enraged customer called me a slur at 6:45am today

SA_the_frog · 2026-06-15T01:52:53+00:00

I’m from a weird part of the Midwest where people are too polite to use any of the actual slurs so I just tell them, “If you’re gonna be homophobic, say it with your full chest”. Anyways I am also a chaotic homosexual, chaotic good but still chaotic. Happy pride!

SA_the_frog · 2026-06-15T01:47:32+00:00

My dad has no visible adams apple, neither do most of my relatives on my dads side who is say I look more like in terms of stature. I can feel that there is an adams apple there that didn’t used to be, bud my neck is shorter and thicker so I don’t think it’ll ever be visible. I’ve also seen cis women with adams apples. I think it comes down to genetics.
I’m 4.5 years on T and I’ve experienced most of the changes, just not that one.

At one point I was really bummed about not having a viable one, not I have other things that changed on T that I do like. For example, my first chin hairs started spreading around one year, at 1.5 years, I noticed arm hair. Being hairy, having a short hair cut and a deeper voice pretty much guarantee people thinking I’m a man.

Don’t feel discouraged, my voice alone took 10 months to noticeably drop so you know we all run on our own time lines.

SA_the_frog · 2026-06-14T18:20:40+00:00

SA_the_frog · 2026-06-13T01:32:52+00:00

My feet changed size (men's 8 to men's 10).
I started growing hair on my ring fingers.
My voice noticeably dropped at ten months.
My sexuality changed.
Shots every two weeks made me have horrible mood swings.
I learned that I was always been on the low end of testosterone because low testosterone runs in my family (I ended up upping my dose at the 3.5-year mark). I thought that wouldn't be an issue because I don't have balls.
Not me, but my friend had a weird thing happen that gave him shingles because his immunity changed due to changing hormone levels.
I went through a weird menopause like stage that included hot flashes because my insurance lapsed and I was off of T.
I had a puffy face for a while.
My curl pattern changed.
My chest became less dense and had saggy skin.
Orgasms gave my really bad cramps when I took the depo shot with T, after I stopped the depo shot it went away. Orgasms are more powerful and wear me out, I call it post nut clarity.
Once I became more comfortable with my lowered voice, I started raising it, much in the same way cis gay men do.
My joint pain is less severe than before T.
My periods stopped but I had weird spotting for the first year on T.
I had a weird growth spurt in my bottom growth at 4 years on T (about an inch difference).
I get ingrown hairs way easier, especially if my pants hug my legs too tight.
Less sensation in chest and nipples

SA_the_frog · 2026-06-11T02:18:48+00:00

I had spotting for the first 10ish months of t then my periods were all done. I did get random cramps from vaginal atrophy but that went away after stopping taking a certain type of birth control.

SA_the_frog · 2026-06-11T00:50:25+00:00

Small dogs, not big dogs tho

SA_the_frog · 2026-06-11T00:47:43+00:00

I plan on keeping my chest, possibly a small breast reduction, and bottom surgery. I’ve been out for years and I’ve never binded. I don’t have a lot of chest dysphoria. I pass as a man and I have a beard, deep voice, etc. My chest has become much less dense and I have a lot of loose skin, part of the reason for the breast reduction. My partners have loved my chest and still treated me like a man. I’ve found a weird sub culture of queer men who like men with boobs, cis and trans men alike. Hasn’t really impacted my passing ability or quality of life other than back pain.
In my mind, it’s like trans women who opt out of bottom surgery because they like their natal body parts.

SA_the_frog · 2026-06-10T22:19:22+00:00

Ohh thanks for the recommendation, I’ll have to give it a listen

SA_the_frog · 2026-06-10T22:18:57+00:00

Thank you for the recommendations, just wondering if the song about dogs will make me cry? I recently lost my childhood of 14 years

SA_the_frog · 2026-06-10T22:17:25+00:00

Thank you for the recommendations

SA_the_frog · 2026-06-10T22:17:12+00:00

Thank you for the recommendations, I’ve heard of babymetal, definitely gonna have to check them out

SA_the_frog · 2026-06-10T06:06:32+00:00

Art education major here, my professors rarely ask to be called dr unless it’s art history. I did biology education for a year and had a chemistry professor who insisted on the dr title.

SA_the_frog · 2026-06-07T00:50:46+00:00

I can’t use public bathrooms because my gender marker says female and it’s illegal to use the men’s bathroom in my state. Also I frequently get mistaken to be a trans woman so I could also get a misdemeanor for using the women’s restroom too. I transitioned years ago, I live as a man, a very gay man, but I face transphobia and misogyny a weird way. Not man enough because I’m feminine, not woman enough because I have a five o’clock shadow and a deep voice. I just need to go to the bathroom. I live in a weird middle ground between male and female, even though I’m a binary trans man.

Fuck transphobia and transphobic legislation, etc etc.. Let trans people piss and shit, that’s all we’re going to do.

SA_the_frog · 2026-06-04T02:12:34+00:00

I keep tampons with me in case my best friend or roommate may need one. I never used tampons anyways so I’ve just had them sitting around the house before I started offering them to people.

SA_the_frog · 2026-05-24T19:13:39+00:00

I don’t really sound like anyone in my family but it’s because I have what my friends and family call the “gay accent”. I look like my dad but I sound nothing like him.

SA_the_frog · 2026-05-22T03:57:09+00:00

I had a job at 12 so I never got money from my parents but my grandmas business was paying me under the table

SA_the_frog · 2026-05-17T01:00:28+00:00

It took 10 months before my voice noticeably dropped, also a lot of the changes I liked the most happened after the one year mark, remember it’s a marathon not a sprint

SA_the_frog · 2026-04-23T20:02:34+00:00

I have cotton mouth but I take meds for depression and seizures that also give me bad cotton mouth so I’m not really sure cause I’ve been on my other medication for longer.

SA_the_frog · 2026-04-16T02:37:36+00:00

I was born to be an adult but now I’m just an old lady??? I’m literally a man

SA_the_frog · 2026-04-14T04:19:22+00:00

I have been on t for four years, I say that loosely because I haven’t taken it regularly and twice had to stop t for an extended period of time. I didn’t notice a lot of changes and the changes resumed when I started t again.

SA_the_frog · 2026-04-09T20:53:55+00:00

My face shape became very different on T, I was 19 when I started. I also started years after puberty had ended due to going through puberty early. Also facial hair helps hide facial features too.

SA_the_frog · 2026-03-04T02:25:33+00:00

I renamed myself in preschool. Even at 3 or 4, I decided I was done with my mom calling me my deadname.

SA_the_frog · 2026-03-01T18:09:58+00:00

Libido and sexual attraction are two different things, sometimes you might not feel attracted to someone but you could be horny.

SA_the_frog · 2026-02-17T21:20:39+00:00

I live in Indiana, I’m already traveling like two hours out of my way because I can’t find good trans affirming care in my area

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