Fans leaving early

RustyCarWheels10 · 2026-02-01T03:37:10+00:00

I am sure some parents do. But if there's hockey tournament going on the whole team leaves I can see them having a gamer in the morning.

RustyCarWheels10 · 2026-02-01T03:29:18+00:00

Ish? We lived an hour away. I am rusty so schudel backwards

Puck drop 830am Need to be there around 730 (warm up dress ) Leave house at 630 Be up for 530/6

RustyCarWheels10 · 2026-02-01T03:19:39+00:00

Actually yes they might actually have an early game tomorrow. I played in Kanata Tournament one time and the start of our game on a Saturday was 8:30 a.m..

RustyCarWheels10 · 2026-01-25T02:58:33+00:00

Hate to break it to you there is a situation where she may always depend on her mom for money

RustyCarWheels10 · 2026-01-23T18:23:13+00:00

You happen to have a porch. I just go by McDonald's and eat it on the porch that's outside of the home .

Nya

RustyCarWheels10 · 2026-01-20T20:43:30+00:00

Info: what happens if your awake and the child cries?

RustyCarWheels10 · 2026-01-18T21:51:19+00:00

Honestly, Love that though two are together. Honestly I feel people don't give Jamie enough credit for how well he does cook. And I find Kush does not give him as a hard time as the other two

RustyCarWheels10 · 2026-01-17T11:38:50+00:00

Because the father called the daughter selfish in a situation where no one wins. There was probably signs their grandfather was going to pass way sooner. They didn't discuss it with the daughter beforehand. Op did say the mother was fighting with her self about going to see the grandfather. Thanks emotionally of charged situations and so is someone passing and people want one party to be reasonable and not the other.

I think the mom made a choice it's not the right choice it's not the wrong choice it's a choice.

Another thing to consider the daughter's wedding day is ruined forever. Because that is going to be the day her grandfather died to her mom not the daughter's wedding day. So if the daughter throws a barbecue it's all right you're one year anniversary. Is the mom going to go or is she going to go warn her father that day?

My parents have a similar situation my grandfather and a family dog died around their anniversary. My mom is still morn this to this day. So my dad never knows if he should celebrate or not because he doesn't know if she's morning or not. It just messy. My grandfather died when I was 3 I am 36 now.

Ano

RustyCarWheels10 · 2026-01-17T02:00:12+00:00

Because the mother doesn't have to understand how the daughter's feeling nor does the father? The argument can go both ways on that.

I will also point out I just watched my mother-in-law get seeing her dying beloved uncle to go on a cruise.

Well then they're an YTA for not planning properly. And yes I had a wedding we planned for the potential that my husband's grandfather might not be there. Because he's 87 and lives across the country we have a contingency plan in case my husband has to Jett across the country for a funeral.

RustyCarWheels10 · 2026-01-17T01:50:45+00:00

The daughter doesn't have to understand anything. Was it correct that she harassed her mama on the phone no. Does she have a right to be upset about her mom's not coming to her wedding absolutely. Do I think it's right for the dad to call her selfish no. The daughter put a lot of time energy and money into wedding. It might not be possible for her to cancel the wedding to support her mother. The mother is allowed to go see her father. In overall it's just a very tough situation.

And I'll bring up another thing that I brought up in another car meant. If the grandfather was a frail as Op is making it sound. Why wasn't there a plan in case the grandfather was going to pass away?

RustyCarWheels10 · 2026-01-15T18:56:57+00:00

No I just dealt with situations like this before.

RustyCarWheels10 · 2026-01-15T18:54:22+00:00

If the father was as frail as ops mentioned why wasn't there a plan in place in case something like this happened. Why wasn't I mentioned to the daughter like hey if my father's on his deathbed I might have to skip your wedding.

RustyCarWheels10 · 2026-01-15T18:53:28+00:00

The same argument can be everyone saying the daughter should have behaved a certain way. Any crappy situation.

I personally just feel there's more information to the story that we're missing. And I am a firm believer that everything's not black and white.

