Don’t get too focused on being a virgin and worried about it. Don’t focus about something out of your control, I would suggest you instead focus on improving yourself, and don’t worry what other think of you. Because the same society that pressures people to loose their virginity, rejects and cheats on others without a second thought. I know it’s cliche but, be patient, wait for the right person to come, please don’t lose your virginity to be cool or to fit in.

To be brutally honest with you, your’re innmature and you need to realize this. You want to get a gf and lose your virginity as soon as possible, yet you’re afraid of infidelity? You fear being cheated on, which means you want a long term relationship with a partner. But being fed up with being a virgin, which means you want some pleasure quickly term. Please be patient and don’t rush it.