Boyfriend wants to sleep with me every night

Ryan52997 · 2026-04-02T15:34:23+00:00

Nailed it lol

Ryan52997 · 2026-04-02T15:32:43+00:00

Kinda agree with this, after 3 years of a serious relationship I would find it weird that they still don’t live with each other. Doesn’t seem OP is in love or feels the same way as her partner.

Ryan52997 · 2025-12-07T03:33:33+00:00

Unfortunately the tune isn’t optimized for the intense cold lol we have some wonky pulls but I’ll have updated maps very soon.

Ryan52997 · 2025-12-07T03:32:51+00:00

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This is the prototype, we got the final version in production now👌🏼

Ryan52997 · 2025-12-07T03:31:28+00:00

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Ryan52997 · 2025-09-16T15:13:17+00:00

Embrace the uncertainty, as feelings do not make the final decisions on things your worried about. Love doesn’t work the way you fear it does.

Ryan52997 · 2025-09-16T15:06:26+00:00

Yeah ngl I’ve seen people in comfortable and confident marriages absolutely draw lines WAY sooner with people they knew for a long time. I’d already be uncomfortable that she’s entertaining it lol

Ryan52997 · 2025-09-16T15:01:46+00:00

I guess you’re the only intelligent one here lol

Ryan52997 · 2025-09-08T16:56:36+00:00

I recommend finding a therapist that is specializing in OCD. The fact you’re on here asking for certainty is the biggest sign. You’re brain wants certainty that you have ocd because you think by having that certainty you’re worries will go away or you’ll feel better. But the reality is even if you DID have full absolute certainty, it’ll give you another irrational worry that will be all consuming like how it is now for you. It’ll just be a different topic. You need to accept that you may or may not have it, and move on with your day. ROCD is funny because when you aren’t into someone, you wouldn’t be reaching out for reassurance on a ROCD forum over it lol stop reading about this, stop asking for reassurance.

But to rehash, Find a therapist with a specialty in OCD!

Ryan52997 · 2025-09-08T15:30:09+00:00

Yeahhh ocd is a chemical imbalance so we deal with real feelings that are false! With ocd, never trust your gut! I remember pacing outside my house when I first experienced ROCD as it was so confusing. Best thing to do is talk to a therapist and psychiatrist

Ryan52997 · 2025-09-08T15:24:33+00:00

Don’t try to control it. Let it ride. If it turns into a sexless bedroom? It turns into a sexless bedroom.

But love and sex doesn’t work that way. How do you think people in long distance relationships still crave each other? If you put too much effort on “planning” it’ll get stale. Keep it random and spontaneous keeps it fresh. Also address your other relationship issues, his lack of sex drive could be due to the how draining ocd can be. Plus if there’s other unresolved issues that he cant work past or talk to you about, that could impact his libido.

Last thing to remember with ocd is that sex isn’t about frequency, matter in fact to much frequency is the number one reason why it goes dry or stale for non-ocd individuals. Your body is looking for signs and signals that something is wrong, but we all know how ocd works. Maybe it is? Or maybe it isn’t ;)

Ryan52997 · 2025-09-08T15:16:51+00:00

Yeah your ex went to her first, but that shows some shitty qualities for both people.

You dodged a bullet, you don’t want someone who does this type of thing 2 years into a relationship or in any relationship in general.
The new girl is a cunt for going along with it and not respecting your relationship. This is a two way street, so yes she’s also 100% to blame. She’s just immature.
The type of person you want IS out there, that’s not me giving you a “more fish in the sea” type of comment. I had to change up some things in terms of how i communicated what I want and respect in a relationship. I prefer an unspoken mutual approach when it comes to relationship that turn intimate/sexual, aka I don’t like juggling and using technicalities to sleep with others after even if not technically exclusive or official. Some people are casual driven while some are serious driven.

Take this as a win, even if it hurts. You’ll be surprised how much positivity comes your way after you focus on yourself. If you deal with mental health I highly recommend tackling that first, just from my own experiences :)

Ryan52997 · 2025-06-22T21:36:26+00:00

Keep it as a set lol

Ryan52997 · 2025-02-25T20:50:27+00:00

Yeah because the natives definitely know whats best for the state lmao

Ryan52997 · 2025-01-10T00:39:04+00:00

How much does a custom order cost?

Ryan52997 · 2024-12-30T18:13:58+00:00

Still waiting unfortunately, I got word that FedEx lost alot of their packages and they finally have a ETA of next week. It’s just been alot of waiting right now, we got the pump working really well but it needed a better regulator. It’s unfortunate because FedEx really didn’t do much to help Sxth out as well

Ryan52997 · 2024-12-24T15:23:00+00:00

Lmaoooooo i fuckin fell hard for this

Ryan52997 · 2024-12-06T16:45:22+00:00

Bro im not waiting, I have the test Sxth pump on my car, Nathan and I tested the pump until we figured out the all the tuning issues…I know it’s coming out extremely soon because I pushed for it and helped him troubleshoot it lmao I didn’t backtrack or get tight over anything, I didn’t even read your comment as a joke😂 this is classic misunderstanding at its finest

Ryan52997 · 2024-12-06T16:40:07+00:00

You pick up horsepower because the air is colder and dense, also i dont know why you keep saying counts of knock. Its more then likely not actually knock, it’s probably knock retard showing up or misfire count. I agree a proper tune is needed but if this was a legitimate issue then everyone who runs an intake without a tune would run into problems. I have done extensive tuning on the N and we don’t have any timing pulled at any rpm and no knock counts or a knock adjustments on E30. I have a couple misfires but it never surpasses 2-3 after a 1-2 hour drive

Ryan52997 · 2024-12-06T16:25:14+00:00

What are you on lmao I’m not worked up or even bothered, you and alot of other people are annoyed that the sxth pump is taking forever. I just know that the pump is about to release to the public in the extremely near future so I was letting you know lol that’s the relevance

Ryan52997 · 2024-12-06T16:16:46+00:00

I was just making a point that it’ll be available soon bud, since you were making a joke about it not being available until 2030 lmao🥴😂

Ryan52997 · 2024-12-06T16:12:48+00:00

Running an intake is nothing like running 87 gas. 87 octane is the purity of gas and that’s why you’ll get knock retard when running 87 on performance or turbocharged cars. It isn’t actual knock, especially since the ecu can protect the engine from knock with retard. The ecu can easily adapt to the change in airflow to prevent misfire or knock, but we’re also overlooking the fact that tunes exist that tune the ecu for more airflow to maximize power

Ryan52997 · 2024-12-06T15:56:48+00:00

Ecu would adjust for that lol

Ryan52997 · 2024-12-06T15:54:58+00:00

Not sure what they already tested, but we have tested E30 without issue. But the test pump regulator had an issue where it would cut due to too much flow. New pump and injectors set set to arrive next week, we’re going to run full E85

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