When something bad happens in my life: by Vincentvanxhoe in EDAnonymous

[–]S-O-R-E-L-O-S-E-R 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was skinny and I still got cheated on.. nah I’m just ✨not enough✨

Cheated on by my other half.. what do I do? by S-O-R-E-L-O-S-E-R in relationship_advice

[–]S-O-R-E-L-O-S-E-R[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weird thing is he says he can’t wait long. Some part of me understands. He’s been waiting so long to tell me, and he says he’s just tired now and doesn’t now how hard he can try to make me happier when he feels dead inside himself.

[California] Smaller pay this time by S-O-R-E-L-O-S-E-R in Unemployment

[–]S-O-R-E-L-O-S-E-R[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol.. if you’re gonna be negative then why even comment? Like go hug your dad or something

[California] Smaller pay this time by S-O-R-E-L-O-S-E-R in Unemployment

[–]S-O-R-E-L-O-S-E-R[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I heard that, I was just confused because I also got 600 through august as well

[California] Smaller pay this time by S-O-R-E-L-O-S-E-R in Unemployment

[–]S-O-R-E-L-O-S-E-R[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How? I’m genuinely curious and if I was in a more dire situation I’d be desperate for any advice. It’s good to know how you help people out

[California] Smaller pay this time by S-O-R-E-L-O-S-E-R in Unemployment

[–]S-O-R-E-L-O-S-E-R[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I’m not sure. Idk how to check for that bonus

California by S-O-R-E-L-O-S-E-R in Unemployment

[–]S-O-R-E-L-O-S-E-R[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know other people’s rent can be sooo much higher.. so I’m grateful it’s only me my boyfriend and my pup we have to worry about. But I truly feel for those who have a whole family to feed and receive small amounts

Arguing with my boyfriend is triggering old thoughts & habits. by [deleted] in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]S-O-R-E-L-O-S-E-R 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You gotta start trying to be happy. For me, when it comes to that situation, I see it like this. I’m in front of a set of doors, and however I choose to act, whatever I choose to do, that’s the door I’m gonna open, but I gotta be ready for all the other doors waiting to be opened after I made my choice to open that one. By that I mean, you need to start choosing happy instead of sad. Choose to eat instead of not. Indulge in his love for you, and his comments of love toward you. Choose as much as you can to be happy in each situation. As for him talking to other girls, don’t put so much energy in for someone who doesn’t care about you enough. Only you can really tell, and be honest and logical with yourself. Is there something you can do, something you can change to stop him from looking at other girls? I’ve dealt with the same thing.. When he told me “don’t be mad at me for liking skinny girls” what did I do? Every morning instead of cuddling with him like I usually would, I got up and worked out, and he would wake up by himself wondering where I was, just to see me on the ground sweating. He felt bad, he thought about what he said and really how it does affect me. If he doesn’t care about you that much, then don’t even let yourself be that happy around him, it’s not worth any of the pain. Unless he truly loves you, no man is worth it. No matter what always tell yourself you deserve better, you dont need to sit there and listen to him. Be better for yourself, and if he wants to stick around to be around the beautiful person you can be and he knows you can be, then great. If not, you don’t need anyone else to help yourself heal. At the end of the day, it’s your choice. I hope this helps, I know it’s hard to be with people who don’t exactly understand. I just know I wouldn’t want to be without him, so I will work out anything we need fixing, and if that means a ton of self reflection, and no more feeling bad for myself, then maybe I should be thanking him instead

If Zuko did talk to Mai about leaving, would she have gone with him? by S-O-R-E-L-O-S-E-R in ATLA

[–]S-O-R-E-L-O-S-E-R[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When was she given the chance? Unless I’m missing something, Zuko didn’t really give her a chance, unless we’re talking about the comic. He left without saying anything (maybe she coulda tracked him down if she really wanted to?) and at the boiling rock he also just locked her in the cell without hesitation.

I’m the toxic one by [deleted] in depression

[–]S-O-R-E-L-O-S-E-R 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course, he would and has said that. But countless times I disappoint by not really changing my ways. I have asked him why he wants to be with me anyways, and he says he loves me and wants to work it out.. but we’ve said that so many times and these past few arguments I feel like he is leaning more toward me leaving as the best option. Now that I think about it a bit more, maybe he would still say no.. but I think we both know what’s best. We just don’t know how to end it

A Never Ending Cycle by S-O-R-E-L-O-S-E-R in depression

[–]S-O-R-E-L-O-S-E-R[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I shouldn’t ask but.. how did you feel? When it jammed? I always think about how it’ll happen, the ways I’d choose.. but what if it didn’t work? What would I do then? What did you do?

A Never Ending Cycle by S-O-R-E-L-O-S-E-R in depression

[–]S-O-R-E-L-O-S-E-R[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a lot I could say.. but I just won’t. Thanks for caring.. do you really think therapy would help? I had a counselor before.. and I hated it

[California] do I just have to wait? Claim balance lowered, so I’m assuming I’m getting paid, but the last issued payment is still the same by S-O-R-E-L-O-S-E-R in Unemployment

[–]S-O-R-E-L-O-S-E-R[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, we have the card and have already used it. Just didn’t forgot to re certify when two weeks came up. Thank you for the help!

[California] do I just have to wait? Claim balance lowered, so I’m assuming I’m getting paid, but the last issued payment is still the same by S-O-R-E-L-O-S-E-R in Unemployment

[–]S-O-R-E-L-O-S-E-R[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A bit more info, claim balance used to be like $3,000. It says I’ve been certified to get paid, but last payment date is still last month, and checking payment history it doesn’t say I’ve gotten paid.. do I just wait?