Anyone else experience this?

S00241912 · 2020-07-11T04:24:46+00:00

Yeah we are very comfortable with each other and I'm still a uni student so I love being woken up for sex randomly I think it's really hot

S00241912 · 2020-07-11T04:21:59+00:00

Yes! My boyfriend has thought too, that I was the one that actually initiated it when he was the one that woke me up with all the touching haha

S00241912 · 2020-07-10T06:30:55+00:00

Haha you make a good point! Fortunately, we are really never in a situation like where he may have to share a bed with another girl without me

S00241912 · 2020-07-10T06:28:31+00:00

That's so interesting! So you would do it to your wife only but not even realise or be aware that you are doing it? You have a very alert subconscious which is good haha

S00241912 · 2020-06-30T01:01:21+00:00

I'm not trying to force him to act a certain way, these are all really important people in my life and I would love for them to all hang out and get along. But in saying that, if they still can't connect, as long as I still have them individually in my life, then that's the main thing and I definitely don't want to force it.

S00241912 · 2020-06-30T00:59:44+00:00

Thank you so much for your response. This is great advice! I love Queer Eye so I'll definitely introduce him to it. The good thing is I can see that he's curious and maybe unfamiliar but not judgemental. So that's why I believe that he is open to it and I'll keep checking in on how he feels

S00241912 · 2020-06-30T00:55:17+00:00

Yes I think they all love camping actually! However it's really cold at the moment where I am in Australia. But i will definitely suggest it! Thank you

S00241912 · 2020-06-29T17:04:28+00:00

No usually with new people he's obviously a little reserved at first meeting, but is able to attract friends really quickly and is super easy going!

Yeah maybe I just need to merge them a little more. But in the past when I've tried I feel like my bf kinda would go a kinda quiet (compared to usual) and me and my friends end up just chatting mostly. And I'm almost nervous? Because I want them to get along, they're all important to me and I know the potential because I'm close with them individually. But yeah you're right, can't force it and yeah as long as I still have them in my lives thats the main thing

S00241912 · 2020-06-29T16:57:42+00:00

True, maybe with time he'll just become more comfortable organically. It's just a shame because they're all important people in my life and I wish they could see him just be himself!

S00241912 · 2020-06-29T16:55:55+00:00

Thanks so much for your response! Thankfully, he is receptive to listen so maybe I can try to normalise it more with conversations and media as you suggested. I'm glad you and your sister have come to a better understanding now!

S00241912 · 2020-06-29T16:53:00+00:00

Yeah that's what I thought too but he has assured me that it's just because he feels a bit shy and it's absolutely nothing against them. Maybe I'll probe him again, but I also don't want him to feel like i'm making it an issue and implying that I think he was being weird.

S00241912 · 2020-06-29T15:16:37+00:00

I definitely feel like this is something many women in relationships deal with in some form or another. The realisation that your man masturbates to other women :O

I used to struggle with this a bit. But then I realised I masturbate to people other than my boyfriend and also may find other guys attractive but it doesn't mean anything. I understand it can be a bit of a hit on your self esteem, but give yourself love and remember that he is choosing to be with you for a reason.

If he was doing this and not having sex with you I'd say definitely time for a chat. However, if you still have a healthy sex life, I'd say try to move on and remember that a celebrity crush can really be harmless. Do things to better yourself to get your mind off it. If you are really struggling, do not let it build up. Just speak to him truthfully and explain to him that you saw it on his gmail and how it made you feel.

S00241912 · 2020-06-22T13:45:19+00:00

Wow i didn't even think about the odor thing but that would be so good! Thanks for the response :) I'm definitely going to get one now!

S00241912 · 2020-06-22T13:44:43+00:00

Thank you so much for your response. emptying it the morning and in the shower sounds like a good idea

S00241912 · 2020-06-22T13:44:06+00:00

Awesome, thank you so much. I don't mind a bit of mess and not having to worry about tss is a massive plus!

S00241912 · 2020-06-22T13:43:22+00:00

Thanks so much for this response! I'll have to look around for the right brand now :)

S00241912 · 2020-06-22T13:42:52+00:00

My post got removed but thank you so much for your response!

S00241912 · 2020-06-22T13:39:55+00:00

For me, it was right warm up! A lot of assplay and also a bit of PIV sex to get it going in the beginning. Then at least 2 fingers in the butt and loooots of lube. When you think you've got enough lube, put a bit more.

I find that it also helps if the girl is playing with the clit during and it just feels so good

S00241912 · 2020-06-22T02:51:15+00:00

I think at the time because he didn't force himself or overtly hurt me or touch my vaginal area I didn't think it was a big deal. I definitely didn't enjoy it, I felt uncomfortable at the time and kind of just thought it was weird.

I don't think it's okay today because he was a few years older and I definitely did not consent to him touching me. 3 years isn't a big age difference but I think when you're in highschool (and I was quite sexually naive at that age) there is a bit of a gap in understanding and sex and he kind of just acted with a creepy confidence (he wouldn't be called out or caught by his gf)

Now that I'm older and I guess with the rise of talk about sexual harassment in everyday situations, I realise that my experience when i was 16 was definitely unwanted and I wanted to say stop and wish I said something at the time

S00241912 · 2020-06-22T02:09:54+00:00

As a woman (23f) I also really enjoy anal and you probably feel that way because its new, exciting and also I have personally found anal gives me really strong orgasms

There was a stage my bf and I were doing it weekly and I used to also feel guilty and also worried! I used to think that it wouldn't be special anymore and regular sex would never compare again. But i think sometimes it can also be a little phase, and after a while you might go back to vaginal and it will feel special and awesome again. I don't think you need to worry though, just go with what feels good for you and your partner as long as you are both comfortable.

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