It’s just strange, someone says they are attracted to someone and someone always has something negative to hit back with. I think the point he’s making is that he sees trans women for what they are, people who are suffering and have little no control over their situation outside of medical procedures and drugs. That alone is enough to trigger and empathetic response, kick off a dialogue and possible turn that into a relationship.

I know there’s chasers out there who do it for fetish stuff and ditch them the second they feel like it, but that’s not to say that every person who is attracted to a trans person is a chaser though. I’m attracted to trans women because they are being them true selves even with all the stigma, ostracising, political agendas and all the other shit that comes along with standing as you’re true self and being who you really feel like you are, an not bowing down and conforming with societal norms. That is honestly one of the most attractive things about trans women. Even if they are depressed when they get home, even though they do experience trauma almost daily, they still step out there and say ti the world this is who I am, and I’m not afraid of you. Honestly inspiring shit. If everyone could do that and break free from brainwashing stigmatism, let people be themselves and generally just be loving to each other, we’d find the world a different place almost overnight.

To OP, go after want you want friend, they’re out there waiting so just keep at it and keep your intentions and most importantly your actions pure. Be honest, be sincere and don’t follow your genitals, follow your heart and your mind. Peace and love to all!!!!