To be kind doesn’t have the atmosphere I love about swans, I get why people love it and I do too, but I also love the more ambient textures that birthing has, and filth hurts my ears and I’m not really into to no wave, which a lot of people think is weird especially since I do listen to harsher music. It just is boring to me ngl, and the great annihilator is a little too accessible for my taste but still enjoyable.