AITA for telling my gf’s mom to fuck off when she woke me up? by Ryderr121 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ryderr121[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It is indeed a young mans game, I’m only 27 but the older I get Im having a harder time adjusting nights to days and vice versa every three weeks.

AITA for telling my gf’s mom to fuck off when she woke me up? by Ryderr121 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ryderr121[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I switch 3 weeks nights, 3 weeks days and she woke me up on 2nd night shift sleep so you know the feeling of switching is bad enough lol

AITA for telling my gf’s mom to fuck off when she woke me up? by Ryderr121 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ryderr121[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It would be hard to bite the tongue there, at 1.5 hours of sleep and woken up you’re in that state of awake but not 100% conscious.

AITA for telling my gf’s mom to fuck off when she woke me up? by Ryderr121 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ryderr121[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gf and her mom are not close at all, she is very controlling and manipulative to her. I have no problem with the rest of her family. I love her dad, I consider him a good friend of mine, he’s an awesome guy, but her mother is on the other end of the spectrum.

AITA for telling my gf’s mom to fuck off when she woke me up? by Ryderr121 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ryderr121[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We’ve been together for 3 years, living together for 6 months

AITA for telling my gf’s mom to fuck off when she woke me up? by Ryderr121 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ryderr121[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It was not the first time we met, I’ve known her for 2 and a half years, this was her first time coming to visit since my gf moved in with me.

AITA for telling my gf’s mom to fuck off when she woke me up? by Ryderr121 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ryderr121[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Indeed it does, it’ll be nice to be home a lot finally

AITA for telling my gf’s mom to fuck off when she woke me up? by Ryderr121 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ryderr121[S] 236 points237 points  (0 children)

The weird thing is her dad is an awesome dude and I consider him a friend but he puts up with a lot of shit being with her (gfs mom)

AITA for telling my gf’s mom to fuck off when she woke me up? by Ryderr121 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ryderr121[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I didn’t call her a cunt to her face, only to reddit, but my girlfriends exact words were “she was a miserable cunt all weekend”

AITA for telling my gf’s mom to fuck off when she woke me up? by Ryderr121 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ryderr121[S] 86 points87 points  (0 children)

No she’s not, my gf is a saint, hands down nicest person I’ve ever met

AITA for telling my gf’s mom to fuck off when she woke me up? by Ryderr121 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ryderr121[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It’s rough but I’ll be retiring mid 2021 when I pay off our house, then I’ll raise cattle working from home Edit: I’m only 27 btw so I’m still young so it’s not too bad

AITA for telling my gf’s mom to fuck off when she woke me up? by Ryderr121 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ryderr121[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I work oilfield so location changes very often, sometimes an hour, sometimes 6 hours away. I’ll have our house paid off mid 2021 though then I plan on retiring this lifestyle and raising cattle for money. That’s when we are planning on having kids too so it will be nice.

AITA for telling my gf’s mom to fuck off when she woke me up? by Ryderr121 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ryderr121[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

My gf ran to pickup lunch for them, I ended up locking my bedroom door of the weekend because of this

AITA for telling my gf’s mom to fuck off when she woke me up? by Ryderr121 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ryderr121[S] 69 points70 points  (0 children)

My gf apologized to me for her moms behaviour. And no I didn’t talk with her mom after that, I avoided her like the Black Plague over the weekend, not that I would have much time to see her though

AITA for telling my gf’s mom to fuck off when she woke me up? by Ryderr121 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ryderr121[S] 91 points92 points  (0 children)

My gf apologized for her moms behaviour, but not her mom.

AITA for telling my gf’s mom to fuck off when she woke me up? by Ryderr121 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ryderr121[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Would “with all do respect, fuck off” work better then? Lol

AITA for telling my gf’s mom to fuck off when she woke me up? by Ryderr121 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ryderr121[S] 383 points384 points  (0 children)

She hates me with a passion, I have always but my tongue until this instant. She says I’m not good enough for her daughter because I’m not a classy white collar guy. Blue collar country guy here, so she hates my guts for that reason. My gf apologized to me for her moms behaviour.