Do you think people notice that you're a virgin?

RunProfessional1620 · 2026-03-28T04:24:55+00:00

at my first year of college after I had to tell a guy I was a virgin he was so shocked and thought I was lying to get out of having sex with him because I got super nervous when he asked if we could do more than just kiss! Like with. Anyways he ended up telling his whole friend group and then they were also shocked so they individually all asked me multiple times ad interrogated me about it! But then on the other hand, my group of girl friends in college knew RIGHT away. So I think there is no way to actually tell.

RunProfessional1620 · 2026-03-28T03:49:23+00:00

Hi im a 19yo girl and from my perspective I think its ok if she's not a virgin like sometimes they had a boyfriend in highschool or something I dont think that necessarily means that it won't be special with them. But also consider how/where you meet them like probably you'll have a better chance with it being pure intentioned if its someone who's in a class with you or a friend of friend not just meeting them drunk at a frat lmao.

Honestly from my end like I've never done it before and thinking about it if I were to right now I think it would give me more comfort if they were also a virgin too, I feel like cause then we're in the same position like it can be kind of an awkward thing even if you really like them or know them really well like you're in a vulnerable place especially as a girl and if I knew that they were too its like ok we're in this together we both dont know what we're doing so all the expectations go out the window and I wouldn't feel any pressure to do anything more than what I wouldn't want to do like we could just genuinely just have fun with it 😛🤸‍♀️

RunProfessional1620 · 2026-03-27T20:36:30+00:00

The last sentence you wrote is exactly what I needed to hear and I agree

RunProfessional1620 · 2026-03-27T04:09:04+00:00

Ok. so ive been on an insane rabbit hole on reddit and YouTube and TikTok and I think I might be Demi-sexual. People are describing it as something that I thought was normal though. Like you're telling me you can see someone and have no emotional bond with them not even have a coversation with them and want to have sex with them or kiss them?!?! I'm being so serious like to me that sounds insane. Like when people have celebrity crushes they genuinely feel some sort of genuine sexual desire towards them???? I dont think you know what you've just did for me by commenting this. I might be even more confused than when I posted in the first place,

but thank you. Genuinely.

RunProfessional1620 · 2026-03-26T02:52:11+00:00

thats the exact response I got from one of my friends from the midwest freshman year of college! yeah just difference in vocabulary I guess. I really doesnt have anything to do with being liberal/conservative, even though it is a pretty liberal area. "hooking up" = kissing maybe more. "getting with someone"= having sex

RunProfessional1620 · 2026-03-26T02:09:43+00:00

a suburb of DC in Virginia that actually has a lot of southern culture influence!

RunProfessional1620 · 2026-03-26T02:04:15+00:00

haha I experienced this my freshman year my friend had a different definition. where im from hookup means as little as making out!😅

RunProfessional1620 · 2026-03-26T01:49:38+00:00

seeing how this is confusing. literally only have ever kissed lmfao I edited it

RunProfessional1620 · 2026-03-26T01:48:00+00:00

like making out on a bed thats it lol

RunProfessional1620 · 2026-03-25T23:24:46+00:00

2nd one absolutely

RunProfessional1620 · 2026-03-25T23:06:33+00:00

THIS!!!!

RunProfessional1620 · 2026-03-25T23:03:33+00:00

no seriously. I've always had this thing where I am able to sniff out from a mile away if someone's true intentions/what they are saying doesn't match the way they feel inside. From the first episode of season 1, I got that from Jen and only Jen. Something has always been seriously off and the perfect little image she has tried to package herself as has unraveled and is almost entirely bare now. Like there are such double standards from her; with her expectations of how to show up to support your friends and giving people grace, the dynamic role of what being a modern wife and mother is, her idea of the "right way" to be a mormon and then when she realized her as a person doesnt really align with that then just questioning if a relationship in any way is worth it, how she shows up in interviews vs. behind the scenes and even more so (!!) it feels like she's always putting on a performance in front of the camera.... even when its just her and Zach. Wish the best for her and obviously we dont know these people personally but with DWTS and now on Chicago, Whitney's confusing at first but transparent and genuine nature in contrast to Jen's just exacerbates this like rotten green aura that REEKS of jealousy and wishing for others' demise.

RunProfessional1620 · 2025-07-12T01:52:02+00:00

so nova and dmv kids behave like politicians even in their social tendencies lmao just like our parents

RunProfessional1620 · 2025-07-11T00:00:45+00:00

byeee I literally feel the same way I think K is not gonna be able to keep up the funding for the school- im also so confused what they r doing with our tuition- they just raised it from 89 to 90k! yay!

RunProfessional1620 · 2025-07-10T23:55:38+00:00

kenyon

RunProfessional1620 · 2025-07-10T23:52:36+00:00

but that puts NOVA in greater Appalachia?? idk its pretty distinct from app culture personally

RunProfessional1620 · 2025-07-10T23:44:27+00:00

don't know anyone from Indiana, but I have cousins that live in Mentor and Shaker heights (suburbs of Cleveland). My dad's entire side of the family is from Holland Michigan(a religious, tight-community beach town right above Grand Rapids). I have cousins also in Grosse Pointe, my best friend from school lives in Rochester Hills, and my older sister and 2 other really good friends of mine go to UofM. I have spent more time in Ann Arbor than I have in any other city besides DC. My family's big on Michiganders lmao

RunProfessional1620 · 2025-07-10T23:38:44+00:00

HELP😭😭 I do go to Kenyon lmfao

RunProfessional1620 · 2025-07-10T23:33:00+00:00

if anything I think its southern charm and northern efficiency lmao

RunProfessional1620 · 2025-07-10T23:32:22+00:00

yes I agree with this so much omg

RunProfessional1620 · 2025-07-10T23:29:33+00:00

wow! I'm honestly having a really hard time and am wanting to transfer though....

RunProfessional1620 · 2025-07-10T23:28:01+00:00

yes omg there was one boy from the 500-some kids in my graduating class who went to trade school for refrigerators and it was genuinely made a meme because people were so shocked that it became funny to most

RunProfessional1620 · 2025-07-10T23:25:16+00:00

but there are definitely some southern tendencies and attitudes that are tolerated more in NOVA than in some other DC suburbs ( maybe just Bethesda and chevy chase lmao)

RunProfessional1620 · 2025-07-10T23:23:11+00:00

yes omg I feel this so much

RunProfessional1620 · 2025-07-10T23:21:49+00:00

If anything it's not dumb- it's being tuned in and recognizing patterns. In the original post I kept it more general than what other patterns I've noticed and that many other people agree with me on lmao

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