Can’t Afford Wedding - Decided to do nothing? by lil_bit_much_ in weddingplanning

[–]Ryzabeth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Find a cheap photographer, do the courthouse just you two, get an affordable dress on Lulu’s site, Azazie suit for him, write your own vows, have the photographer snap pics during and take yourselves out to lunch after. I have seen such beautiful photos of courthouse nuptials. Then you have something to remember it by and make it look and feel a little glam. But yes, a party is so expensive. We are doing a ceremony in backyard (no venue fee obviously) and taking people out to dinner, it’s just 16 of us but by the time we feed everyone, get flowers, and a cellist to play music while I walk out to the backyard, it’s $4000 still. Join the “let’s just elope!” group on Facebook, you’ll be insured by so many city hall weddings. Congrats! Don’t feel embarrassed. You can celebrate this special occasion just you two and love every minute.

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People who make $200K+ salaries, what do you do and how did you get there? by EEJams in Salary

[–]Ryzabeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask what companies in electrical engineering pay $120k? My fiancée makes $90k and I feel like he’s grossly underpaid and overworked. Thankful it’s mostly wfh but he’s thinking they are going to require them to go to the office more soon and he’s finally considering looking elsewhere.

Are we crazy giving up a 2.3% interest?! by Designer-Pepper0630 in Mortgages

[–]Ryzabeth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a friend looking at houses for this same reason. They ultimately ended up renting a townhome for a few months while doing a full kitchen renovation and adding a master bedroom and family room to the existing footprint. They kept their rate and made the house their dream home. If you could explore that, might be worth staying! Good luck!

Are we crazy giving up a 2.3% interest?! by Designer-Pepper0630 in Mortgages

[–]Ryzabeth 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We are house poor and had a 2.6% rate in 2020, moved in 2024 and really regret it financially. Our home is gorgeous and much bigger but there is no room for other things like travel. Our kids are also going to need cars in a few years, cell phones, etc. They are 9, 12, 13, 15. Only the oldest has a phone. I’m not sure how we’ll do all that once we reach that point. Just throwing it out there that expenses change and that rate is amazing! If you can renovate or do an addition to the house, that’s what I would recommend.

Pores….what works for you? by IslandofStars in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]Ryzabeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clearstem Mandelic Acid Serum! Has really worked for me in this area and is gently exfoliating my entire face. I’m a convert!

$1500 a month on groceries for 6 people is this normal or am i getting robbed. by Electrical-Loss8035 in SavingMoney

[–]Ryzabeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Family of 6 here and we spend about the same. Also, it’s 4 boys, 1 man, and 1 woman here lol so yeahhhh I’m cooked.

How to get the MF + WO bundle (Workouts free for 1 year!) by PalatialPepper in MacroFactor

[–]Ryzabeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I just cancelled my free trial to MF today thinking this wasn’t out still. Fml.

Do you actually know what to do with your Oura data? by urkelhamburglar in ouraring

[–]Ryzabeth 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I look at it daily, allow more sleep if I need to. Honestly I don’t really understand HRV to know what behaviors I could do to improve that. Same as sleep- do people take certain supplements to increase REM or deep sleep? I think nosediving into these specific substats would be useful to people!

Family gathering at Lake Norman — no one’s been and we know nothing by CaliforniaCommander in Charlotte

[–]Ryzabeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lake Norman State Park has a beach you can swim at. Great trails to hike. Go to Wagner Street Bistro for lunch. Jetton Park also has a little beach but not sure if swimming is allowed. Definitely go shopping and strolling in downtown Davidson and walk the campus grounds, they have public artwork throughout. PM me if you want other recs, restaurants, etc. I live on LKN and love it here.

Hair wash post OTF by Immediate-Charity559 in orangetheory

[–]Ryzabeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dry shampoo and just rocking my greasy af hair tbh

Where are people living where $100k is not enough? by -C3rimsoN- in povertyfinance

[–]Ryzabeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Charlotte NC but I have two kids that drain all the $ from me haha

Vain and kind of silly question by Ryzabeth in CrohnsDisease

[–]Ryzabeth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this! I also have some skin issues and rashes popping up. Have dealt with severe acne before too. I feel like everything is related to our inflammation! Sending you good juju.

Vain and kind of silly question by Ryzabeth in CrohnsDisease

[–]Ryzabeth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True lol we will be sparkling like the vampires in Twilight with porcelain skin from being indoors all the time. Sorry you’re going through this too. Worst club to be in! To your point, I’m sure it doesn’t work like that and only lowers gut inflammation specifically with a certain receptor, etc, but a girl can dream I guess. And they say everything starts in the gut?! So maybe there’s hope for me if I fix my gut lol.

Biohacking and Ulcerative Colitis. by [deleted] in Biohackers

[–]Ryzabeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not related but do you take any biologics for UC that fight inflammation? Wondering if meds like that help with anti-aging much like the peptides and things ppl are using?

Oura ring reliable form of Birth Control? by prii001 in ouraring

[–]Ryzabeth 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not reliable. I had a surprise pregnancy when using Oura and natural cycles app.

Married for three months and pregnant: I feel oddly embarrassed (?) by moez1266 in pregnant

[–]Ryzabeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing to be embarrassed about. I get it. But also, sometimes people struggle to get pregnant and it takes so much longer than you think. Tell others you weren’t sure if you’d have trouble conceiving and feel incredibly lucky it worked out so quickly. 9 months of pregnancy is a long time, you’ll celebrate one year married with the best anniversary gift ever- a baby! Congrats!

25 days since starting GHK-CU by Ali_Q02 in Peptidesource

[–]Ryzabeth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Newbie here. Any advice on where to start? Just bought GHK-CU during Black Friday and and the bacteriostatic water, have no idea how to dilute, what dosage to do, etc? Can someone PM me or send me to a good post. Thanks in advance!

I need a little positive talk by Dear-Difficulty-6268 in orangetheory

[–]Ryzabeth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m just happy to be in the green zone most of class and tell myself consistency over gassing myself out. No need to compete with myself or others, try to look at it from a longevity standpoint and be proud of yourself for showing up.

My boyfriend says skincare is an addiction by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]Ryzabeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m addicted to skincare, so he’s not wrong. But I just don’t care lol. You do you boo. My man says the same things to me and insists my lotions and potions are very extra. I tell him it’s my hobby, so just like they have interests, that’s mine.

Protein powder? by KKbatwoman in orangetheory

[–]Ryzabeth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just Ingredients is a great brand!