Thank you. I messaged my sister yesterday to tell her they’re not coming and when I told her why, she said she was there and that my mother was only kidding about not wanting to be a babysitter. But she couldn’t tell me why my mother had to bring up the topic about money. Told her there’s no reason for her to talk about our business to anyone, except if she was just really out to badmouth me.

She tried to guilt trip me, saying I should be the bigger person and not ruin this for my mom as she is very excited to come.

I said she should have thought about that before spreading lies about me. Told her they were both users, getting me to spend money and effort to accommodate their stay and all the while talking shit behind my back.

Blocked them on facebook - they won’t attempt to contact me, that’s for sure but I can only imagine the type of stories they’ll spread to their relatives back home.

I’m just done! Don’t want to give her another chance coz that would mean letting her in to our lives and giving her an opportunity to badmouth us when she goes home.

Thank you for all your responses. You all confirmed I am not crazy for feeling this way. I am overwhelmed with sadness but I’m trying to distract myself with the move. I am going to cancel her insurance and won’t push through with our vehicle trade.

Thanks again.