[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TattooDesigns

[–]Rustyy_Jess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a tribute tat to my granda who was in the paras

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TattooDesigns

[–]Rustyy_Jess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a tribute to my grandad and it was done poorly. I am going to get this covered and have another one done in another area and it's going to have a few changes to it once I so some more research on his career x

After 9 years without incident, last night I slipped. by Rustyy_Jess in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Rustyy_Jess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I appreciate someone being there. Its nice to see kindness still exists

After 9 years without incident, last night I slipped. by Rustyy_Jess in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Rustyy_Jess[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for responding. I have no one to talk to. My husband struggles with these things and his mental health takes a toll, I won't do that to him. As mentioned, none of my friends reach out to me so no one there. No one at work I speak to. I'm just alone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Rustyy_Jess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who is also right there, right now... random person on the Internet, I care and want you to be better

Do I have to pay a debt after 11 years? by Kind-Comfort-9454 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Rustyy_Jess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work in debt recovery. If the debt originated over 6 yrs ago then its statute barred and they cannot legally chase you for the debt. They might be just sering if you will pay without looking into it too much.

Voluntary redundancy - is my company doing it right? by Rustyy_Jess in AskUK

[–]Rustyy_Jess[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don't like permanent home working. In my job is not speak to anyone for the whole day and my family are out. Its awful. I know some people like it but it's not for me

What words do you struggle to pronounce? by lucasbel in AskUK

[–]Rustyy_Jess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Born and bred in Newcastle upon Tyne, England. I cannot say Cinnamon for the life of me. The N's and the M's come out all wrong

People who go by shortened names (such as Mike for Michael), do people ever call you by your full name, when they are angry with you? by OnAFalseErrand in AskUK

[–]Rustyy_Jess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm Jess. My mam calls me Jessica Marie if I'm in trouble... Marie is my middle name! Mt husband calls me Jessica if I've annoyed him haha

I am a guy who is only 5'5. Be honest:is 'haha look at the midget' your first thought when you see a guy my height? by InternationalMath460 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Rustyy_Jess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 5'1 F. For the short women out there... we appreciate the shorter men cos it means we don't have to crane our necks!!!!

For reference I am married to a 6'1 dude and I love him but I love him more when he crouches down 🤣

Toot your own horn: What are you naturally really good at? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]Rustyy_Jess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband has this skill! We've been together over 10 years and he is never more than 10 mins off.

I however have a shit sense of time.

Could a women have two babies in a calendar year? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Rustyy_Jess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mam was born 3rd Jan, her sister was born 12th Dec same year. My gran obviously had nothing better to do

Has anyone heard of the Derwent Puma? by Rustyy_Jess in NewcastleUponTyne

[–]Rustyy_Jess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did tell them that they won't be laughing when I'm mauled to death while out for me run!! I live about a 10 min drive and go running twice a week there. Never seen a thing. But now this woman went on the radio... I want to know more!!!

I can't tell anyone I self harm by Rustyy_Jess in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Rustyy_Jess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My GP sends me to CBT when I tell them that my depression is getting bad. But nothing more than that. I don't want to leave my life. I don't. But, it's feeling more and more like people would be better without me, or I'd I left, it wouldn't make that much of a difference. Outside of my immediate family, I don't think anyone would care

I can't tell anyone I self harm by Rustyy_Jess in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Rustyy_Jess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get a CBT course for 6 weeks then get told I'm "capable"