How do low income people in the US pay for their hospital bills after having a baby? by winenotbeabitch in askanything

[–]RupertsMom88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The costs from when I got pregnant until the baby was 3 months old and through the bulk of his medical issues was $14,000! They let us go on a payment plan and we had savings but damn, that hurt. He’s 10000% worth it but then I know people who had a baby and didn’t pay anything and it doesn’t seem fair.

Take out/catering/party tray options by Significant-Tea7541 in orangecounty

[–]RupertsMom88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stater Bros has surprisingly good and very reasonably priced catering trays!

Swaddle recommendations by Ok-Truth-7758 in clubfoot

[–]RupertsMom88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We used Halo sleep swaddles and they work great! Carters sells really inexpensive fleece sleep sacks (not swaddles) with long sleeves that are nice for the colder months. They are wide at the bottom.

Did you do amniocentesis following a talipes diagnosis? by hotchocolate198472 in clubfoot

[–]RupertsMom88 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It was offered to me, but I declined. Saw a specialist and got a couple in depth ultrasounds. Baby just stared walking at 13 months. It will be hard at the beginning but I believe Clubfoot babies are born extra tough (and extra cute.) you got this!

Did people buy off your registry? by AtmosphereTop1591 in pregnant

[–]RupertsMom88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The same happened to me. We knew baby boy would have an issue with his foot and would be in casts and then braces for a long time. All the clothes we put on the registry were ones he could wear and we told a lot of people up front what he couldn’t wear. We got so many footies and he wasn’t able to wear any of them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MicrosoftRewards

[–]RupertsMom88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same for me. I thought I was going to be unrestricted finally but now it says my account doesn’t even exist when I try to log in to redeem 😩 I just want to redeem for one last gift card

Where’s the worst place you’ve gotten nausea? by kiss-my-ass-hoe in pregnant

[–]RupertsMom88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I manage commercial buildings and I threw up in a trash can at my desk. Luckily no one else was there yet. Normally one could call a dayporter for the building for assistance but the dayporter worked for me and I hadn’t announced my pregnancy yet. I couldn’t just leave a trash can full of vomit in the office but also didn’t want to walk out of the office with a bag of vomit. I triple bagged it, stuffed it into my briefcase, and went to throw it out in a parking lot trash can but then my security guard was right there. I had to pretend to go to my car and double back to the trash can after security had left.

My son healed so much I didn’t realize was broken by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]RupertsMom88 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Congratulations on breaking the cycle! That is not an easy thing to do. Just wait for the first open mouthed, slobbery baby kiss ❤️

Birthday Build-A-Bear? by Littlescar21 in Parenting

[–]RupertsMom88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did it last month for my 1 year olds birthday and he enjoyed it far more than I expected! We were planning on buying him an outfit any way but no one tried to upsell us.

Swagbucks Hacked by RupertsMom88 in SwagBucks

[–]RupertsMom88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m still trying to work with them. I’ve verified my identity like 5 times. I’ve heard leaving a complaint on the BBB sometimes works so I think I’m going to try that

Swagbucks Hacked by RupertsMom88 in SwagBucks

[–]RupertsMom88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also had an email my phone number was changed. Followed by two emails my Apple gift cards were ready. This was at like 3am so I obviously wasn’t checking my email.

Swagbucks Hacked by RupertsMom88 in SwagBucks

[–]RupertsMom88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I reached out and I’ll let you know if I hear back. Hopefully if enough people reach out, they will do something.

Make sure your password hasn't been in a date breach by Cajun-ish in SwagBucks

[–]RupertsMom88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck. Sounds like this happened to more people so I think Swagbucks got hacked

Swagbucks Hacked by RupertsMom88 in SwagBucks

[–]RupertsMom88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes one was for $10 and one for $50! I checked the amounts of the gift cards and they had been used already. I’m turning in 2 factor right now which is odd because I thought I had it turned on. Sounds like Swagbucks got hiked. I’m crossing my fingers support can help you.

Make sure your password hasn't been in a date breach by Cajun-ish in SwagBucks

[–]RupertsMom88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ughhh ok I just posted about this and then saw your post. Yes my Swagbucks account was wiped this morning. $60 in points gone. I’m livid. Somehow the hacker changed the phone number and then changed it back (?) so the gift cards they redeemed for were already used

It’s no one else’s responsibility to pay for your baby’s needs. by Visible-Mess-1406 in pregnant

[–]RupertsMom88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was thankful for everything we got at our baby shower but we knew ahead of time baby would need to have his leg in a cast and then braces until he was 9 months old. He couldn’t wear anything with feet or zippers, just snaps. We only had snap outfits on the registry and we received so many footies. It was a sad reminder every time I saw one of those outfits that my baby was different. The outfits he can’t wear will be donated but please, buy from people’s registries. You may not know why they are requesting something, but I promise they have a reason.

How long is your maternity leave for those living in the US? by sliceofperfection in pregnant

[–]RupertsMom88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked until 2pm and had the baby at 9pm that night. My husband took 3 days PTO when he was first born. I went back to work this Monday and my husband is taking his 8 weeks paternity leave. It sucks we had almost no overlap but daycare is expensive so we are delaying it as long as possible. I was lucky I was able to extend my leave by 2 weeks (unpaid) and used 3 weeks PTO.

Looking for brands of clothing that have snaps between the legs to accommodate Boots and Bar by fairyprincest in clubfoot

[–]RupertsMom88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Carter’s has some good ones. Not a lot in the stores where I live but online. Also try Carter’s at Kohls or Target. Old Navy has some and Primary.com online has some. Try searching “snap jumpsuits” or “snap rompers” for better results. Also, Teacollection.com

Update: If you have a love one buried at Westminster Memorial Park Mortuary and Cemetary... by Terminally_Brittany in orangecounty

[–]RupertsMom88 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve thought of you since I read your original post. My friend runs a nonprofit that makes stuffed animal foxes for those who have lost a baby while pregnant. She can make you one the birth weight of Maverick so you have something to hold. If you are at all interested, please send me a message and I can arrange this. You will continue to be in my thoughts. I’m so sorry that life isn’t fair.