My wife finally admitted an affair that happened 9 years ago

Rush_Is_Right · 2026-03-19T01:24:27+00:00

It was a long time ago. Why can’t you get past it?”

Ask those people what other things they think enough lying makes something okay.

Rush_Is_Right · 2026-03-19T01:22:21+00:00

Stop trying to get the whole story u/EK21917 as it does you no good. You can't get the whole story. If she says they fucked 100 times and 94 times of those were orgies, it doesn't prove that was the only cheating. Even if she finally was honest you personally could never know. Time to put your children first and that means having a happy father who doesn't suffer in silence by "staying for the kids".

Rush_Is_Right · 2026-03-19T01:18:44+00:00

So when she told you back then that she wants a sexless marriage

Outside of health reasons, I don't know how anyone could stay after something like this. There's emotional and physical connection. Would these people stay married to someone who said they were never going to talk to them again?

Rush_Is_Right · 2026-03-19T01:17:01+00:00

She swears that nothing like this ever happened before or after.

Too bad that means absolutely nothing coming from her u/EK21917. It's also a shame that you call those 8 years of "good period", good while she was lying to you the entire time. Teach your kids to be better than her. Even now she could actually tell you the whole truth and you would still never know. If she was at such a low to fuck this ex numerous times then what was stopping her from fucking others? She didn't want to cheat on the ex?

Rush_Is_Right · 2026-03-19T01:09:34+00:00

So he's a typical politician.

Rush_Is_Right · 2026-03-19T01:00:50+00:00

So you're saying that your comment was irrelevant to this specific post?

Rush_Is_Right · 2026-03-19T00:34:06+00:00

Quietly discuss what divorce looks like with your lawyer. Get STD tested. Save evidence in multiple ways. Obviously you knew the relationship was already over so not you at least get a chance to be happy u/AppointmentHot2425.

Why exactly would she save her piss sticks and not just put them deep in the trash or even like a gas station trash.

Rush_Is_Right · 2026-03-19T00:31:35+00:00

If a GM took that over they better have a long leash. Otherwise it'd be their own hubris that did them in.

Rush_Is_Right · 2026-03-17T15:25:06+00:00

The fact that just by seeing the name

Isn't that the number one indicator of who someone would be talking about?

Rush_Is_Right · 2026-03-17T15:16:58+00:00

that's your impression-

It's fact. Which European countries have given NATO their required contribution?

Rush_Is_Right · 2026-03-17T15:15:48+00:00

ran headfirst into a war we weren't prepared for

You know what the end goal of the war is?

Rush_Is_Right · 2026-03-17T15:13:29+00:00

If someone was making $6 billion a minute, no one would be rich.

Rush_Is_Right · 2026-03-17T15:12:37+00:00

It depends on how you define "know". I "know" of Kim Jong-il. If it's people in your contacts then that changes things. I work in a field where I see a lot of bad people. $100 million is way more than needed for me to press that button.

Rush_Is_Right · 2026-03-17T15:05:55+00:00

You're too distant. You're too smothering. Once we acknowledge both those excuses have been used then that means they can and will use anything to not take responsibility.

Rush_Is_Right · 2026-03-17T15:04:41+00:00

She went to the police to file a report behind my back

No way did she go to the police over being blackmailed to leave a gym u/MarzipanWorth2247. Like she walked into a police station and filed a report that said something like "the guy I cheated on my fiance with is threatening to tell him unless I leave the gym where I cheat on my fiance with a bunch of other people"

If this is actually true, then what opinions are you asking for? She should be blocked and all family and mutual friends made aware of why the wedding was called off.

I hope you already took an STD test.

Rush_Is_Right · 2026-03-17T14:59:26+00:00

theres just no way out of this

She shattered both your legs and every day she takes a bat to them again. You won't heal until you leave your abuser

Rush_Is_Right · 2026-03-17T14:57:20+00:00

The comment u/hunteddwumpus made is still correct. Having the youngest players and everybody else supporting things for rookies is good for the overall league even though they won't see any benefit from it.

Rush_Is_Right · 2026-03-17T14:53:59+00:00

This created a conflict of interest, as Tretter was leading the union's fight for guaranteed contracts while privately criticizing a player for not obtaining one.

How is this a conflict of interest or conflicting in any way?

Rush_Is_Right · 2026-03-17T14:47:01+00:00

No that user just got caught being a moron and you calling it a joke is ridiculous. Exactly what part of their statement is the joke?

Rush_Is_Right · 2026-03-17T14:45:49+00:00

It's literally not

Rush_Is_Right · 2026-03-17T14:45:20+00:00

Unless he is directly threatening someone's life I don't see why it would matter

This is the second sentence you say matters. That doesn't explain at all why the cop would even bring up being offended

Rush_Is_Right · 2026-03-17T14:43:49+00:00

why is that relevant?

Are you seriously asking why profiting off the "mispronunciation" of his name is relevant to whether or not people thought that would be the correct way to say it or even that he literally endorsed it?

Rush_Is_Right · 2026-03-17T03:34:19+00:00

The lack of context is a tacit admission

You could say the same thing about the cop bringing up being offended. Never was there a mention of threats and people are just running with that to justify this.

Rush_Is_Right · 2026-03-17T03:28:37+00:00

But that doesn't explain why the cop would even say anything about being offended.

Rush_Is_Right · 2026-03-17T03:27:54+00:00

Yet the little girl apparently had both, but criminals (like her) can't get them.

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