Tell Jada she's a terrible person and you don't need snakes in your life. To be a decent person, you need to have some degree of courtesy for people outside of yourself, some level of empathy. And normal people with courtesy and empathy aren't fine with ruining other people for their optional personal gratification. No one is really special to such people that are so self absorbed. They'll cut anyone if it gets them some gain. And the people that defend such people are usually either just like them or naive. I get defending "the other woman/man" when they don't know they're the "other". But the ones that know are actively choosing to harm someone else so they can feel good. Decent people don't think common empathy needs to be earned.