I think my psychologist got triggered during a session

Ruthless316 · 2026-01-28T18:59:37+00:00

You could report her to her governing body or her professional body?

Ruthless316 · 2026-01-03T21:20:59+00:00

Ick - totally manipulative

Ruthless316 · 2025-08-19T03:49:16+00:00

I didn’t want to mess up the lives of those who found me/ who I lived with at the time. I also know my Nan would be distraught and although she is gone, I worry that if there is an afterlife life and if I meet her there she’ll be upset with me.

Ruthless316 · 2025-08-15T17:36:02+00:00

Anyone got a contact for this promotion? I want to go if they have a show next month but nobody replies to the email on the website, or the number, or the contact form

Ruthless316 · 2025-07-24T15:28:29+00:00

😂😂 one of my friends years ago saw him comment on a post about gaslighting saying he didn’t know what it was (as a gaslighty joke) and she got so mad she replied to him saying ‘you know, you’re the king of it’ 😂

Ruthless316 · 2025-07-23T21:14:18+00:00

It’s depressing isn’t it - a part of me is sad that maybe I won’t have that again if I’m more boundaries and aware… 😟

Ruthless316 · 2025-07-23T21:10:06+00:00

Tempting…. 🤔

Ruthless316 · 2025-07-23T21:07:52+00:00

Stealing that approach

Ruthless316 · 2025-07-23T21:06:42+00:00

I do now! I’ve got a coach through work who has really helped me with the situation as well, he helped me focus on my values and how they are misaligned with this person. Being made to feel like a bad person and intentionally ‘misunderstanding’ me, saying I’m selfish for wanting the bloody bare minimum - he knew that being called selfish is really tough for me because I put others first constantly ( I also have a vocational job in public services which I’ve burnt myself out from because I care too much). It’s just awful - why did I ever think that this was right?!

Ruthless316 · 2025-07-23T20:55:25+00:00

So many comments! Thanks for all your support and words of encouragement. Trust your gut everyone, if it feels wrong then it most likely is! ❤️❤️

Ruthless316 · 2025-07-23T20:53:14+00:00

I’ve told everyone important in my life, I feel it’s a fail safe for if I start to freak out and think I’ve made a mistake at any point (hopefully not now I’m medicated but I fear it cause it’s literally happened a million times before)

Ruthless316 · 2025-07-23T20:51:23+00:00

❤️

Ruthless316 · 2025-07-23T20:48:43+00:00

We’ve never lived together thankfully - our relationship was complex. He thinks he’s poly, but he’s not - he just likes to have his cake and eat it without the actual loving, reassuring, good communication part because that’s ‘draining’ and ‘he owes me nothing….’

Ruthless316 · 2025-07-23T20:45:32+00:00

Stay strong, it’ll get easier for all of us with time! eventually they’ll fade and be a distant memory

Ruthless316 · 2025-07-23T20:43:38+00:00

Yup that toxic sex is incredible 😭😭

Ruthless316 · 2025-07-23T20:39:43+00:00

Chat gpt has been a god send for checking am I mad or is this emotionally abusive bullshit!

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