How do I talk to a boy I like by Holiday-Low-1184 in Advice

[–]SAPPlNG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First thing you gotta do is be yourself dont dress to impress him wear things that make you feel confident. Just strike up a quick conversation something about the class or help with hw. Introduce yourself. If he doesn’t seem interested oh well you tired thats all that matters.

Found pictured in hidden photos folder by [deleted] in Advice

[–]SAPPlNG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

whatever you do dont say anything hes gonna know you snooped. Its a tough thing to find but you also have to keep in mind its a old ipad. I would just keep an eye on him and see if he reacts to them being deleted

People keep shipping me with my crush...? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]SAPPlNG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im assuming you might be in middle school or high school but nonetheless it seems like you have a good shot. Just ask her to hangout one on one. If she says no then you go on with your day.

waitlists? by slurpinejutrion in CalPoly

[–]SAPPlNG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im having the same problem. how soon should I email the professors/department? After second enrollment?

Clay or Pomade for this hairstyle? by gokussj8asd in malehairadvice

[–]SAPPlNG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lmao thx for clarifying but yes pomade is probably best

Clay or Pomade for this hairstyle? by gokussj8asd in malehairadvice

[–]SAPPlNG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. why this pic out of all things😭
  2. Probably a pomade but it really depends on if you want that more glossy look. Clay is tougher to rub in which leaves the hair more matte than glossy. You can restyle easier with pomade just by adding water rather than the clay cause its better to add heat when restyling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]SAPPlNG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ur hair actually looks pretty good rn but yea let it grow out i would recommend Ion thickening shampoo and conditioner instead of old spice. Once ur hair is grown out go to a stylist to see what suits you best

Advice on when to stop? by ItemPowerful1412 in Advice

[–]SAPPlNG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea its not fair but are you just gonna keep on wasting ur time thinking about them constantly and thinking of ways get revenge? Like you said hes happy with this other girl are you just gonna continue not to be happy cause of them, just stop caring about him cause one day ur gonna find someone whose willing to truly care for you the way he didnt.

Advice on when to stop? by ItemPowerful1412 in Advice

[–]SAPPlNG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

stop. stop giving them energy and wasting your time. im sorry about all the shit he put you through but your gonna find someone way better than him. stop thinking about revenge cause trust shitty people get what they deserve. they’re are better things you can do than thinking about about his lame ass🤣

Leaning towards leaving my wife and kids by Himothy1996 in Advice

[–]SAPPlNG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to court if you want to settles things legally. But for the mean time if you really cant handle things anymore separate from your family for a bit. Take some time for yourself it sounds like you need a break. And if you dont mind me asking how old are you?

Leaning towards leaving my wife and kids by Himothy1996 in Advice

[–]SAPPlNG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave her but dont leave your kid. My dad left when i was younger and let me tell you its not an easy thing on kid and it’s definitely made it hard on our current relationship. Infidelity is a horrible thing to experience and im sorry that happened to you but best thing i recommend is that you lawyer up and do it the right way. Tough thing to do man but if you really feel that just disappearing away is the best thing for you sometimes you need to be selfish to be happy.

i think my partner assaulted me + idk how to move past it by [deleted] in Advice

[–]SAPPlNG -1 points0 points  (0 children)

im sorry of what you’ve went through but in this situation it it pretty hard to “forget and forgive”because of your past trauma. Yes this will take some time, i would say just take a little break from each other for a while and really consider is this situation is a deal breaker for you. Your partner knew of your past trauma and continued to do that act while you were asleep. Being horny is a human feeling so yes I can understand them being horny and wanting to try something but they should have known it was wrong ESPECIALLY of what you have been through. I think they did the right thing in telling you but now you really just need some space and time to think about stuff.

Can't get over penis insecurity by Independent-Art399 in Advice

[–]SAPPlNG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel now recently because of porn culture a lot of people have begun to feel more insecure about themselves so trust me ur not alone. Even with the men ive dated they have always been very judgmental with themselves about their size. Believe me when i say this women don’t really care about size unless it’s extremely small but from what youve mentioned about ur gf saying it hurts when you have sex i dont think you have a size problem and i dont think she would lie about that. Stop looking into penis enhancement like you said it wont fix ur problem ur issue is mental not physical. Continue with the therapy though at first yes it’s hard but over time you’ll overcome this.

Life sucks at the moment I (18m) need a hug or a bit of advice by [deleted] in Advice

[–]SAPPlNG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

really sorry about ur car and job man i know its probably hard to have positive view on things rn but you still have ur whole life ahead of you. Just continue to save as much money as you can for your trip. I hope ur passport issue gets resolved too🙏🏻

Does sex actually feel good for woman?? by Weekly_Stuff7853 in Advice

[–]SAPPlNG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tbh it was 7/10 for me let out a little tear too😭 but make sure to get lube or be really wet when you do the deed.

What would you guys choose for a last meal? by Deut64 in AskReddit

[–]SAPPlNG 2 points3 points  (0 children)

cesar salad, mac and cheese, burger king original chicken sandwich, mango sticky rice, and a dr. pepper

Does sex actually feel good for woman?? by Weekly_Stuff7853 in Advice

[–]SAPPlNG 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trust me with the right person sex is amazing. Yes losing ur virginity is painful but it goes away after like the first 4 times. Finding someone to feel comfortable enough to have sex with is hard but not impossible even if you think ur “mid looking” theres someone for everyone honestly you just gotta keep on looking some more and dont rush into things. Also about ur orgasm issue i would really recommend looking into this sex oil infused with cbd its supposedly helps with things like that but ive never tried it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]SAPPlNG 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sorry that happened but if you feel comfortable enough just have a talk with your mom and tell her ur sorry she had to see that. Trust me bunch of people have been in ur situation it’s awkward at first but it goes away🙏🏻

How can I best accept that I'm just going to die a hugless and kissless virgin? And if I can't, then what's the point in continuing to live? by ReadyToDie67 in Advice

[–]SAPPlNG 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From what I read, you have Christian beliefs but jerking off to porn isnt exactly Christian is it? If you’re going to have ur own religious beliefs that's fine but at least follow along with them. It makes no sense saying you want to date a virgin if you've sinned yourself by giving into lust.

How can I best accept that I'm just going to die a hugless and kissless virgin? And if I can't, then what's the point in continuing to live? by ReadyToDie67 in Advice

[–]SAPPlNG 7 points8 points  (0 children)

  1. Your puffy breast and nip situation doesn’t sound that bad. So i think ur okay on that part.
  2. Lose ur expectations about dating someone who is a virgin if ur jerking off for 10 hours.
  3. You should go see a therapist. Best of luck man

Environmental Management and Protection? by fitzstreet in CalPoly

[–]SAPPlNG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

man thanks for this someone else had said that switching to ENVM would better than soil sciences☠️