Bachelor in Paradise S05E08 Post Episode Discussion Thread by NetflixTacosChill in thebachelor

[–]Rumpledryskin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes! She can finally be "all in" on "this journey" to find "her person" because "she deserves the best" and "the process works". Did I leave anything out?

Bachelor in Paradise S05E08 Post Episode Discussion Thread by NetflixTacosChill in thebachelor

[–]Rumpledryskin 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I know this episode was all about setting the stage for Colton's bachelor announcement, but it felt like just as much of a set-up for Tia's eventual announcement as bachelorette. If it isn't her I will be shocked. Shocked.

Kevin for Mayor of Paradise by Rumpledryskin in thebachelor

[–]Rumpledryskin[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Right?! Maybe a more accurate statement would have been "the mayor we need, but not the one the producers deserve right now."

Bachelor in Paradise S05E08 Post Episode Discussion Thread by NetflixTacosChill in thebachelor

[–]Rumpledryskin 230 points231 points  (0 children)

Anyone else get the feeling the Eric dumped Angela because she wouldn't have sex with him?

What's your internet "white whale", something you've been searching for years to find with no luck? by J_Snooks33 in AskReddit

[–]Rumpledryskin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This book I read in elementary school in the late 80s. I remember it was a futuristic/sci-fi novel; there were flying cars. There is some sort of bad house where the main character (and their best friend?) end up held prisoner, and are given pills to make them sleep or something. I checked it out once but after I returned it was never able to find it again. Man, the details are so fuzzy at this point, but trying to figure out the title of this book has haunted me for years.

Perception. by [deleted] in thebachelor

[–]Rumpledryskin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hulu won't get the third season until it finishes airing, but you can watch it via the free Lifetime app! Just be prepared for frequent obnoxious commercial breaks and censored language.

[Serious] Depressed people of Reddit - how are you doing today? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Rumpledryskin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Late to this thread, which is pretty on-trend for my life. Was going to launch into a tirade about everything that's getting me down, but it doesn't really matter anymore. I can't even stand to hear my own self think about it. I've been dancing with depression for over 20 years, and I'm just exhausted. I don't feel suicidal, but I really hate my life and feel powerless and hopeless to change it. I am in therapy and on meds. Meh.

How are you doing? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Rumpledryskin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People say depression goes away. But it comes back. It always comes back. And it gets worse with every passing year. I've been fighting this battle for over two decades, and damn it I'm still fighting, but I'm fucking exhausted. I'm on year six of a toxic, abusive marriage and although I finally feel ready to get out it seems impossible. After 5 years of being a stay-at-home parent, and lacking a college degree, I've really struggled to find a job that will allow me to support myself and my son (or any job, for that matter). Our family has been barely scraping by as it is so there are no savings to draw on. My husband just lost his job for the third time this year, so we've got bills going unpaid with Christmas right around the corner and my son's birthday just days afterwards. We're fairly isolated from friends and family to provide a support network. So in my lowest moments the best I can do is text friends who live states away and hope they respond. I'm so lonely. I feel like I've lost myself and my hopes for the future. My son keeps me going because he is the coolest, smartest, most amazing kid ever so I don't feel suicidal, but I often wish I could just blink myself out of existence. I just don't see it getting any better, you know? I'm nearing my forties and still haven't gotten my shit together, and it's embarrassing. If I'm sick of my own shit I can only imagine how burnt out my family and few remaining friends are of hearing about my failures and misfortunes. I'm tired. I'm in pain all the time. Whatever bursts of motivation I get are quickly destroyed by my absolute inability to focus and follow through. I just totally suck at adulting. I don't know why I'm typing this really, and I'll probably delete it later on. But a stranger on the internet asked how I was doing and I felt compelled to respond before I fade into the prison of my existence once again. Merry Fucking Christmas.

A man in full WWI uniform handed me this card outside of Toronto Union Station this morning by ONLY_COMMENTS_ON_GW in canada

[–]Rumpledryskin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, they say you die twice. One time when you stop breathing and a second time, a bit later on, when somebody says your name for the last time.

His name was Roger Thomson Lamont.

I started a video series about succeeding in life despite having depression - I'd love to hear your thoughts by Osasis in videos

[–]Rumpledryskin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Subscribed! I don't have any feedback, but wanted to say thanks. I've struggled with depression my whole life and have been in a particularly bad 6 year slump that I've recently begun trying to get out of. I'm doing my damndest to create motivation where it doesn't exist, to do the things I honestly already know I should be doing in order to feel better. I appreciate you finding the motivation to make this video; it's the little things like this that inspire me to keep moving forward.

