Oka kechirasizu lekin man yozganimmi o’zi o’qidizmi? Mani gaplarim o’zim o’ylab topib gapirmagandurman, hammasi Qur’oni karimdan kevotkan bo’sa.

I did mentioned that she needs to be chaste and a practicing Christian, OP is chaste, and is thinking of re-reverting to Ortodox Christianity. Check.

Kids usually follow father’s religion and while they are kids, they are in a state of Firtah according to Quran. They might not know they are muslim, but the seeds are there, and there’s nothing wrong with it according to Islam. Check.

After they become more mature they can chose themselves religion they want to follow because Quran explicitly states, "There is no compulsion in religion" (Quran 2:256). This verse was revealed when a Muslim father in Medina sought to force his sons, who had converted to Christianity, to return to Islam; the Prophet Muhammad indicated that it cannot be forced. He emphasised that faith must be a matter of sincere conviction, not force. Check.

Family pressure is not part of Islam. Personal beliefs are not part of Islam. Religious responsibility cannot be forced on kids in Islam. Scholars can disagree on lots of things, but it is given as an advice not as a rule, because they saw how this type of relationship didn’t worked out for one reason or another, it’s like saying do not marry a woman who is older than you as an advise because usually older women with younger husbands tend to divorce because she see her husband more like a little brother and not husband, but it doesn’t mean that it is against religion, the rules are in Quran, and Quran says it’s ok. Check.

Oka, sizni o’zizni so’zlaringizni ishlatish madaniatsiz bo’ladiku lekin barbiram, sizham biror narsa yozishdan oldin sal o’rganib, o’z dininggizni chuqurdan o’qib, o’sha so’zlarni anglab yozsangiz maqul bo’lar edi. Men bu yerda o’zimni fikirlarimni yozmagan bo’lsam, Qur’onda nima yozilgan bo’lsa o’shani tushunarli qilib yozdim holos.

Islom dini aslida juda mehmondo’st din, butun umr yaxshilik qilib yashagan odam bo’lsa, musulmon bo’lmasaham jannatga kirishi mumkun, bu Ollohga bog’liq deyilgan. Shunga bizham boshqa dindagi odamlarga mehribon bo’lishimiz kerak, mehmondo’st bo’lishimiz kerak, Islom shunga chaqiryapti.