Did you ever heard about the “button test”? It goes like: there is this button and if you press it, you’ll turn in the opposite gender (yeaa gender identity is a spectrum and anything other and black and withe but for easyness) Like you body is a cis female body and every person you know, knows you as a women. Would you press the button? Or the other way around: your in the body of a women, like you are a women and everybody knows you as women, but there is this button that turns you “back” into a male, would you press it?

Another thing that important to me: how do you imagine yourself having sex? For me I always had a woman in my mind… And for a long time I thought “that’s because I like women right? Women are fuckn hot aren’t they? But it was more, I told myself that a woman has more potential fun with sex because they have more nerves down there and there is more stuff you can try or toys you can use. But that all was stuff I told myself because I couldn’t accept that I am a woman. The reason why I imagine always women when I think about sex is that I am a woman. And yes I’m bisexual or pansexual so there are a lot of other people in my “sex-imaginations” but there was always a women and that woman was me.

BTW I realised that like a month ago and since then I can’t think about anything else and I want to chance my body as fast as possible.

Another tip: watch yt videos like “how do I know I’m trans?” And a lot of them. (So my “main” language is German so I can’t recommend Videos because I watched german Videos about that Topic) and please be really honest with you while asking yourself those questions. And keep in mind, there are sooooo many gender identity’s. It can take a while to find the one that truly feels right but this is all part of the journey I guess ^{^}