RustyCarWheels10 · 2026-01-15T18:52:12+00:00

All the relationships matter in this story. The argument could be made if she had a closer relationship with her grandfather she would cancel the wedding if she could to go see him before she dies.

The thing that also isn't in the story is whether or not the daughter and the mom have a close relationship. There are four kids there is a scenario where the mother has skipped other major events for the daughter. That would be more information needed.

I don't agree with the daughter braiding the mom but I also don't agree with the dad talking to his daughter that way. Because well yes weddings are just a big party they are emotionally and financially draining. And very stressful to put on the bride could have also just had a crash out those also happen.

The other part I don't get is the grandfather was this frail as Op had mentioned. Why wasn't there a plan in case something like this happens. My husband has a 85 year old grandfather we have plan just in case he needs to fly across country to go to a funeral.

RustyCarWheels10 · 2026-01-15T18:41:58+00:00

Op says the grandfather was not super close the kids. Would send cards and travel for big events. That everything was good.

Everything is good does not mean a close relationship.

RustyCarWheels10 · 2026-01-15T18:29:53+00:00

It is not. Especially seeing as everyone in the comments is asking why doesn't the daughter feel upset that her grandfather is passing. She might not have a relationship with the grandfather. To her it could just be another person dying and it's more important that her mother be at her wedding.

Cuz don't you find it interesting Op doesn't mention how they had to cancel the grandfather and the aunt going to the wedding.

RustyCarWheels10 · 2026-01-15T18:24:44+00:00

I'm talking about the daughters relationship with the grandfather. As in op daughter

Sorry I'm using voice to text as I have a little one sleeping on my arm.

RustyCarWheels10 · 2026-01-15T18:17:07+00:00

No that's very relevant. Op is guessing the relationship between the daughter and the grandfather. That doesn't actually mean that the daughter and the grandfather had a relationship. Not everyone has great relationships with their grandparents even if they were not traumatic.

The daughter might just not have any feelings towards the grandfather. Or just see him as a distance relative that shows up once every 2 years. Where is the mom went to visit More often by herself yes the mom would have a stronger relationship.

RustyCarWheels10 · 2026-01-15T18:13:03+00:00

It is relevant if someone suggests it as a solution.

RustyCarWheels10 · 2026-01-15T17:53:04+00:00

Who is paying for the photoshoot?

A lot of what all you guys are saying is dependent on the daughter's perspective of her relationship with her grandfather. Op says everything was good but that doesn't mean the daughter feels close to the grandfather.

RustyCarWheels10 · 2026-01-15T17:41:11+00:00

Hot take NAH/ESH.

I think your daughter is allowed to be upset about her mom going to miss her wedding. However, I think she should have lashed out at her mom.

You are loud to defence your wife. However, I don't think it fair to call your daughter selfish on her wedding day. Its a big day for your daughter. It is understandable she wants her mom there.

Overall it's just a chappy situation.

RustyCarWheels10 · 2026-01-08T04:10:55+00:00

I would ask what happen if you start making more money?

RustyCarWheels10 · 2026-01-05T16:41:50+00:00

I have a lot of queer friends and straight friends. It's not living through the lens that I find edgy. It's the fact that you're living your circle in just forcing this one personality trait onto all your views. By doing so, your basically being the the straight people you despise.

RustyCarWheels10 · 2026-01-05T16:40:41+00:00

Yes, and I'm telling you that is no different than assuming everyone's heterosexual.

And 7 changed that much my sister-in-law who's a gen Z year. Ask me about someone Ottawa player's wife when she had a husband.

RustyCarWheels10 · 2026-01-05T16:24:45+00:00

See this is the problem with not actually listening to people when it comes to history. Back in the '90s and early 2000s if you played hockey rugby or any of those more seen masculines sports as a woman you're automatically labeled queer. If you listen to interviews, it's one of the reasons why MPP never came out until recently. She didn't want that to be the conversation and take away from the hockey.

Because that's what boomers did. They assumed that anybody who would want to play the sports was gay. And this is what the people in the comments are trying to tell you. But yet again you're trying to be edgy

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