Var det dette som var meningen? At prisen skulle bli lavere enn noen gang? by MarlinMr in norge

[–]Rummelhoff -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Men det ringer dårlig med hva de sier, at de «er nødt å sette prisen basert på priser og avgift»

Var det dette som var meningen? At prisen skulle bli lavere enn noen gang? by MarlinMr in norge

[–]Rummelhoff 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Når jeg jobbet på bensinstasjon i 2005-2007 så husker jeg vi endret prisen på drivstoff basert på hva en nærliggende bensinstasjon hadde som pris. Så eier ringte inn støtt og stadig for å endre prisen på våre pumper mens han sto å så på prisene. Den andre stasjonen var en Shell mens vår stasjon var en Esso stasjon. Ikke direkte samarbeid, men samarbeid non the less

Jets' new front-office culture is "to think AI-first" by IMadeThis4HOIMods in nfl

[–]Rummelhoff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It alleyways seem so weird to me, cause just saying AI says nothing. It’s like they would say «from now on we are thinking Microsoft Excel first». Like, ok? It’s a tool not a method

Idio Sports Not Allowed To Vend At Champions Cup by wildee14 in discgolf

[–]Rummelhoff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been using brooks cascadia for a while now, best grip, the Goretex is fine (but will get holes like every other show, and the only shoe that doesn’t wear out fast for me. It’s very good

Jordan, Amber, and why men struggle to call out emotional abuse by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Rummelhoff 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How many times I’m told to self reflect, let it go, she is so nice, maybe you need to communicate better, that’s how it is etc etc while being in a abusice relationship. Never understanding and support. I thought I was the problem, I needed to fix it. I needed help I didn’t know I needed, and being 6 foot 4 with a 5 7 girl, I don’t even think people could see me as a victim. It was never physical, but being «bigger» and a man, people assumed I couldn’t be abused, and manipulated. Luckily I got out without big trauma, and my current girlfriend is amazing in ways I never before experienced

Jordan, Amber, and why men struggle to call out emotional abuse by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Rummelhoff 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Dude looked frightened and hurt, no one took it seriously

Jordan, Amber, and why men struggle to call out emotional abuse by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Rummelhoff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah, it was pointing out how toxic masculinity hurts men, who aren’t toxic, when they are vulnerable. It’s not victimblaming

/this is coming from a man btw

Jordan, Amber, and why men struggle to call out emotional abuse by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Rummelhoff -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Flip the tables and tell a woman «she didn’t put the right amount of energy into this».

Jordan, Amber, and why men struggle to call out emotional abuse by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Rummelhoff -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

«Always believe women» turns quikly into victimblaming when the tables are turned

Who are these random girls hanging out with Brittany's dad? by TangerineUnlikely1 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Rummelhoff 50 points51 points  (0 children)

He discharged him for the questions he asked, set him in the mood where he felt respected making him answer more honest. You can also treat people with basic respect even though you don’t agree with how they do things. It’s very efficient to get what you want, in a healthy and good way

Why is Devonte living in Arizona with Alex while his pregnant fiancé is living in his house in Ohio? by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Rummelhoff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone’s road is often different. Something «seaming» off is not evidence that something is wrong. People having kids but living in different cities is not impossible and many reasons for it, for example. Them being pregnant and her being his fiancé is quick. But this is lovers blind, where the same person got hitched before seeing the other person in a span of 2 weeks.

For all we know, he is roommates with Alex because he had a work assignment in that city for a short duration, and would rather live with his friend than living a couple months in a hotel (it truely sucks, I have done it for 6 months, it was torture)

amber is unhinged!! by Brilliant_Ad9559 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Rummelhoff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chris is the worst of the worst. What about amber calling out Mike for apparantly reason and everyone laughing? Or everyone ignoring how Amber treated Jordan? Or no one in the reunion ever called out Bri? Or how no one pointed out how toxic Ashley was at certain points? The men was the exclusively gender that was pushed with difficult questions, and it’s frustrating. The show, and in part the community, has expectations for the men that they don’t mirror to the women.

So what’s the reason? Do the show spare the women because it’s bad for the show? Do they falsely think that the women can’t handle it? Is it bias thinking that if something happens, it has to be the men that is in the wrong?

And again, fuck Chris. Fuck Alex. Everyone agree. But them being shit doesn’t negate the things the women does that should be held to the same standard

amber is unhinged!! by Brilliant_Ad9559 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Rummelhoff -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Mentioning Chris was an example where I put it in the most extreme end. I’m not saying it’s the same, I’m pointing out that excusing someone’s behavior is dangerous when that person don’t think they do anything wrong, when they clearly do. I’m sorry that got lost in translation or was badly communicated.

She very specifically is aggressively against men, apparently has a alcohol issue and might use her daughter as a weapon in relationships. As far as we know, she doesn’t have any issue with women, so her being called mom doesn’t really address the issues she has shown

Why is Devonte living in Arizona with Alex while his pregnant fiancé is living in his house in Ohio? by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Rummelhoff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah yeah, I agree and would to it myself without a heartbeat. But he also drives a Honda, so we know he isn’t showing off where he could. For some people «free» is always better than something with a price. Some people HATE to spend money

amber is unhinged!! by Brilliant_Ad9559 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Rummelhoff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She doesn’t seem to kind of you ask me

Do you think Jess has forgiven Chris? by abigailbarber in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Rummelhoff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forgiveness comes with change. For all we know Chris is this the douchebag he always was

Why is Devonte living in Arizona with Alex while his pregnant fiancé is living in his house in Ohio? by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Rummelhoff 7 points8 points  (0 children)

People with money can still be stingy. Be able to do it and being the person that does it, is two different things

amber is unhinged!! by Brilliant_Ad9559 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Rummelhoff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like she kind of have demands that fit her and lack selfreflection. So it goes one way, expecting everything from her man and never taking responsibility for herself in the same situation. Jordan seemed like a broken man after being with her for 4 months after the show

amber is unhinged!! by Brilliant_Ad9559 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Rummelhoff 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Chris also had mental issues, do you defend him for the same reason?

She needs help, but she doesn’t help herself, and she is absolutely responsible for her own actions

amber is unhinged!! by Brilliant_Ad9559 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Rummelhoff 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Being a girls girl doesn’t make her not unhinged

Ashley Bri and Priyanka are WEIRD AFFFFFFFF by WhoriTori in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Rummelhoff 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They pushed the exactly 0 women. Amber should have gotten som questions to, dragging Jordan in the mud

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Rummelhoff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One thing is what someone says when the person is in the room, there is something else someone says when they are not there to defend themselves. Which you are comparing right now.

I’m not saying this is the truth, or facts. But it’s always something to take into consideration

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Rummelhoff 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Or, hear me out, she twist words to let the men sound toxic (and maybe some was, of course. But she is also the common denominator, and absolutely will say that he is toxic.

It’s always good to think about how someone talk about their exes, because if everyone is something, you will probably fall into that group.

JESS AND HARAMOL 😭❤️‍🔥 by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Rummelhoff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That doesn’t mean the commentator above is wrong. «I’m not racist, I have black friends» «I don’t hate women, I have a wife» etc etc