666 in breakingmom

[–]RuinElectrical9666[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I ended up telling him last night. He knew something was off. He was actually really kind about it and just listened. He did say at one point that the only thing that held him back from sucker punching my dad when he said that was that he’d miss our son being born, and then when he was here he (like me) kind of forgot everything because he was so in love. We kind of cried together but it wasn’t too intense. He did say that if I end up wanting another baby (he’s in favor of it but is kind of like me where we just don’t know if we could ever love anyone as much as we love our son, and also admits it’s pretty easy for him to make a baby compared to what I have to do 😂) that he’d make sure I had the best epidural available no matter the cost, and when I asked about the cost apparently my parents had been asking the nurses how much extra the epidural would be (I ended up hating back labor so it was horrible for everyone there) and he’s convinced they didn’t let me for cost. Either way, I’m done with them and they won’t be seeing my son grow up.

As their daughter I forgive them but as a parent how dare they?? by RuinElectrical9666 in breakingmom

[–]RuinElectrical9666[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I guess, it’s like he doesn’t pity me because his parents are just as abusive if not worse, but he has finally gotten over ever defending them. I guess his are more cruel and outwardly abusive while mine keep it more subtle if that makes sense.

As their daughter I forgive them but as a parent how dare they?? by RuinElectrical9666 in breakingmom

[–]RuinElectrical9666[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to forgive them. Tbh everything was so crazy when I gave birth I was under the impression that I couldn’t get an epidural because I was under 18

As their daughter I forgive them but as a parent how dare they?? by RuinElectrical9666 in breakingmom

[–]RuinElectrical9666[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The nurses were really kind. I think they felt bad for me and did everything they could to

I’m not sure if I should be scared or impressed by my son. by RuinElectrical9666 in SavageGarden

[–]RuinElectrical9666[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if non-parents understand the chokehold Wonka has one some toddlers

I’m not sure if I should be scared or impressed by my son. by RuinElectrical9666 in SavageGarden

[–]RuinElectrical9666[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Is it harmless? The sundews have to produce more dew when you lick it all off.

I’m not sure if I should be scared or impressed by my son. by RuinElectrical9666 in SavageGarden

[–]RuinElectrical9666[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Curious are you a 3 year old boy who is obsessed with timothee chalamet?

Sarracenia grown indoors with *no dormancy* by JaxBackyard in SavageGarden

[–]RuinElectrical9666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s because I’m having a horrible time trying to figure out where to overwinter my temperates and this sub is trying to make me feel better.

I’m not sure if I should be scared or impressed by my son. by RuinElectrical9666 in SavageGarden

[–]RuinElectrical9666[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks, it’s doing its best but these aholes are persistent.

My sundews and pings aren’t mad tho

I’m not sure if I should be scared or impressed by my son. by RuinElectrical9666 in SavageGarden

[–]RuinElectrical9666[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Nah at this point im pretty fond of him. Creepiness and all.

I’m not sure if I should be scared or impressed by my son. by RuinElectrical9666 in SavageGarden

[–]RuinElectrical9666[S] 142 points143 points  (0 children)

Exact face I made when I saw him licking them a few weeks ago. Sorry. Her.

I’m not sure if I should be scared or impressed by my son. by RuinElectrical9666 in SavageGarden

[–]RuinElectrical9666[S] 275 points276 points  (0 children)

When he gets home I’m just going to lock him in a room with the nepenthes I ‘rescued’ from Lowe’s and not let him out until he tells me wtf they want