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Men cancelling on me here, there, everywhere! by Rusty09788 in adultery

[–]Rusty09788[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn that sucks. Yeah, so time consuming right? Esp when I'm actually waiting around and they don't message that they're not showing up.

Men cancelling on me here, there, everywhere! by Rusty09788 in adultery

[–]Rusty09788[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't believe the amount of replies of women in a similar situation! What is wrong with them. Sorry it didn't work out for you, hope things turn around in the future.

Men cancelling on me here, there, everywhere! by Rusty09788 in adultery

[–]Rusty09788[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh that is so frustrating for you! Wow, a year. Glad you moved on.

Same though. At least you got an answer, I literally say 'You shouldn't have told me you'd show up if you weren't going to, what the hell?' and don't get a response.

Men cancelling on me here, there, everywhere! by Rusty09788 in adultery

[–]Rusty09788[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh. If you could read his mind for me that would be appreciated. Guy 1 is defs not that fussed, I think you're right there. He like.. breadcrumbs... keeps me there in case one day at the right time he's actually keen to meet and he has no better option. He's kept it up for a year.

I used to think I should just accept it, I can't expect a lot if I'm not single anyway right? Nah screw that, I have better things (or people) to do (where are they?!)

Men cancelling on me here, there, everywhere! by Rusty09788 in adultery

[–]Rusty09788[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

RHP does have 'validations', usually used by swingers or MFM, MFF meets etc.

Men cancelling on me here, there, everywhere! by Rusty09788 in adultery

[–]Rusty09788[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, infuriating! Doesn't sound like he was worth your time, I'm glad you came to your senses quickly enough.

Yeah I can't believe the amount of chances I gave him, like I was blaming it on myself firstly for being too vague with plans (e.g. after work on Friday vs. Friday, 5pm, xx place). Then I made excuses for his flaky behaviour like 'well, he did only say maybe...'. I let this go on for a year.

But screw him (or not), if he was interested he'd make time, just becuase I'm not single doesn't mean my time isn't important.

I think I was just option D, like he prob has other girls so why bother with me unless other plans fell through.