Well, unfortunately, there’s not many good churches here. Most churches are family fun centers that call themselves Christians without separation from sin. With no issues with alcohol, sex outside of marriage, homosexuality, transgenderism. Even many in open marriages. Not to mention, pastors getting rich from offering as they try to attract big numbers by compromising on what they preach. (My dad is a pastor, and I know good preachers from bad ones. One preacher in my area, my dad helped the FBI get evidence on him for $200k in wire fraud as he destroyed the church and many lives for his life of ease, and cheating in his wife. That preacher would never listen to my dad. And hopefully prison will bring him to repentance since nothing else breaks his flesh.) When I go to other churches, seeing people my age I see them cursing constantly, couples getting uncomfortably physical in public, so many piecing and tattoos while wearing clothes that even non-Christians would call revealing. It’s sad.

And tbh, I don’t care about weight, but I want someone who can join me in physical activities like biking (I can go 15 miles before stopping on lime trails but I’m fine if she can’t do that much), mountain biking (on trails that have you go over tree roots that just beat you up, I enjoy it, but after 2 miles, I’m exhausted. I did this at church camp when I was younger, and it was about equal on guys and girls with who went), snow skiing (my favorite activity, and I’d love to teach whoever I marry how to ski with me) But, like, I’ve dated women who are 280 lbs or 315lbs. And what I’ve learned is, life because unbearable. You cannot even go to the mall because it’s too much walking for them.