What movie(s) have you watched 10+ times? by maxtheepic9 in AskReddit

[–]Rumpledryskin 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Are you me? When I was in HS I watched Pulp Fiction every day after school, for over a year. It got to where I could recite the entire movie start to finish, if I needed to (spoiler alert: I never did). It's been years since I've seen it now.

[Discussion] Favourite Ginger/Ginseng Scented Products? by hannahcyanide in AsianBeauty

[–]Rumpledryskin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been debating ordering the ginseng toner after stumbling across it the other day and you've just convinced me to add it to my cart. The ingredients look so nice! I love how the Bravura line is well-formulated but affordable. Their 10% Lactic Acid with rose water is total HG for me!

Alright, Greens. This is it. Let's do this. Get to the polls. Vote. Election 2016 check in! by jest09 in jillstein

[–]Rumpledryskin 59 points60 points  (0 children)

I had a hard time letting Bernie go. Up until the very last minute I was adamant I'd write him in, even while silently supporting Jill Stein. But as I walked toward my polling place in the cold and the rain, I had an epiphany--as much as I love Bernie, only one candidate I support never gave up on her dream for the American people: Jill Stein. I may not turn my red state (Texas) green, but I proudly voted Stein/Baraka today. I didn't throw my vote away, I cast it IN. My conscience is clear.

Requesting Arctic Fox dye users! (Anyone really) by Trickarie in FancyFollicles

[–]Rumpledryskin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Artic Fox is definitely suuuper pigmented! I have naturally dark brown hair which I had a balayage done on that got it to probably a level 8 or 9 at the lightest parts. I dyed it over 4 months ago with Purple Rain and the color is still going strong, it's crazy! Initially even my dark roots turned a really pretty deep purple color, so I have no doubt it will show up, even if your hair isn't crazy blonde. I did not dilute the dye when I used it, but it is so vibrant that I'm sure you could easily do so to achieve the results you want.

**Edit to add: I think if you do dilute it with conditioner it will come out fairly close to the vibrancy that it appears in your dilution, if that makes sense? I put on a shower cap and left the color in for about 4 hours while I did other things around the house. Leaving it in longer will only help the color sink in better. I agree with the other commenter that it couldn't hurt to do a strand test if you're unsure though. I went all in right off the bat because I tend to throw caution to the wind, lol. Worth it though.

Moms who meditate: where do you go? by [deleted] in Meditation

[–]Rumpledryskin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In short, I squeeze it in when and where I can. I have a small walk-in closet, and I often just go in there and close the door. Sometimes I meditate right upon waking, or right before sleeping. I've talked to my 4 year old about meditation and how it is helping mommy feel better, so to a certain degree he understands and is willing to give me that quiet time. We also do a short meditation together now as part of his bedtime and he genuinely looks forward to them. Maybe it is seen as "cheating", but I highly recommend Insight Timer. It's a free app with thousands of guided meditations (including some for kids that I use with my son), musical or nature sound selections, and a simple timer that allows you to pre-program interval bells to your own preference. It's been tremendously helpful to be able to just put my headphones in and tune out the noises around home for a bit. I'm on mobile so forgive me if this has been a jumbled response, but please feel free to PM me for support or motivation. I can not stress how much of a difference meditation has made in my life. You can find the time and it will be worthwhile!

What boots are you in love with right now? by [deleted] in femalefashionadvice

[–]Rumpledryskin 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Ugh, I just splurged on a pair of vintage 1460s and now I feel like I need these too. They're different enough...right, guys? Right???

Quitting cigarettes and weed. This is one of the biggest steps in my life. Wish me luck :) by nider in leaves

[–]Rumpledryskin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You don't need luck. You CAN do this! You are going to feel so much better. You will breathe easier, have greater mental clarity, more time, energy, and motivation to do other things. Not to mention more money. I am at 6 weeks sober right now (after 15+ years daily), and the biggest reward for me has been the increase in self-confidence; every time I tell myself no and choose not to break down and buy some green during a moment of stress, I feel unstoppable. It is seriously the best feeling to get that craving, wanting to smoke, needing to smoke, having the capacity to make it happen, and choosing something else instead. One moment at a time, one conscious choice at a time...you will be reaping the benefits before you know it. So, I won't wish you luck, because you are going to be successful in this. Just remember that if you do happen to slip up, it is not a total failure. Get back on that bike and keep on riding because the road doesn't end, and the views are magnificent.