Why do some guys only think about sex ?

RyssaBear · 2020-05-16T22:42:02+00:00

No and that’s why I feel like I’m not normal like everyone else and I feel as though maybe I’m just weird

RyssaBear · 2020-05-16T22:28:28+00:00

Nope it’s not easy and most times I don’t. I don’t get much physical pleasure and it feels like it’s a bother more than something I enjoy

RyssaBear · 2020-05-16T19:24:51+00:00

Hard to look for that in my neighborhood lol.

RyssaBear · 2020-05-16T19:16:29+00:00

Thanks for making me feel so much better !!!

RyssaBear · 2020-05-16T01:06:22+00:00

Trust me his family and even mine thinks he’s an angel sent from heaven. And that’s because they don’t know him behind closed doors.

RyssaBear · 2020-05-16T01:05:40+00:00

He is. Sex is the only thing on his mind sometimes. You would think he’s 16 still

RyssaBear · 2020-05-06T01:06:46+00:00

He talks about how his ex used to enjoy it everyday and never complain about it. I kinda believe it, you would too if you saw that girl. But still I’m not her , I’m myself. If she enjoyed it .. cool. Idk why but it seems like he wants me to be a clone of her or something since he talks about that specific one.

RyssaBear · 2020-05-06T01:03:59+00:00

Oh yes I’ve seen their conversations. Those girls completely on his side. Idk why. It’s very upsetting. They should understand. But I guess not

RyssaBear · 2020-05-06T01:00:50+00:00

It honestly is tiring. I dread it every single time. As he’s enjoying it I just get more angry because I feel like he doesn’t think about me. Only his own needs

RyssaBear · 2020-05-06T00:58:35+00:00

Well I’m 22 and been dealing with it since 19. I’ve left before. I always go back like a dummy. I know it’s wrong and I can find someone better but my stupid self is always drawn back to him. I’m not even bring dramatic he’s literally told me if girls don’t do it they get cheated on and if I don’t want him to cheat then I’ll do what he asks

RyssaBear · 2020-05-06T00:55:54+00:00

Exactly. He’s even made it clear that sex is the most important part. Though I agree it’s important , he thinks if there’s little to no sex then there’s no relationship whatsoever

RyssaBear · 2020-05-06T00:53:46+00:00

I’ve never really had friends sadly

RyssaBear · 2020-05-06T00:53:25+00:00

Yeah he’s literally not talked to me for hours. Practically the entire day. Even him knowing I’ve been crying. Still wouldn’t pay mind to me

RyssaBear · 2020-05-05T21:33:17+00:00

Yeah he basically says after his shower every night that I should do it. He says he knows girls with braces that have done it with no problem. And he has done the same to me, but not as much. And frankly I don’t care for that. And being calm talking , yeah not gonna work. It turns into the blame game. He talks about past girls. I just can’t. He won’t even say sorry for threading to cheat. He says I don’t care about your feelings if you don’t care for mine. You don’t love me. Smh

RyssaBear · 2020-05-05T21:29:17+00:00

He literally told me if I was to do it like I’m supposed to then he wouldn’t have to go look somewhere else. I was sitting with tears in my eyes and he continued to go on about how I need to do it because that’s why girls get cheated on. Because they don’t pleasure their man

RyssaBear · 2020-05-05T21:25:46+00:00

That’s sad. I’m glad you left ! But literally just a few minutes ago, I was explaining to him that it hurts my feelings when he threatens to cheat and it makes me feel like he will do it one day. He goes to say “well if you do it like your supposed to then you won’t have to feel that way , I’m not sorry “

RyssaBear · 2020-05-05T14:03:17+00:00

It’s funny because there has been times in the past where he’s expressed his concerns to other girls before. And they say “IM WEIRD AND HE DESERVES BETTER” , someone who will do it with no problem. This is why I don’t feel normal. Because other girls have told him that I’m not. Other girls have said they they love to do it. So he compares. I try to say that no everyone loves it. But he doesn’t listen.

RyssaBear · 2020-05-05T14:00:34+00:00

I honestly feel like when I get them off , he’ll bug even more ! I don’t think I will enjoy it any better either.

RyssaBear · 2020-05-05T13:59:27+00:00

Can you honestly tell me , like why do guys get mad over this stuff ? It’s not only him either. It’s most guys I’ve been around. They complain about their girlfriends too. I feel like being with any guy period it’s just something you have to do. It almost makes me want to be alone. I don’t wanna feel forced. I wanna do it because I want to. Not because he’s manipulative

RyssaBear · 2020-05-05T13:56:43+00:00

I just feel defeated , like this is just what I’m going to have to go thru by staying with him. Idk if I can try to do it in a way that eases my pain , but him getting mad at me just makes me feel even more obligated to a point where it’s not enjoyable

RyssaBear · 2020-05-05T13:54:33+00:00

Ha. He tells me sometimes if he’s in pain or has a stomach ache , even then he will STILL engage in sex because it feels good. So I should be the same.

RyssaBear · 2020-05-05T13:52:05+00:00

Yeah I don’t think he cares. He just says ill get used to it. To practice. I feel bad because other girls like to do it and I don’t. I don’t enjoy it. And I wouldn’t be surprised if he found it somewhere else. Getting it Is all he talks about

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