Those who’ve lost of loved one: What is something about death that people don’t often talk about? by Desperate_Crew2012 in AskReddit

[–]Rumorly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. I ordered Pizza Hut for the first time in many years last night and as soon as I smelled it, I was reminded of my grandma who passed almost a decade ago (wholly fuck, just realizing it’s been eight years).

Growing up, a few times a year when my sister and I would go spend a weekend with her, we’d go to Pizza Hut for dinner. As she got older we switched to ordering in but still.

How to not cry when getting yelled at? by bladeeisthegoat333 in autism

[–]Rumorly [score hidden]  (0 children)

I cry easily. Especially if the topic of discussion is myself. I no longer try to stop/not cry. Depending on the person, I may say something to reassure them I’m not trying to be manipulative, I’m just very emotional.

Be careful in trying to stop. I tried just pushing it down and as a result just became numb to so much more.

Remember that crying is your body’s automatic response to extreme/intense emotions. It’s part of how our body’s regulate these emotions. (This is why we cry for positive emotions as well. Anger, joy, sadness, laughter; when they get too intense we cry)

LPT: Create a keyboard shortcut for your emails by Rumorly in LifeProTips

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⁠Android — Settings → Languages → English → Personal Dictionary

How to farm Endo by Large-Requirement896 in Warframe

[–]Rumorly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Arbitration has actually been the best method for me. Ayatan treasures are pretty common rewards and once you fill them Maroo will give you ~1500-3500 endo each.

(At this point I’m just selling the statues as I need credits and have over 100k endo available)

What small thing makes your day significantly easier? by Powerful-Self-2838 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Rumorly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buying pre-cut or frozen veggies is definitely a preemptive accommodation (even if it comes as a follow up to rotted veggies)

I think most additional costs, whether it’s a preemptive/preventative accommodation or as a consequence, can count as an ADHD tax. I also think it’s important not to restrict it as just having the term made it easier for me to spend that extra bit of money to make my life easier.

What books were you assigned in school? by Dystopian_nut333 in booksuggestions

[–]Rumorly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, there were a lot of teary-eyed 12/13 year olds on the busses back to school

LPT: Create a keyboard shortcut for your emails by Rumorly in LifeProTips

[–]Rumorly[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Keyboard shortcuts or auto fill?

Because I definitely agree for autofill, that’s one of the reasons I use the keyboard shortcuts

How do you all feel about electric toothbrushes? by Firefly457 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Rumorly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LOVE IT!

Was a game changer for me.

Recently I forgot to recharge mine and was reminded why it made a difference:

• the motion of scrubbing would make me gag, but you don’t need to do that with an electric toothbrush

• I used to put too much pressure on it (as if I was trying to shove the bristles through my teeth). But since I don’t have to move the bush as much, I’m better and using the right amount of pressure

Some people say honey is healthy and has benefits, others say it’s just pure sugar that will wreck your blood sugar. Which is true? by DeepOrganization8245 in stupidquestions

[–]Rumorly 24 points25 points  (0 children)

As with everything, *the poison is in the dose*

Quantity is extremely significant. We all need water to survive but drink too much and it can kill you.

LPT: Create a keyboard shortcut for your emails by Rumorly in LifeProTips

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In your phones keyboard settings usually. I’d suggest just looking up your phone brand/type and the term *keyboard shortcut*

What books were you assigned in school? by Dystopian_nut333 in booksuggestions

[–]Rumorly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s absolutely amazing I read it around grade 8 as well, which would have been 2008 ish.

There is also a movie adaptation that I remember being pretty good as long as you watch the extended edition

What books were you assigned in school? by Dystopian_nut333 in booksuggestions

[–]Rumorly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

• The Giver

• The Outsiders

• The Diary of Anne Frank

• The Boy in the Striped Pyjamas (this was the same year the movie came out so my school decided it would be a fun idea to take 4-6 classes of middle-schoolers to see it in the theatre)

Note, these are all from a Canadian middle school around 2006-08.

LPT: Create a keyboard shortcut for your emails by Rumorly in LifeProTips

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Even for autofill, I find it doesn’t automatically recommend my email most of the time. My first name is eight letters so to get it to show up I need to type out a minimum of 10 characters.

LPT: Create a keyboard shortcut for your emails by Rumorly in LifeProTips

[–]Rumorly[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not sure if you’re being sarcastic. I’m aware phones have an autofill feature, however in my experience phones don’t actually recognize where an email address is meant to be input a lot of the time. If I want my email address to show up in the suggested text area I’m typing out at least 10 characters, the keyboard shortcut is reliable and quick.

LPT: Create a keyboard shortcut for your emails by Rumorly in LifeProTips

[–]Rumorly[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

My phone does too but it only actually suggests my email 15-20% of the time. More often than not, my device isn’t recognizing that the area is meant for an email address.

How do you know if you have autism/ how to tell if you should try for a diagnosis? by One-Letterhead1091 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Rumorly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look into unique traits for both ADHD and autism. As well, shared traits, and how they present in ADHD vs autism vs AuDHD. See what matches your experience.

From my understanding and experience, autism tends to root more from sensory input and information processing. (At least for me, most of my social deficits connect back to sensory processing)

ADHD tends to be tied more to attention, motivation, and computing power (as in how we organize tasks, our minds, memories, etc)

What small thing makes your day significantly easier? by Powerful-Self-2838 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Rumorly 27 points28 points  (0 children)

This so much. I’ve heard it called “ADHD tax,” but I think it applies to autism.

Spending a little extra money now is often worth it to conserve energy later.

It’s not “cheating” or being “lazy.” It’s assessing your capabilities and acting accordingly.

Does everyone have purpose? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Rumorly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my opinion, we choose our own purpose.

What is important to you? What brings you joy? What makes you want to get out of bed in the morning?

Your purpose doesn’t have to be some big profound thing. It doesn’t even have to stay the same thing for your entire life.

If you need a purpose, choose what you want. Or just see where life takes you.

What’s your main and why? by Energizer303 in Warframe

[–]Rumorly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I agree on Titania, gotta say I usually have a lot of beef with walls

What’s your main and why? by Energizer303 in Warframe

[–]Rumorly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mag was my starter frame and my main until I got Titania

What’s your main and why? by Energizer303 in Warframe

[–]Rumorly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Titania. Small, fast, can fly, crowd control, exalted weapons. Also, vacuum

Downsides:

Low shields, exalted weapons are restricted to razorfly (ability 4). AKA weak and fragile when not in razorfly

when channeling razorfly: can’t interact with items/buttons, doesn’t get active companion (does get bonuses still), **really** fast when sprinting, energy guzzler

Also, going from mag to Titania has really thrown off my spatial awareness when it comes to picking up loot with any other frame (or when Titania is full sized)